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giftofcontrol - 9/8/2005 12:06:12 PM   
giftofcontrol


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Status: offline 		why hi why do the slave or sub on this site not mail you back after you mail them even if you ask them to mail you yes or no they dont or they mail back and start to talk then just stop no reson at all i have mail a lot of slave on here got no reply at all some of you read my profile and tell me where and what to do to make the plp on here mail me back them mail me on here any help will be good thxs
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RE: giftofcontrol - 9/8/2005 12:15:30 PM   
ChainedAngel


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Status: offline 		You can't make anyone here do anything. They will choose to email you back at their discretion.

Maybe they are swamped with emails and so choose to only answer the ones that interest them, maybe they are picky and so choose only answer those that interest them, or maybe they just don't feel like dealing with the impending "fuck you, you are not a real sub/slave" responses that are the commonplace responses to "no thank you" emails.

In any case, patience is the key here. If someone does not answer you, it is because they simply choose not to do it, so the best advice I can give you is take this as a roundabout sort of rejection and just move on.

< Message edited by ChainedAngel -- 9/8/2005 12:16:39 PM >

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RE: giftofcontrol - 9/8/2005 12:38:13 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		I can only suggest that you post more frequently on the board and let people begin to know who you are and what your about. You appear to be new here by your number of post, so subs may be hesitant to reply. Also, those that you do e-mail, make sure you read their entire profiles and know that they are looking for what you may be offering.
Other than that....just keep jacking off til you finally get lucky....works for me!

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RE: giftofcontrol - 9/8/2005 12:45:06 PM   
JohnWarren


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Status: offline 		You've gotten some good advice.

You also might consider taking some care in how you construct your initial messages. There have been several notestreams here about how people react to grammar and spelling.

After all, you wouldn't go to a munch in clothing that stunk of sweat, without combing your hair, washing your face and hands and brushing your teeth. Would you?

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RE: giftofcontrol - 9/8/2005 2:35:41 PM   
lonewolf05


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Status: offline 		i do not know....but i had as much trouble with dommes doing that too.

wolf


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RE: giftofcontrol - 9/8/2005 2:59:10 PM   
Tempestspet


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Status: offline 		You've gotten some good advice here. All I can think to add, without repeating much I hope...
As John Warren suggested, you wouldn't go to a munch or function, unkempt and shabby.... so make your profile, and the wording of your messages convey the same thing. Read other's profiles carefully, and taylor each message you send out, to them. Don't send out obvious bulk messages. You look fine, but your pic seems to make you look, unhappy, unsatisfied.... perhaps take a picture that presents you as more ...content, happy. I don't mean grinning like a fool...smiles... just not looking depressed.

All this.... and you should be great!!!... Have patience... The good ones are hard to find sometimes, but there's one out there for you!!

Sincerely,
Tempest's pet
jennifer

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RE: giftofcontrol - 9/8/2005 4:28:37 PM   
kc692


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http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=48540
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=103884
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=154209

These are the threads with dominants complaining that subs don't answer their emails. There are many more with subs complaining dominants don't answer. I'm sure you will find lots of info to give you food for thought on these threads.

Also, most when looking at a profile look for somewhat correct speeling and grammar. Just a little food for thought...

Welcome to the boards.

edited to add: man, I lost my handcuffs, but got a paddle. I wish I could've kept 2 handcuffs and got the paddle too, smiles...

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RE: giftofcontrol - 9/8/2005 6:15:58 PM   
Dracironsgirl


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Status: offline 		maybe it's because of all the typos in Your profile Sir
Respectfully said
~kristin

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RE: giftofcontrol - 9/8/2005 6:28:23 PM   
cellogrrlMK


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quote:

ORIGINAL: fastlane

Other than that....just keep jacking off til you finally get lucky....works for me!


OMG, I'm SO GLAD I didn't have anything liquid or solid in my mouth when I read this! ROTFLMAO!

On another note, for Jeff (giftofcontrol).... dude, have a friend help you with your profile. It is one long run-on sentence, full of misspellings that make you look not very intelligent at all, as is your original post here. Your profile is the first impression you make on people.

For those who will call me a spelling/grammar knotsie, tough titties. I wouldn't answer an email that looks like this, and I'm usually polite and answer everyone who emails me.

cello

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RE: giftofcontrol - 9/8/2005 6:45:28 PM   
sanita


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quote:

ORIGINAL: cellogrrlMK

For those who will call me a spelling/grammar knotsie,


hmm, that would be "Natzi," would it not?

*grin* although... in the Bondage lifestyle... you could have just coined a new term....

"knotsie"
-Top or bottom involved in Bondage & Discipline with a hard-nosed stance about a pet peeve. Said pet peeve could fall into any number of categories.

-Knotsies are often proponents of tough titties.

*nodnodnod*

*grin* ok, i am in a silly mood. pleeeeeeaaaaaaaseeee forgive me. *l*

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RE: giftofcontrol - 9/8/2005 8:35:47 PM   
kc692


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sanita


quote:

ORIGINAL: cellogrrlMK

For those who will call me a spelling/grammar knotsie,


hmm, that would be "Natzi," would it not?

*grin* although... in the Bondage lifestyle... you could have just coined a new term....

"knotsie"
-Top or bottom involved in Bondage & Discipline with a hard-nosed stance about a pet peeve. Said pet peeve could fall into any number of categories.

-Knotsies are often proponents of tough titties.

*nodnodnod*

*grin* ok, i am in a silly mood. pleeeeeeaaaaaaaseeee forgive me. *l*


Girls, (and I want you to know I mean that VERY affectionately) I don't care what else happens tonight, you have both made me grin from ear to ear,,and yes, I too, am glad I didn't have anything liquid in my mouth at the moment also!!!!


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RE: giftofcontrol - 9/9/2005 6:01:24 AM   
flaire


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Status: offline 		Dear Gift

I've been on this website for only a few days and I've been deluged by e-mails from Doms ranging from the delightful 'wanna chat, bitch?' to those who write with humour and charm.

Who should I respond to? Those who take their time to compose an interesting (with excellent grammar, spelling and punctuation) or those who take a scatter gun approach to submissives - if I send out 50 e-mails, then I might get a response from a couple.

f x

PS Cello - at least he doesn't talk in the third person!

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RE: giftofcontrol - 9/9/2005 11:52:25 AM   
giftofcontrol


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Status: offline 		well thxs i guess lol for the help i will work on profile i just did not know if my e mail's where working are not some say they did not get them. also very new to this life so if i ever mail any of you plz note that also would like to know what a slave or submissive look's for in a profile i never mail any one back with rude response if i get a mail that from some one with no that fine then i know they got it so i may move on lol but ill go now thxs to all of you for the help jeff

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RE: giftofcontrol - 9/9/2005 12:06:27 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		Please try and use punctuation and moderately good English skills, otherwise your posts are nearly impossible to understand.

quote:

ORIGINAL: giftofcontrol

well thxs i guess lol for the help i will work on profile i just did not know if my e mail's where working are not some say they did not get them. also very new to this life so if i ever mail any of you plz note that also would like to know what a slave or submissive look's for in a profile i never mail any one back with rude response if i get a mail that from some one with no that fine then i know they got it so i may move on lol but ill go now thxs to all of you for the help jeff


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RE: giftofcontrol - 9/9/2005 12:07:03 PM   
solesta


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Status: offline 		i know that i have had Masters private messaging me and in my profile it says that all Master's and Mistresses have to ask my Master so until that happens i'm not allowed to answer.

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RE: giftofcontrol - 9/9/2005 2:57:01 PM   
cellogrrlMK


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sanita

hmm, that would be "Natzi," would it not?

*grin* although... in the Bondage lifestyle... you could have just coined a new term....


Actually sanita, it's "Nazi"

quote:


"knotsie"
-Top or bottom involved in Bondage & Discipline with a hard-nosed stance about a pet peeve. Said pet peeve could fall into any number of categories.

-Knotsies are often proponents of tough titties.

*nodnodnod*

*grin* ok, i am in a silly mood. pleeeeeeaaaaaaaseeee forgive me. *l*


LOL sanita! Actually, the joke went "how did Hitler tie his shoes? Answer: in little Nazis"

cello

I can't figure out the font thing here, pardon the inconsistencies of the fonts please.


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RE: giftofcontrol - 9/9/2005 2:57:54 PM   
cellogrrlMK


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kc692

Girls, (and I want you to know I mean that VERY affectionately) I don't care what else happens tonight, you have both made me grin from ear to ear,,and yes, I too, am glad I didn't have anything liquid in my mouth at the moment also!!!!



Always happy to amuse, Ma'am!

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RE: giftofcontrol - 9/9/2005 2:58:39 PM   
cellogrrlMK


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quote:

ORIGINAL: flaire

PS Cello - at least he doesn't talk in the third person!


LMAO flaire!

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RE: giftofcontrol - 9/9/2005 5:02:41 PM   
kc692


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quote:

ORIGINAL: cellogrrlMK


quote:

ORIGINAL: kc692

Girls, (and I want you to know I mean that VERY affectionately) I don't care what else happens tonight, you have both made me grin from ear to ear,,and yes, I too, am glad I didn't have anything liquid in my mouth at the moment also!!!!



Always happy to amuse, Ma'am!


Smiles, I have missed seeing your posts...I think it has been a little while since we have visited the same threads...between you and sanita, I gotta find out where ya'll (Southern term I know) are posting on the boards, so I can laugh a little more!!!!

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RE: giftofcontrol - 9/9/2005 5:45:14 PM   
cellogrrlMK


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ORIGINAL: kc692

Smiles, I have missed seeing your posts...I think it has been a little while since we have visited the same threads...between you and sanita, I gotta find out where ya'll (Southern term I know) are posting on the boards, so I can laugh a little more!!!!



I haven't seen you around either and wondered what happened to you too! Glad to see you again!

cello

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