What will you do if you know its the last play you are gonna have with your sub?

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sunkstar -> What will you do if you know its the last play you are gonna have with your sub? (2/7/2008 9:17:03 PM)
Will you play harder and harsher or will you play in a more loving way in the last play? My Dom and I are planning to play for the last time since we are both gonna move on... it tears me apart inside when I think about it...

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you are gonna have with your sub? (2/7/2008 9:21:10 PM)
I go with what feels right at the time. If there's something we've always wanted to do but never got around to, I might give that serious consideration, but if it still doesn't feel right, then no amount of coolness will make it a good scene.

chickpea -> RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you are gonna have with your sub? (2/7/2008 9:27:30 PM)
why do you want to play one last time if you want to move on? just a question... but as far as a last play, maybe a menage of everything you guys have done while together. relive the memories. your last act of submission should be good, so you can move on to a better D/S relationship if you so choose.

Zaraseeks -> RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you are gonna have with your sub? (2/7/2008 9:37:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunkstar Will you play harder and harsher or will you play in a more loving way in the last play? My Dom and I are planning to play for the last time since we are both gonna move on... it tears me apart inside when I think about it... I am so sorry to hear this, how sad!!!! hugs I am not sure what I would do to be honest. It would be intimate, more than likely my most intimate scene

sunkstar -> RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you are gonna have with your sub? (2/7/2008 9:42:55 PM)
bcos I want to feel his hands on me, feel his dominance, feel the intensity of the emotion one more time... maybe its irrational, but I already gave a lot in this relationship, I don't care giving/taking a bit more. :)

Honsoku -> RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you are gonna have with your sub? (2/7/2008 10:44:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chickpea why do you want to play one last time if you want to move on? It could have been a good relationship, just not the right one. Or it could be that one or both people just have evolved away from each other. A break-up doesn't mean that the people involved don't enjoy each other's company. Quite likely it is to provide a sense of closure, a definite end to the relationship.

HeavansKeeper -> RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you are gonna have with your sub? (2/8/2008 2:31:40 AM)
Sounds like the jury has decided to make warm sweet love by the fireplace. I can remember a few "This is our last time together moments" vanilla and otherwise. I never had the drive to be hardcore at those times, but then again, I'm a sissy with goodbyes. Also a sucker for cuddling, so maybe that?

antipode -> RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you are gonna have with your sub? (2/8/2008 4:44:24 AM)
Heavy. Why not grab a cup of coffee together - instead.

kinkypuppy2 -> RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you are gonna have with your sub? (2/8/2008 8:12:45 AM)
Don't ever plan on being in that situation. Good question tho

ThundersCry -> RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you are gonna have with your sub? (2/8/2008 8:53:25 AM)
Breath play... It would have to involve breath play...

DesFIP -> RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you are gonna have with your sub? (2/8/2008 12:16:29 PM)
I'd skip it. Sweet lovemaking when we've already agreed we don't love each other any longer, or he doesn't love me, is hypocritical. And I wouldn't trust him to not go too far if it was aggressive play, because he doesn't have anything to lose. After all, what are you going to say "You mistreated me so I'll never play with you again"? He doesn't care because you aren't going to play with him again.

shysub0951 -> RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you are gonna have with your sub? (2/8/2008 12:44:11 PM)
i don't even want to think about it [:o]

littleone35 -> RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you are gonna have with your sub? (2/8/2008 12:48:51 PM)
In my case i think i would want to play one last time. She did not say they did not love each other anymore. I would want the memories of that last time to hold me over. Might make it harder but that is what i would want and need. Matt's littleone

xxblushesxx -> RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you are gonna have with your sub? (2/8/2008 3:35:48 PM)
I am masochistic, but not quite to that point. I feel that she still hopes that if she does what he wants, how he wants, that he will realize what a mistake he is making. I just don't think that it's going to happen. He won't even have her into his house. Plus, the chances of this going well, are not good. Star, go out on a first date with someone wonderful instead. It will be much better for you, I'm sure. ~Christina

verysweet -> RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you are gonna have with your sub? (2/8/2008 4:32:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littleone35 I would want the memories of that last time to hold me over. Speaking hypothetically here---it might be great to meet and talk and reminisce, hug him and wish him well. Anything more, no. My 'one last time' would have already happened, and I'd relish the great moments from a great relationship. quote: Star, go out on a first date with someone wonderful instead. It will be much better for you, I'm sure. Great advice. Or go out with a close friend or spend time doing something you love.

vanillaknot -> RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you are gonna have with your sub? (2/8/2008 4:35:16 PM)
quote: Will you play harder and harsher or will you play in a more loving way in the last play? Having been in that spot in a different way once in 2003, at which point I was going to be away for ... well, a long time, almost 2 years, but knowing for certain that I would be back... We did gentle at home. Then, on the way to taking me elsewhere where we would separate for that long time, she surprised me by pulling off to the side of the road for a bit of unexpected, kindasorta rough intimacy. It was peculiar, but valuable.

Redoubt -> RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you are gonna have with your sub? (2/8/2008 5:27:57 PM)
This scenario has happened to me once, and I'll confess, I went further and harder than I'd gone with before... I don't think we had both come to the decision that this was the last time, but we were both distancing ourself from each other. In the end, it turns out I had read her right, and she still tells me this was the most intense she had ever felt about her submission. After a long period of staying away from each other, we're still very good friends so in this instance it worked, but I'd have to play it completely for the moment. If there's still trust, trust him and let him trust you.

robertolapiedra -> RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you are gonna have with your sub? (2/8/2008 8:03:12 PM)
Hello sunkstar. Unless you actually enjoy mindfucking, I would not recommend doing this. RL

akisha -> RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you are gonna have with your sub? (2/8/2008 8:43:41 PM)
If the relationship was over, i'd never have the one last hurrah so to speak. I'd either be too emotionaly distant, to angry or too sad to get into it properly

sunkstar -> RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you are gonna have with your sub? (2/8/2008 9:28:05 PM)
I dont believe holding on to the past, I dont believe you can hold on to someone, I dont believe too much "give in" in a relationship, I despise "crawling back", I dont need any of my ex to "realize" anything after we broke up, and to keep someone by playing with him is the last thing on my mind. but I will keep your suggestion of "dating someone wonderful" in mind, thats the kind of fun I shouldnt turn down. :)

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