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ORIGINAL: Sub0liminal1
I am a single mother of three children.

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I believe that there are certain qualities that a Master/Dom must have in order to be able to lead, to take care of, to Master a submissive.

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ORIGINAL: Sub0liminal1

I believe that there are certain qualities that a Master/Dom must have in order to be able to lead, to take care of, to Master a submissive.

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ORIGINAL: Sub0liminal1

First let me say thank you for all of your input thus far it is genuinely appreciated.

I also see the need to be clear. I am not looking for a cash cow or some rich and prestige lifestyle. I am a single mother of three children. I work to support all of us. I work hard infact doing whatever it takes to pay the rent and all other expenses. I would say that the man I look to - to be my leader, to depend upon, to fill the need I have to be dominated must have his poop in group. If I can have mine together give my life situation then I would expect him to have his in order. He is not recovering from Divorce, he has no over the top expenses. If you are not incharge of your own life, and be responsible for your own well being how can you be a leader to another, and be responsible for another person's well being?

Many I have found look to this lifestyle as just about SEX and playing scenes. I seek the real life lifestyle, the day to day. I seek the male that not only I can respect but that I can trust can handle his own survival.

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I am speaking of a Master, Dom, who has a job and infact makes a good living, however cannot seem to manage his money or his affairs. Who seems to be an impulsive buyer and has no restraint or maturity where money is involved. So much He living conditions are not of an independant nature. Therefore given that I have children, the ability to actually live as Master and sub is more than difficult.

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Perhaps I do ask for too much. Perhaps I view the man I look to lead me and for me to submit mind body and soul to; to be in at least at my level in many things not simply financially. It is the early stages of this dance and all exploratory, where you feel each other out, learn about each other. Yes there are many things I like, yes there is chemistry but the things that I thought should be a foundation or a given seem to be scued.  

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ORIGINAL: Sub0liminal1

To DesFIP
Yes actually; I believe my post stated that I would hope to have at least my equal in most things when considering a Dom that would be able to provide what I need in a Man, a Leader, and someone I would look to be responsible for my well being.
I would like to be able to have social and political discussions. I am a business professional within the financial industry, I would hope that I could easily converse; and share that part of my life with my Master. The same way that He would expect me to understand; show interest and converse comfortably with his profession and his interests. Also as I stated I am not interested in a 6 figure income, but to be able to live independantly, pay rent and common expenses without having to borrow from me, friends or families on a "regular" basis. To have "some" characteristics missing is perhaps something to consider but there are other characteristics that are quite unsettling if they are not present. So Yes my equal is what I seek

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I expect submissives to be young and hot and smaller than a size seven, oh and be smart and funny with big tits!