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Shawn1066 -> RE: Hint to the rest of the world (2/10/2008 9:30:45 PM)

Bruises, scratches, and the like.  Oh, and the fact I sleep with a stuffed animal...  Oh, and I ask for permission for various things in public.  Oh, and I also call my Owner "Ma'am" from time to time.  Oh, and my collar.  Vanillas, including my own -family-, constantly refer to me as "whipped" and "owned"

It's actually vaguely unsettling. :-p

DV's Fox



DiurnalVampire -> RE: Hint to the rest of the world (2/10/2008 9:42:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: homedespot

People think he is a chess buff.

J


Does he even PLAY chess?

As for me I have a silver triskelion ring (My birthday day gift from Fox)
When I wore my motorcycle jacket regularly, I had handcuffs that I wore on the shoulder-strap things. My mom thought they were cute... (shrug)
And I had a riding crop, leather flogger and nunchakas hanging on my wall back in college. People knew I was into martial arts, but very few could figure out the roding crop... and they just didnt want to know about the flogger I guess.

DV



MsCfromMelbourne -> RE: Hint to the rest of the world (2/10/2008 10:16:57 PM)

No, I don't give hints

I was out-ed in the workplace 8 years ago and it was a horrible experience. Long story short, I gave a flogging lesson (unpaid of course) to another woman that was filmed by her husband for their private use.  They seemed a nice D/s couple and the scene was erotic good fun. 

Without my permission, they then sold the footage to a local porn production company.  It didn't take long after that to get busted.

I lost all respect from my staff and colleagues, particularly the men.  When I complained to HR that one of my male reports hissed "I bet you are one sick bitch", HR told me "well what do you expect, given your lifestyle?"  That looked at me like I was some kind of idiot to expect anything but scorn and laughter.

Eventually stories were leaked to my clients, advisers, consultants and the CEO along the lines "do you know she is a Dominatrix as well as a ******???"  And they had the video to prove it.  Being a reasonably high profile, most powerful woman within the organisation, everyone thought it was a huge joke.  Some assumed I must be working in a brothel after hours. 

The CEO eventually told me that I could remain at the company but I was not to speak about my personal life to anyone.

Needless to say I never got another promotion and had no luck transferring to another company.  Whenever I go for job interviews in my industry, I still wonder if the interviewer 'knows' about me and is just checking out "the sick bitch" for himself..

So NO.  Everyone knows what I am and I wish I had my sexual privacy back, frankly. 

Now, when anyone tries to pry into that part of my personal life, I look at them stonily and say "Actually, I am a born again Christian. I would love it if you came to church with me this Sunday". 

That makes the sleazy voyeurs back off, fast!!!



Aimtoplease101 -> RE: Hint to the rest of the world (2/10/2008 11:19:31 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ricar00

Being a submissive male to females i always wondered if there was some sort of piece of jewelry or some other symbol one could wear that would let a femdomme know you were submissive.  I guess that went along with my fantasy of a female dominated world.  LOL
richie



ricar-- see those round symbols above your post photo?  Those are pretty well accepted as symbols of bdsm interest.  There are even color/ material codes to signal your specific orientation.  I'm sure a little research will reveal places that sell them on the web.

Regards, ATP 



GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Hint to the rest of the world (2/10/2008 11:27:05 PM)

~FR~  A local Domina friend has a mini flogger on her keychain.  I have had thumb cuffs on Mine.  Once a personal friend (male) that I volunteer with noticed them and joked that I shouldn't display My sex life right out on the desk like that.  I laughed and told him he had a dirty little mind.  A lot of people I know are more aware of this, even if not active practitioners, than it would seem.  Maybe it's the work I do?
I'm not obvious, but I don't necessarily try to hide little things either.



Aimtoplease101 -> RE: Hint to the rest of the world (2/11/2008 3:42:59 PM)

Well that's the thing about symbols-- people tend to project their own meanings upon them.  If someone interprets an object as a D/s symbol, chances are he or she has some thoughts/ tendencies that way ...

Regards, ATP



MissAidan -> RE: Hint to the rest of the world (2/11/2008 3:52:56 PM)

I will soon be getting the emblem as a tattoo, with Celtic knotwork worked in as a nod to my Irish/Scottish Ancestry.  And I would love to know where to find an emblem car decale!



Aimtoplease101 -> RE: Hint to the rest of the world (2/11/2008 5:33:55 PM)

And just where will this tattoo be going, if we may ask??



LadyPact -> RE: Hint to the rest of the world (2/11/2008 5:58:25 PM)

I'm not sure if it's a hint or not.  I have an ownership tag on My keychain.  Anyone would have to get rather close to Me, or My keys, to read it, but it says:

"Proud Owner of LPslittleclip purchased 08-25-07"



thetammyjo -> RE: Hint to the rest of the world (2/12/2008 7:29:36 AM)

Depends on the venue but I have leather pride rings I wear on a necklace for public kink events like munches. I have a carriage whip pin I can wear if I'm wearing something that a pin is appropriate for like a jacket or vest. Being where I am though I've pretty much given up flagging because people are in general just clueless about it. In NYC, in Manhattan, to be specific, it was easy to flag and I did it all the time.



Oumae -> RE: Hint to the rest of the world (2/12/2008 8:18:56 AM)

I had one of those mini floggers hanging from my handbag, it wasn't really noticed until one day while fidgeting I knotted all the ends of the strands, got a few comments then which I just smiled off.

Oumae



brightspot -> RE: Hint to the rest of the world (2/12/2008 9:05:29 AM)

I have some jewelry and such but the most
obvious, which would not be so to the naive
looker but pretty clear to others into WIITWD
is a tat on the top of my right wrist.
 
Missy.



BotanicalMiss -> RE: Hint to the rest of the world (2/12/2008 9:13:17 PM)

I have a handcuffs keychain, a mini flogger that hangs from my car's rearview mirror, and a bondage teddy that sits on my rear dashboard.



marsneedswomen -> RE: Hint to the rest of the world (2/12/2008 9:35:56 PM)

A submissive friend of mine used to carry around a zippo lighter with the bdsm emblem. He would always be lighting women cigarettes then leaving the lighter with the emblem facing up waiting to see the expression of recognition. It was simple and quite effective in breaking the ice without being forward.

Mistress Spenser's submissive
marsneedswomen



iammachine -> RE: Hint to the rest of the world (2/12/2008 9:49:40 PM)

I used to wear handcuffs on a biker jacket, but then, it also had bits of an ancient ethernet card on the lapels. Hurray for blurry lines between kinky gear and punk. :)

Also not so subtle, but could be  (and  has been explained away as more than once) novelty is a little "bondage bear" that I have.

As for subtle cues, I'll get some colored armbands sooner or later (think hanky code in the form of armbands).



FurDomme -> RE: Hint to the rest of the world (2/14/2008 11:40:59 AM)

I have a tank top that I purchased online years ago that says, "LICK MY BOOTS BITCH".  Too subtle?...lol



mnottertail -> RE: Hint to the rest of the world (2/14/2008 11:42:13 AM)

Depends.........do you wear boots with it? or is it just any random footwear?

Curiously,
Ron



BlueHnS -> RE: Hint to the rest of the world (2/14/2008 4:01:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Aimtoplease101

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ORIGINAL: BlueHnS

For the longest time, even after I retired from the bodyguard business I still carried handcuffs.


Now there's a good one-- hardly subtle or non-obvious, but good.  Did you get many questions about those?

ATP

 
Mostly I got comments ... from misguided individuals thinking that I would be the one in them ... There was the cop in Canada that pulled me over cause they were hanging on my rearview mirror ... All I really have to say about that is summed up in my sig line.



CalifChick -> RE: Hint to the rest of the world (2/14/2008 4:13:33 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lovetokissnylons

Nice site.  But, I don't understand the cartoon for small cock humiliation.  Could someone explain it, please ?  Thank you.


It took me a minute, click on it and zoom in and look at the hand she is holding up.  She has her fingers about an inch apart, indicating the size of his dick.  That one is almost too subtle.

Cali



lovetokissnylons -> RE: Hint to the rest of the world (2/14/2008 7:28:46 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

quote:

ORIGINAL: lovetokissnylons

Nice site.  But, I don't understand the cartoon for small cock humiliation.  Could someone explain it, please ?  Thank you.


It took me a minute, click on it and zoom in and look at the hand she is holding up.  She has her fingers about an inch apart, indicating the size of his dick.  That one is almost too subtle.

Cali



Got it now.  Thanks, CalifChick



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