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BeachMystress -> RE: Need Advice (9/13/2005 6:53:58 PM)
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The papers could denote what the two of you will be getting from the relationship, what is forbidden or expected (aka, the rules) and possible punishments for breaking the rules. It is also good to have an end date at which you renegotiate the ownership. Six months is a good first time, and lets you get an idea of what needs to be added or removed from the contract. Contracts are very individual things, so while looking at what others have done is a good starting point, don't forget to make sure all of your wishes and his needs are covered.
It seems your sub has a strong desire to be "owned." A good "contracting" gift for him might be to register him in one of the slave registries, http://www.slaveregister.com/ http://www.owk.cz/irs/ and then have his number and sub/slave name done on a pet tag. He can use this as a key chain or put it on his service collar. My husband is not registered with either registry, but I have gotten him a dogtag saying Beach's toyboy, and he loves it. It is on his key chain. You can often find the machines to do the engraved tags at your local pet store. You can order dogtags online at http://www.shimmerandstone.com/dogtags.html and either have them engraved by the online place, or visit somewhere like Things Remembered to have them engraved. You can also order engraved pet tags online http://www.phsspca.org/tags/ or buy instaID tags (you write on them) at the petstore (near the collars.)
Happy contracting!
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