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Action -> Would you ever bend (2/7/2008 11:14:37 AM)
Dear Everyone, Its been a little while since I posted here but this is for the Male doms as much as it is any submissives here who've maybe had this in thier mind. But lately I've had a dream. That I might find a man, not just a sub or just a dom and not a switch either. A big broad brute of a man, callouse and what we would all consider a Dom through and through, but do ever any of you Dom men out there have a deeper feeling past Submission in your life? I've dreamed of a dog of a slave, not a submissive in fact but a Dom, but to have his loyalties to me, to open up and find he can bend to one little girl who can coach him through his inner feelings of submission and take it out brutaly as a dom on others like subies. Basicly a kept cock. Being a dom but under my command, able to be a knight, a guardian, a pure and basic tool of a dog. A loyal guard on knee on the foot of my bed his neck held tight with my loving leash. And in doing so will probably be my most trusted companion, someone outside my husband and someone I can confide my own masochistic tendancies as he brutaly plays out his fantasies and my own becuase of opening up to me. Is there such a balance in a dom? Is there such a dom/sub whatever you want to call the dog of my dreams. Honestly yours, Lil Miss Action

Justme696 -> RE: Would you ever bend (2/7/2008 11:38:07 AM)
Not in me....certainly not a dog ..and wouldn't we call such person a Switch?

greyangelus -> RE: Would you ever bend (2/7/2008 11:39:12 AM)
Huh, sounds like the sub/Dom thread I posted a few weeks ago. Somone whos is dom/sub outside of play, and switches orientation during play. Lemme see if I get this straight... A dom that is kept under your command, ready to unleash his domliness on you at your command?

Leatherist -> RE: Would you ever bend (2/7/2008 11:41:34 AM)
Yes,we call that a service top.

TracyTaken -> RE: Would you ever bend (2/7/2008 11:41:44 AM)
I call my 4 pound pooch "my other dom."

Action -> RE: Would you ever bend (2/7/2008 11:42:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: greyangelus Huh, sounds like the sub/Dom thread I posted a few weeks ago. Somone whos is dom/sub outside of play, and switches orientation during play. Lemme see if I get this straight... A dom that is kept under your command, ready to unleash his domliness on you at your command? HA almost right, sorry for the garbled mess that is my post. I've never been a very clear spoken person, Im kind of all over when speak. A loyal dog of a dom who in his own way is submissive to me, but can be unleased on my own subs to use his cock to torture or even hold them down as I do said things. And sometimes, rarely sometimes I'll see to it he gets used and kept well and can help me explore my own masochistic urdges that crop up after a very intense sadisic session with my own slaves. <3 Lil Miss Action

greyangelus -> RE: Would you ever bend (2/7/2008 11:44:23 AM)
Gotcha, it was a bit confusing to read[:D]. Yep, go find a primarily submissive switch with sadistic tendencies. Sounds like your best bet.

ProlificNeeds -> RE: Would you ever bend (2/7/2008 12:02:49 PM)
Sort of like the alpha male in a pack society who is big macho man, but ultimately still answers to the alpha female. Submissive to the bitch he mates but still authority over the rest of the pack. Not sure if that's the sort of dynamic you;re thinking of, but I'm sure it does occure to some people. I don't often see those kinds of dynamics mimiced in people though, maybe because we seem to follow primate dynamics instinctually more than pack types. Not to say such people don't exist, I'm sure they do somewhere, I can personally only think of one male friend who falls into that sort of pack instinct for dynamic, and he's still a bit confused himself in what he feels and wants.

SirMIkeSD -> RE: Would you ever bend (2/7/2008 12:09:02 PM)
I don't switch, it just does not happen. Unless you count bottoming to my boat and that bitch is needy. Mike

Action -> RE: Would you ever bend (2/7/2008 12:12:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ProlificNeeds Sort of like the alpha male in a pack society who is big macho man, but ultimately still answers to the alpha female. Submissive to the bitch he mates but still authority over the rest of the pack. Not sure if that's the sort of dynamic you;re thinking of, but I'm sure it does occure to some people. I don't often see those kinds of dynamics mimiced in people though, maybe because we seem to follow primate dynamics instinctually more than pack types. Not to say such people don't exist, I'm sure they do somewhere, I can personally only think of one male friend who falls into that sort of pack instinct for dynamic, and he's still a bit confused himself in what he feels and wants. Thats it exactly, It does happen enough I know, I have personal experince with the type. One of my long time close friends is this exact type with me. He opens up a a big dom sub with me, he has a long time girlfriend who is a sub as well, I see them both as puppies, both have subed to me in the past. He brought out this fantasy I have stuck in my head now, I know I can't have him he's so far and been a good friend to me so long I'd worry it all went wrong. But its a strong enough vision of a sub I can't get out of my head

ProlificNeeds -> RE: Would you ever bend (2/7/2008 12:22:38 PM)
I think it's certainly possible to find a switch who identifies as Dominant primarily, but if you make the right connection with them they would submit to you. I don't think a submissive switch would be aggressive enough for the alpha persona you imagine in your dog. The only realistic problem I see in a dominant type switch like that is that you would on occasion run into a bit of a power struggle, which you both might enjoy for that matter.

Action -> RE: Would you ever bend (2/7/2008 12:44:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ProlificNeeds I think it's certainly possible to find a switch who identifies as Dominant primarily, but if you make the right connection with them they would submit to you. I don't think a submissive switch would be aggressive enough for the alpha persona you imagine in your dog. The only realistic problem I see in a dominant type switch like that is that you would on occasion run into a bit of a power struggle, which you both might enjoy for that matter. Your very intuitive, so well said, thats pretty much it in a nut shell. <3

ProlificNeeds -> RE: Would you ever bend (2/7/2008 2:19:37 PM)
I assure you my intuitiveness is totally luck. Sometimes I am a mind reader, sometimes completely clueless! [&:]

kinkypuppy2 -> RE: Would you ever bend (2/7/2008 4:57:29 PM)
NO

SixFootMaster -> RE: Would you ever bend (2/7/2008 6:33:35 PM)
FWIW and the flame it brings, but most of the Dommes I've encountered in real life fall into this kind of category, gender reversed of course.

Chocodelite4U -> RE: Would you ever bend (2/7/2008 7:19:17 PM)
Hell to N to O no switching, not even Domming a married couple! Now if you want to bend over for that suggestion thread me.

ExtremeOwnerIL -> RE: Would you ever bend (2/7/2008 8:41:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SirMIkeSD I don't switch, it just does not happen. Unless you count bottoming to my boat and that bitch is needy. Mike Damn things... the shotguns, the duck decoys, the goose decoys, the fishing poles, tackle... even the hunting dog... those things are also needy. chuckle (At least that's what I tell myself as I make yet another trip to Bass Pro...) Regards, EO

RedMagic1 -> RE: Would you ever bend (2/7/2008 9:12:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Chocodelite4U Hell to N to O no switching, not even Domming a married couple! Now if you want to bend over for that suggestion thread me. Strangely enough, the other Doms who replied to this thread were able to keep it in their pants while typing. Kind of a self-mastery thing.

Honsoku -> RE: Would you ever bend (2/7/2008 9:59:40 PM)
I have no intention of this ever happening to me (plus, I'm not big enough [;)]). Life on the other hand, is full of surprises. Just consider all the submissives that have said "I can't/won't do that!". This is definitely about as potent as it gets for those with power kinks. I have considerable interest in the same thing with the genders reversed. Not necessarily a brute though, more of a lethal femme fatalé type. After all, the measure of one's power is in the power of what one controls.

Focus50 -> RE: Would you ever bend (2/8/2008 2:18:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Action Dear Everyone, Its been a little while since I posted here but this is for the Male doms as much as it is any submissives here who've maybe had this in thier mind. But lately I've had a dream. That I might find a man, not just a sub or just a dom and not a switch either. A big broad brute of a man, callouse and what we would all consider a Dom through and through, but do ever any of you Dom men out there have a deeper feeling past Submission in your life? I've dreamed of a dog of a slave, not a submissive in fact but a Dom, but to have his loyalties to me, to open up and find he can bend to one little girl who can coach him through his inner feelings of submission and take it out brutaly as a dom on others like subies. Basicly a kept cock. Being a dom but under my command, able to be a knight, a guardian, a pure and basic tool of a dog. A loyal guard on knee on the foot of my bed his neck held tight with my loving leash. And in doing so will probably be my most trusted companion, someone outside my husband and someone I can confide my own masochistic tendancies as he brutaly plays out his fantasies and my own becuase of opening up to me. Is there such a balance in a dom? Is there such a dom/sub whatever you want to call the dog of my dreams. You make it sound as though the average submissive male can't be a "real man" to the outside World. I don't have "inner feelings of submission"; I'm not a dog, though I am still protective of my fem/sub property and for the life of me I can't imagine any Dom living a dynamic of a "kept cock" - but I don't get out much, at least, not that much! Focus.

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