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slavetobehad -> "soon to be had" (2/7/2008 4:44:21 PM)
I think I am in the wrong place, but not sure. My questions would be directed towards those that are in a 24/7 Master/slave TPE relationship. I have a number of questions and would ask if maybe one of the girls here that is in that type of relationship might be willing to converse with me a bit on the subject. "slavetobehad" ... "soon to be had"

sunshinemiss -> RE: "soon to be had" (2/7/2008 4:57:39 PM)
May I suggest that you post a couple of your questions... the specific ones... You may get a more three dimensional answer by those who have decided against it, those who are Masters/Doms in this kind of relationship, those who have found it did or didn't work.... whatever... But if you only ask for one side, you will not be fully informed. You will get some wonderful answers, I'm sure, but not the full pictures. good luck.

slavetobehad -> RE: "soon to be had" (2/7/2008 5:42:39 PM)
I love the flower... a Rudbeckia? The question (s) are more in the line of, and I know this is silly to ask but.. when you finally made the decision to be a 24/7 slave, how, what happened.. I know you have given up your last choice, and the choices are no longer yours to make. Was it hard to change the mindset? What is it like... what happens.. "my Master" is very strict and very protocal driven.. everthing this way and that way and no deviation from it. Were there times of punishment, did you cry.. I am quite the sensitive one and wish only to please.. but to lick the dirt from his boots, come on... would a Master ask a girl of something that he would not do himself?? I have and need much advice on this matter.. I need to know what to expect.. I have to know because once the decision is made there will be no turning back. There are no velcro collars..

ProlificNeeds -> RE: "soon to be had" (2/7/2008 5:46:59 PM)
If you're not sure, then don't go there. It is possible to move into a power exchange small steps at a time, giving up more and more as you go along. When you reach a point you're no longer comfortable with or can;t handle, then you know what it is you are and are not looking for. There's no need to bid all or nothing into D/s without knowing what it will be like.

slavetobehad -> RE: "soon to be had" (2/7/2008 5:48:59 PM)
I know where my heart lies, at the feet of this Master. He will be here soon to get me.. a girl is just that "owned property"!! He is a Gorean Master... and he makes no mistake about it. He is wonderful, very loving, very very caring and very strict. I am kinda worring about.. my absolute obedience, if he says do it, then I will... What might he ask me to do???

SixFootMaster -> RE: "soon to be had" (2/7/2008 5:50:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavetobehad "my Master" is very strict and very protocal driven.. everthing this way and that way and no deviation from it. Were there times of punishment, did you cry.. I am quite the sensitive one and wish only to please.. but to lick the dirt from his boots, come on... would a Master ask a girl of something that he would not do himself?? Would a Master ask a girl of something that he would not do himself? Yes. That's one of the reasons why he has a slave. It's different in every combination - some Masters be way laid back and easy going, others would put a Ventrue to shame with their formality. Your job is to figure out what makes him happy, not what makes you happy. If it makes him happy to have you lick his boots, then as his slave, that is your duty. If it's not a duty you can bear, then you're not going to be pleasing to him, and for both parties sake it might be better not to go down that route. Of course, that's just one issue, and it may be one he is willing to overlook. SixFoot. Edited to change would to might, and add final sentence.

ProlificNeeds -> RE: "soon to be had" (2/7/2008 5:51:30 PM)
He might ask you to do anything. I'm not terribly familiar with Gor but if your heart lies with him, does your trust also? Hopefully you are able to communicate your concerns to him? Do you know if his desires and wants are things you can see yourself doing? Discuss his expectations before you throw yourself at his feet, or you may find yourself trampled. Send me some cmail with more details if you'd like to talk about particulars.

KatyLied -> RE: "soon to be had" (2/7/2008 5:51:43 PM)
You should ask at the Gorean board. They have different protocols and perhaps the kijira-types over there can give you details on their dances and positions, etc.

slavetobehad -> RE: "soon to be had" (2/7/2008 5:52:14 PM)
It's not that I am not sure... a Master will do as he pleases. I know and have felt my slavery to him.. that is not the problem. I am wondering what could he possibly as me to do? This is why I would rather chat with some one on one rather than post here. A question and answer session if you will.

KatyLied -> RE: "soon to be had" (2/7/2008 5:54:34 PM)
The only person who can answer what he may/may not do is him. I suggest you start out small and explore the relationship as it develops. It doesn't make any sense to jump into something when you don't seem to know the guy very well at this point.

slavetobehad -> RE: "soon to be had" (2/7/2008 5:55:10 PM)
That is what I am after: The paticulars.. thank you prolificneeds. Would this be something when there is free time that you would be willing to share with another girl?

TracyTaken -> RE: "soon to be had" (2/7/2008 5:56:51 PM)
quote: I think I am in the wrong place, but not sure. My questions would be directed towards those that are in a 24/7 Master/slave TPE relationship. I have a number of questions and would ask if maybe one of the girls here that is in that type of relationship might be willing to converse with me a bit on the subject. No so much interested in private communication. If you want to put it out here on the forums, I would be happy to answer. But I'm a hopeless failure as a submissive, so you might be better off talking to those whose perfection in submissiveness is without question, and that is the majority of submissives who post here. Have fun and remember ... wherever you go, there you are. [:)]

batshalom -> RE: "soon to be had" (2/7/2008 5:58:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavetobehad I know where my heart lies, at the feet of this Master. He will be here soon to get me.. a girl is just that "owned property"!! He is a Gorean Master... and he makes no mistake about it. He is wonderful, very loving, very very caring and very strict. I am kinda worring about.. my absolute obedience, if he says do it, then I will... What might he ask me to do??? In answer to an earlier question, yes, some Masters will make you lick dirt off their boots, and you'd better believe Masters and Doms will have you do things they will not do themselves. My god, girl. To get involved as a slave, without having negotiated anything, without knowing what to expect, is a spectacularly bad idea. You're not kidding you need lots of advice, and my first piece of it is to stop before you really get started, at least until you learn some things. BDSM might seem like a fun little sexy smoochy game but I can assure you that to many it isn't a game at all. This ain't vanilla life we're talking about, especially with a Gorean. Go read the Gorean boards for a little while, message some kajira and make friends, get out into the kink community, figure this lifestyle out, figure out your place in it, and when you have some idea of what's going on, THEN think about submitting. As it stands right now, if you go through with what it seems you're getting ready to do, you're crazy. Don't say I didn't warn you.

slavetobehad -> RE: "soon to be had" (2/7/2008 5:58:43 PM)
buying and selling slaves is against the law... a girl is a slave,... there is a Gorean Master that wishes a slave

KatyLied -> RE: "soon to be had" (2/7/2008 6:00:27 PM)
So what? There are plenty of Masters to go around. A girl has the power in choosing in this market.

SixFootMaster -> RE: "soon to be had" (2/7/2008 6:01:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavetobehad It's not that I am not sure... a Master will do as he pleases. I know and have felt my slavery to him.. that is not the problem. I am wondering what could he possibly as me to do? This is why I would rather chat with some one on one rather than post here. A question and answer session if you will. It is impossible for any - slave or otherwise - to answer this question. He is capable of asking whatever enters his head to ask. It could be bestiality and midgets, or it could be baking a cake. Maybe he wants you to smear yourself head to foot with buttercream and do a sensual dance involving a kitchen whisk. How is anyone to know but him? No two men are the same. SixFoot.

lilacs -> RE: "soon to be had" (2/7/2008 6:03:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavetobehad It's not that I am not sure... a Master will do as he pleases. I know and have felt my slavery to him.. that is not the problem. I am wondering what could he possibly as me to do? This is why I would rather chat with some one on one rather than post here. A question and answer session if you will. I'm afraid that there isn't another person who will be able to answer that for you. The only person who will be able to answer that is the person who is your Master, really. Every single relationship is so different that what I might tell you my dominant requires of me, another submissive would never even have heard her Dominant ask of her, and another submissive would be told to never do under any circumstance. (Or other combinations of male/female Top/Bottom combinations.) May I suggest that you talk to your Master and ask him to tell you about some of the things he might end up expecting you to do? Let him know that the idea of slavery to him 24/7 is something you are still working to process and that you want to be able to accept his commands and requirements, etc. The life of a slave (even very consentual slavery) isn't always an easy one - sometimes it is a struggle. To have an idea of some of the things he might require of you on a regular basis will give you an idea of what sort of relationship you can expect.

slavetobehad -> RE: "soon to be had" (2/7/2008 6:03:49 PM)
this is not what I mean.. I think you are taking this all wrong. a girl knows what it is to be a slave to a Master.. what I am asking is... I wanna know how wierd it gets, would should I expect. I have never been owned... I want to know what it felt like to other girls. I don't think I am explaining this correctly. I want to know what it feels like to be in a 24/7 TPE relationship.. I can't answer that because I have not been there yet.. what did it feel like to you????

slavetobehad -> RE: "soon to be had" (2/7/2008 6:05:34 PM)
Lilacs.. this is what I speak of.. what was it like for you ...

slavetobehad -> RE: "soon to be had" (2/7/2008 6:08:19 PM)
SixFootMaster.. I love your answer!!! This is what I am looking for....

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