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softandshy -> RE: Owned (2/10/2008 10:30:57 PM)
~smiles~ Granted, it takes careful searching before the initial commitment, but I'm not talking about how you might know in the beginning that you share political affiliations, or similar ideas on childrearing, or even the way you'd hang the toilet paper. Those are important, but not how I'd define ownership. To me it's when my attitudes and feelings align with hers. I'm speaking of the point at which her thoughts and ideas have affected me so deeply that they're ingrained in me. I've accepted her into myself to such a depth that i instinctively echo her, and it feels absolutely natural. I only realize it when I catch small details, remembrances that, while I might have agreed, I didn't always approach things as we both do now. Edited to add - Does this make sense to anyone other than me? Creep people out much? ~chuckles~

kimba1 -> RE: Owned (2/11/2008 2:35:54 AM)
Others have spoken far more eloquently than i here, and i couldn't agree more. There is also a powerful element of responsibility. As his prized possession, i am responsible for taking care of his property, for ensuring that i am in the best condition for his pleasure -- physically, emotionally, even intellectually. If he chooses to keep me locked away privately or if he chooses to show me off on display, i have no say -- i belong to him. On his part, i have absolute trust that as my owner, he will take care of me, nurture me, guide me to achieve my highest potential. With control and leadership comes great responsibility. I am immensely proud to belong to him, every moment of every day, whether awake, or when i am asleep and i find myself with him in my dreams. :-)

BlackPhx -> RE: Owned (2/11/2008 5:06:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHathor *Define it.* When even the thought that I may have hurt him, failed him in anyway brings me to my knees in tears. poenkitten

LadyPact -> RE: Owned (2/11/2008 8:34:51 PM)
From the other side. Owning him, in My opinion, means that everything about him as a submissive belongs to Me.

daddyncherry -> RE: Owned (2/11/2008 9:25:02 PM)
Great answers....love yurs Bita...beautiful, as are others. For me, i know that he owns me when each thing i do somehow connects back in someway to him..the smallest things somehow still manage to connect back.....i know he owns me when i am angry about something and yet i don't upset him with it, or yell about it, and knowing that i couldn't go even if i were terribly angry..that i am his and am here for him.....i know he owns me when i try to wear something that i would've worn prior to him and it feels just wrong until i put on something i know he would like better, even if he isn't there to see it. There is more, but thats a start

fairerthanshe -> RE: Owned (2/11/2008 9:33:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BlackPhx quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHathor *Define it.* When even the thought that I may have hurt him, failed him in anyway brings me to my knees in tears. poenkitten Greetings, ...and when he is pleased, my heart swells and nothing else matters - his fingers in my hair, the smile in his eyes, the sense of holistic rightness which envelopes me. well wishes ~ fairer

littleone35 -> RE: Owned (2/12/2008 12:36:43 PM)
It is when his happiness means more to me than my own. It is when i buy clothes and i think would style/color please Master. It is just hearing his voice give me tingles ans seeing him makes my heart beat faster. Knowing my day will not begin until i hear his voice. Heis the cream in my coffee, my rainbow after the rain, my owner and my love. Matt's littleone

Chaze -> RE: Owned (2/12/2008 5:30:24 PM)
You know you are owned when the broad, (the domme) starts working three jobs to give you money for booze drugs and gambling. It’s her job to act in your best interest so you have to encourage her to get them jobs even though you know she is to ignorant to keep them.

usedandpurrin -> RE: Owned (2/12/2008 7:17:38 PM)
For me it is totallity, everything. You give yourself, your live, your mind, your body and soul to someone else. you hand them everything that makes you, you and trust them to treat it well and always so with it what is in your best interest. trust is always top priority, i believe you are basically handing your owner your life. i am a slave and will one day be owned, but am not sure i could be a mistress. i believe ownership to be one of the hugest and heaviest responsibilities there is. i think it as difficult to truely define this as it is to define love as for each individule it means something different. Sorry for the poor answer, i tried lol xxx

usedandpurrin -> RE: Owned (2/12/2008 7:20:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Chaze You know you are owned when the broad, (the domme) starts working three jobs to give you money for booze drugs and gambling. It’s her job to act in your best interest so you have to encourage her to get them jobs even though you know she is to ignorant to keep them. At this point, im sorry to say, i'd release you, this doesnt sound like ownership to me, more lechery. I pitty your Domme.

ownedandcollared -> RE: Owned (2/12/2008 11:03:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHathor *Define it.* Wow. That's actually a really hard one. i could be banal and describe it as an agreed-upon status between two concenting adults, resulting in contract and collar. But that's obviously not it, is it? To be owned is a far, far more intricate thing. It is a feeling of belonging and lovely servitude. To be owned is to feel completely loved and wanted, as well as taken care of and provided for (not neccessarily financially...there are more important things than money). To be owned is to feel compelled to please and serve and cater to one Person, the one who Owns your heart and soul. okay. i'm waxing far too gushy...gonna stop. sorry.

slavemaia -> RE: Owned (2/13/2008 11:08:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHathor *Define it.* For me it's simply knowing that who i am has found expression and fulfillment in being possessed by the will of an Other.

CaraCaeth -> RE: Owned (2/15/2008 7:05:28 AM)
Being owned to me is first and foremost a complete sense of security, protection, and love. i don’t really like the term “property;” i find it dehumanizing and demoralizing. Even a slave is still a human being, with basic needs that must be met. i own my house, my cars; they are property. But while they can be damaged, they cannot be hurt. i have no responsibility or obligation to care for them beyond the fact that if i don’t, my cars will not run properly and i won’t be able to drive them; my house will not be comfortable and fit for living in. However, i own my dogs, but i do not consider them property. i have the responsibility and obligation to take care of them, to protect them from harm, to give them food, water, medical care, love and attention, training, discipline when necessary. i have the responsibility to do this without neglect or abuse. i have the responsibility to ensure their physical and psychological well-being (yes, i’m one of those weirdoes who believe animals have psychological needs). And yes, i even believe my dogs have the right to be well treated. i own dogs because doing so gives me pleasure; in return for my care, i expect them to love me, to play with me, to comfort me when i’m sad, to give me company when i’m lonely. To me, my being owned means the same thing; i am my Master’s pet. Obviously, i have more capabilities than a dog; but essentially i feel that my Master has the responsibility to ensure my mental, emotional, psychological, and physical well-being; to train me and discipline me when necessary; to love me, give me attention, and to care for and protect me. In return, i feel that i have the responsibility to make my Master happy, by serving His wants and desires, by giving Him comfort and making His life more comfortable, by being His companion, His pet. But because i am not an animal, it also means more. Being owned by my Master means He also owns my thoughts and my feelings; that every second of the day He is in my mind and my heart even if He is not by my side; that everything i do, i do with consideration of how it will affect Him. It means that if i anger Him or disappoint Him with my actions, it impacts every aspect of my life until i have received my punishment, done my penance, and made Him happy again. It means that if He is hurt, i hurt; when He is sad, it makes me sad; when He has energy, it gives me life; it means that if His requests are not fulfilled, then i have failed Him.

Tapestry -> RE: Owned (2/20/2008 11:06:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fairerthanshe Greetings, ...and when he is pleased, my heart swells and nothing else matters - his fingers in my hair, the smile in his eyes, the sense of holistic rightness which envelopes me. well wishes ~ fairer Very beautifully said - I agree.

obagaar -> RE: Owned (2/20/2008 11:19:03 PM)
Dictionary definition would be to belong to someone, to have them possess you.

true2myself -> RE: Owned (2/21/2008 1:52:28 PM)
Owned...it's an emotion, a feeling beyond any words that can be spoken. It's safety in His strength, security in His wisdom, and great knowledge in knowing i can trust Him as i have no other. i know that He can strip me down to nothing...to my deepest self and in return i know...in my mind, heart, and soul that He will cradle me lovingly, gently, and firmly in the palm of His hand and tuck me close to His heart.... lol...sounds mushy but tis how i feel.

colouredin -> RE: Owned (2/21/2008 2:46:19 PM)
Its to constantly have that person on your mind, what you can do to please them before they ask, its feeling as though i belong and am needed its feeling like i have a purpose and that purpose is to him and not needing anything from him and yet delighting in anything he does give me its pleasing him for him not for me doing things i dont want purely for his smile and knowing that i am making his life that bit better its gratitude that he chose me when he could have so many and proving that he made the right choice, its love

silvermuse -> RE: Owned (2/21/2008 2:51:22 PM)
It's a moment. It's looking into his eyes, feeling that grip in my hair, hearing the growled word of 'Mine' before he claims my lips and knowing nothing else matters in the world but him. Then returning to the world around me and being able to face anything because I am his. silvermuse

HerLord -> RE: Owned (2/22/2008 12:13:21 AM)
expendable.

TysGalilah -> RE: Owned (2/22/2008 3:29:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHathor *Define it.* I "have" many books, but I "own" a rare copy of one of the Dr Suess original books. I "have" dishes...but I now "own" my mothers treasured holiday dish-ware. I "have" things..but I "own" several treasured items from my childhood. own = to embrace and possess...treasure something of great value. I have been loved....Ive even been had. but with Tyson> I feel owned.

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