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RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you ... - 2/8/2008 9:30:55 PM   
sunkstar


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Status: offline 		I know, thats my problem...

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RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you ... - 2/8/2008 9:44:56 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		Turn down the lights, turn down the bed
Turn down these voices inside my head
Lay down with me, tell me no lies
Just hold me close, don't patronize - don't patronize me

Chorus: cause I can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel something it won't
Here in the dark, in these lonely hours
I will lay down my heart and I'll feel the power
But you won't, no you won't
'cause I can't make you love me, if you don't

I'll close my eyes, then I won't see
The love you don't feel when you're holding me
Morning will come and I'll do what's right
Just give me till then to give up this fight
And I will give up this fight
Chorus: cause I can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel something it won't
Here in the dark, in these lonely hours
I will lay down my heart and I'll feel the power
But you won't, no you won't
'cause I can't make you love me, if you don't


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RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you ... - 2/8/2008 10:36:18 PM   
Kana


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Status: offline 		If it were me I am not sure I would do a scene.
But if  I did do one, I would try to make sure it was the single most sensuous things she had ever been through.
It would be much more touching than any other implement.
Hands, kissing, sensory deprivation, orgasm edge play.
Cresting to heights and then letting it ebb
Over and over and over again.
I would want it to be absolutely memorable.
It would be my final gift to her.

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RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you ... - 2/9/2008 3:08:12 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I don't have as much time as I would like to dedicate to this thought just now, but I wanted to throw a couple of things out there.   Forgive Me in advance if I don't articulate them very well at this moment.

To answer the direct question, it would probably be a combination of both.  By the term 'play', I'm going on the thought that it would be a scene, and would not specifically be a sexual one.  I would hope to make that kind of scene be very intense.  Perhaps a skip through memory lane of favorite sensations, certain instruments, which were particularly relished by both of us.  As far as level of pain might go, I would want it to be harsh.  A good send off for a masochist.  Even with knowing it was the last, I would hope it would be a fantastic scene, with a wonderful trip to space.

That being said, knowing Myself the way I do, I would also say that the aftercare would definitely be of a very loving nature.  The holding, caressing, hair stroking, kissing would most likely last longer, because I would know that I was saying good-bye to that intimacy with that particular person.  I would want to take advantage of appreciating that for the last time.  Give the dynamic the proper closing.

Check back with Me in about four months.  I'll let you know how I did.


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RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you ... - 2/9/2008 11:30:58 AM   
mstrj69


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Status: offline 		No matter what you do, there is always the possibility that if he wanted to do something in the past but your limits or you said no, there is the possibility or even probability he will push past your limits.  I think only you know how far he will go and even there since it is the last time, he may go farther than you want or think he will go.  If you have the time, make it 2 more play times together thus you can stop after the first or just not do it at all and keep what memories you want from your previous sessions together. 

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RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you ... - 2/9/2008 2:26:03 PM   
Taintedblood


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Status: offline 		i dont think i could play knowing it was the last time if i didn't want it to be the last time or if they didnt want it to be the last time


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RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you ... - 2/9/2008 3:16:55 PM   
WhiteKnuckleRide


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Status: offline 		I'd go and do something different and stupid with them...like jump into the fountain in the middle of town, or start a food fight somewhere. Sign off on a silly note. :)

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RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you ... - 2/9/2008 3:21:01 PM   
Taintedblood


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Status: offline 		why on a silly note?

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RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you ... - 2/9/2008 11:56:09 PM   
nwcutie102


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Status: offline 		i woould ship it. the last time i played with my ex... well, it stands out in my mind way too much... say goodbye in another less memorable way

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RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you ... - 2/10/2008 4:49:37 AM   
julietsierra


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Status: offline 		I just have to say that this is by far, THE saddest thread I've ever read on CM.

Each and every single time I read an entry on it, I'm moved to tears.

Each and every SINGLE time.

juliet

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RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you ... - 2/17/2008 5:36:02 PM   
denversubnewbie


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Status: offline 		I've lost a great love recently, I hurt, reading this cuts like a knife The song above (the words are literal) I wish to send to her.But I'd be creating drama, NO. but there is a real beauty of the collection of thoughts here that collectively make me feel better yet the componets tear at my heart. I just want to cry.

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RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you ... - 2/17/2008 5:43:01 PM   
littlebitxxx


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Play like it's on sale for $19.99 !!!

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RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you ... - 2/17/2008 5:56:44 PM   
awakenednj


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Status: offline 		I have been exactly there and not too very long ago. We had to end it because he had to leave for buisness. What may be different is that we had started knowing it would be short-lived and not knowing either of our D/s tendencies. We sort of discovered it in each other. Turned out to be way more intense than either of us planned for. But unfortunately that did not change the reality of the time limitations.

We had one last night together. I am very glad we did. It was mostly sweet with a few rough edges... the next day i heard this song on the radio I hadn't heard in a good long time. It made me cry but it also made me feel a little better... Bittersweet still has sweet in it. However it turns out, I wish you well. :::hugs:::

Go on and close the curtains cause all we need is candle light
You and me and a bottle of wine- going to hold you tonight
Well we know I'm going away and how I wish, I wish it weren't so
So take this wine and drink with me let's delay our misery

Save tonight and fight the break of dawn
Come tomorrow, tomorrow I'll be gone
Save tonight and fight the break of dawn
Come tomorrow, tomorrow I'll be gone

There's a log on the fire and it burns like me for you
Tomorrow comes with one desire- to take me away it's true
It ain't easy to say goodbye. Darling please don't start to cry
Cause girl you know I've got to go, oh Lord I wish it wasn't so

Chorus
Save tonight, etc


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RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you ... - 2/18/2008 3:40:59 AM   
Willowmoon


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Status: offline 		Yeap agreed on the saddest thread i have seen on here it just moved me to tears.

I wouldn't play one last time no matter how much i was craving it because how long does one last time go for you do it and what about if you want another one last time> It may be hard to move on but I think its better to move on then live in the past with a relationship that you know is over.

When I have gone through break ups even the mutral one where we decided we couldnt be together anymore because we were hurting each other too much we have held each other softly just one last time and then said goodbye.

Willow

(perhaps this is upsetting me tonight more then it usualy would because he collared me yesterday and the idea of Master and I going our separate ways makes me want to cry)

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RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you ... - 2/18/2008 12:04:58 PM   
Lumus


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Status: offline 		If you're going to do it, do something poignant.

What was your first scene together?



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RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you ... - 2/18/2008 1:06:48 PM   
SailingBum


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Status: offline 		I'm nowhere near as mushy as the posts Ive read. I have been in that situation more than once. I tear it up and nevert look back

BadOne

< Message edited by SailingBum -- 2/18/2008 1:07:30 PM >

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RE: What will you do if you know its the last play you ... - 2/21/2008 7:33:00 AM   
EsotericMaster


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Status: offline 		The Problem with that is,   You NEVER know when the last really is.

I was recently reminded of that :(


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