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sorry,deleted post - 9/9/2005 3:30:26 PM

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RE: My Mistress is missing?? - 9/9/2005 3:52:42 PM

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pay my rent???

no really please? lol

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RE: My Mistress is missing?? - 9/9/2005 3:54:26 PM

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There's little you can do that won't get you further involved. If you go to the police (which I think might be a good idea if she's been missing for a while, may have had a boyfriend who got angry, etc..) you'll have to explain why you're worried, etc. You could call and give an anonymous tip, but I dont' know how far that would get you. A second thing you could do that would be a little more discreet is hire a private investigator, preferably one who's been a cop (lots are). As far as her stuff, until you know for sure, try getting a small rental unit to stow it for her. If you find her and she wants to break contact with you, you can either give it back, or if she doesn't want it, give it away. You didn't say much about her family life other than she *may* have a boyfriend. Does she have any nearby relatives or friends who would miss her if she really has disappeared or are you perhaps the only one (aside from the boyfriend) who'd notice?

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RE: My Mistress is missing?? - 9/9/2005 3:55:36 PM

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First, I'd advise sitting down and having a long talk with your wife about your marriage vows, trust, your needs and how you can work this out together.

Then I'm wondering why - if she lives nearby - you haven't stopped by her place to find out what's going on? If you don't know where exactly she lives, and you start to get truly concerned (which I would at this point), this might become a matter for the police. Disappearing overnight is cause for alarm.

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RE: My Mistress is missing?? - 9/9/2005 3:56:55 PM

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another good pt for not going behind your SO's back I would say, you find yourself in a pickle . now find a way out

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RE: My Mistress is missing?? - 9/9/2005 4:05:53 PM

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Hmm..why, if you're married, does you wife not know? I would have thought at least she would have agreed. I consider that cheating, but that's my five cents worth. Would serve a man right if he was caught.

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RE: My Mistress is missing?? - 9/9/2005 4:10:27 PM

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So I am without chores to perform and I am hiding a small wardobe deep in my closet. Any advice on what I should do??

You could drop her clothes off at the Salvation Army and stop hiding things from your wife.

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RE: My Mistress is missing?? - 9/9/2005 4:10:37 PM

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Let me get this straight. You are hiding a sizable chunk of the wardrobe of a woman who is apparently missing in a corner of your closet for 2 months? And your wife, and possibly the police, would be very interested in an explanation as to how they got there? My advice. Find a lawyer. Actually two. A criminal one and a divorce one.

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RE: My Mistress is missing?? - 9/9/2005 4:44:30 PM

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Sounds to me that you are more concerned that you have no chores to perform and that you are hiding these clothes from your wife, not the most important fact is that a woman is missing!!!!

Like Veav, i to am wondering if she lived close by why haven't you dropped by to see her, or possibly called her? But i am also wondering is how did you wash out these items by hand without your wife seeing them hanging around to dry?

Like everyone else has said you should be telling your wife and then go to the police about this missing woman.

Perhaps after your wife knows about this maybe she will have some chores for you to do

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