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DiurnalVampire -> RE: Your Style? (2/11/2008 5:25:59 AM)
I am very loving but very strict in my expectations. I am a big communicator, I leave nothing to interpretation so that there are less chances for someone to get something wrong becasue tey werent sure what was expected of them. I am a reaction whore, like some are sensation whores. I am a sadist, but never for a punishment role. My boys have never been quite brave enough to find out what punishment might be like for anything worse than mouthing off. I am nuturing and affectionate when its appropriate, and demanding when its called for. I have no interest in protocol or titles, aside from Mommy. DV

DesFIP -> RE: Your Style? (2/11/2008 5:26:54 AM)
We've got five teens between us, so the ability to roll with the punches is something he possesses.

Justme696 -> RE: Your Style? (2/11/2008 6:21:52 AM)
lol..it is a bit weird to ask to judge about ourselfs. If I read back we are all close to perfect :)

sadomasokisti -> RE: Your Style? (2/11/2008 8:07:58 AM)
Nobody is perfect... I'm nobody

Justme696 -> RE: Your Style? (2/11/2008 9:53:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sadomasokisti Nobody is perfect... I'm nobody ORIGINAL: sadomasokisti <, then you spelled your name wrong ( but the terence hill movie are great)

Jeffff -> RE: Your Style? (2/11/2008 10:14:26 AM)
I am a goofball................with a cane..:) Jeff

Dnomyar -> RE: Your Style? (2/11/2008 10:21:50 AM)
I am a mixture. I adjust to the situation. I am a student as I am constantly learning. I don't want to be purfect as then I would be unsufferable. Communication and a sense of humor is big with me. I am probably to laid back for most. I have a "so then whats the problem" attitude. I am who I am and I am happy with that.

kyraofMists -> RE: Your Style? (2/11/2008 10:38:17 AM)
Our family has been labled "high protocol" by people who observe us. However, it all depends on perspective. Many of the people who label us that way, have very few protocols of their own. Someone that has more protocols than we do would think that is an inappropriate label. Most of our protocols have just become natural behavior between the three of us. Where I sit, stand, walk, how I give him a glass, address him, etc are just a normal part of our day to day interactions together. In play, all that falls away and the only rule is that there are no rules. I think that screws with people's heads to see what they consider to be very formal interaction between us and then to see the abandon and free flowing behaviors that happen during play. He can also be very strict about making sure that we stay within the boundaries that he has set for us. Stepping outside of that boundary will result in an immediate correction of our behavior. He is also extremely loving and affectionate (though as a sadist his affection can be somewhat painful). In private, he is playful and almost childlike in his enjoyment of life. In many ways, his style depends on what is appropriate at the time. Sometimes, his style is that we are very formal and reserved. Other times, he is very playful and fun. It depends on what is appropriate at the time. Knight's Kyra

TotalState -> RE: Your Style? (2/11/2008 10:53:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Justme696 ORIGINAL: sadomasokisti <, then you spelled your name wrong ( but the terence hill movie are great) Heh, he didn't, actually. It's an Icelandic spelling of the word, and that's his nick in the scene. /waves at sado

Justme696 -> RE: Your Style? (2/11/2008 11:05:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TotalState quote: ORIGINAL: Justme696 ORIGINAL: sadomasokisti <, then you spelled your name wrong ( but the terence hill movie are great) Heh, he didn't, actually. It's an Icelandic spelling of the word, and that's his nick in the scene. /waves at sado lol if his name is nobody..it can't be sadomasokisti that is what i meant actually :P

LadyPact -> RE: Your Style? (2/11/2008 11:43:50 AM)
I consider Myself a sensual sadist. What I do is for play, not punishment. (Ask My sub. Punishment is a bad thing.) I'm HOH of My poly family. Protocol isn't something that is just wanted. It's expected. There is nothing My sub can't discuss with Me, as long as he does it in a respectful manner. Other than that, I'd go with firm, yet loving hand.

Chocodelite4U -> RE: Your Style? (2/11/2008 12:15:25 PM)
I've have been told, that I'm a Communicator, teacher/drill sgt. I have my standards and rules, but I'm fair and consistence. I say what i mean, Sweet as chocolate if your on my good side. Gives respect and wants the same in return. Laid back, why repeat or nag when the sub knows what to do. First line of discpline is seperation, go sit on the other chair or couch away from me no touch, or talking. To the OP this is IMO sound like your trying to campare doms, or finding out how yours measures up. A voilolation if you were mines talking to other doms mis-subbing for sure.

breatheasone -> RE: Your Style? (2/11/2008 12:26:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Chocodelite4U I've have been told, that I'm a Communicator, teacher/drill sgt. I have my standards and rules, but I'm fair and consistence. I say what i mean, Sweet as chocolate if your on my good side. Gives respect and wants the same in return. Laid back, why repeat or nag when the sub knows what to do. First line of discpline is seperation, go sit on the other chair or couch away from me no touch, or talking. To the OP this is IMO sound like your trying to campare doms, or finding out how yours measures up. A voilolation if you were mines talking to other doms mis-subbing for sure. Its unfortunate you took my question like that. I'm glad a lot of the others that replied didn't, and saw that I was just asking a question, hoping for some discussion on what this wide wonderful world of WIITWD has in it[:)] ......I'm also not sure what was meant by what I highlighted in red.

julietsierra -> RE: Your Style? (2/11/2008 4:31:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: breatheasone quote: ORIGINAL: Chocodelite4U I've have been told, that I'm a Communicator, teacher/drill sgt. I have my standards and rules, but I'm fair and consistence. I say what i mean, Sweet as chocolate if your on my good side. Gives respect and wants the same in return. Laid back, why repeat or nag when the sub knows what to do. First line of discpline is seperation, go sit on the other chair or couch away from me no touch, or talking. To the OP this is IMO sound like your trying to campare doms, or finding out how yours measures up. A voilolation if you were mines talking to other doms mis-subbing for sure. Its unfortunate you took my question like that. I'm glad a lot of the others that replied didn't, and saw that I was just asking a question, hoping for some discussion on what this wide wonderful world of WIITWD has in it[:)] ......I'm also not sure what was meant by what I highlighted in red. Join the club. I have NO idea what that meant. My best guess is that his submissive is not allowed to speak to other dominants and maybe? (I have no real clue)... posting questions in forums such as this are a no-no for his submissive? Thank goodness my Master doesn't have a problem with what I do. He knows where I, my heart, and my loyalties lie. And has absolutely no worries that merely conversing with others will shake my views of who owns me. juliet

breatheasone -> RE: Your Style? (2/11/2008 4:42:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: julietsierra Join the club. I have NO idea what that meant. My best guess is that his submissive is not allowed to speak to other dominants and maybe? (I have no real clue)... posting questions in forums such as this are a no-no for his submissive? Thank goodness my Master doesn't have a problem with what I do. He knows where I, my heart, and my loyalties lie. And has absolutely no worries that merely conversing with others will shake my views of who owns me. juliet Thanks Juliet, I thought it was just me, [;)] and I'm with you....my Master doesn't have a problem with talking to anyone....

SirJohnMandevill -> RE: Your Style? (2/13/2008 6:45:14 AM)
I'm a romantic Dominant. When not scening, I hug, kiss, caress, hold my submissive, stroke her hair, do things as partners, give her gifts, open doors for her...all the while remembering our respective positions in the D/s dynamic (as does she). This is a new relationship for both of us, so we are still fitting into our respective pairs of shoes. [:)] When scening, I am very strict. This weekend, I treated her like a piece of property many times, but gave her tender, loving aftercare when the heat of the scene was over. Most importantly, we both still have a great deal to learn about what we each like from each other, and in general. Growth and variety are the keys to a successful relationship, at least for my submissive and me.

CalifChick -> RE: Your Style? (2/13/2008 10:31:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: antipode Post a list of types, with their specifications, and I'll tell you where I fall. (I think your question is way too generic). Let me see if I can help you out a little. Obligatory disclaimer: This is not by any means a complete list, and you can fall into more than one category. This is also not a "one true way" thing, but more of a "jumping off" place for you. 1. Sexual/sensual. Gets off on the sex, the romance, the sensuality, etc. 2. Daddy. May be a kind leader, mentor, or even harsh dictator. 3. High protocol. Someone who thrives on rules and regulations, and does not appreciate things out of "order". 4. Sadistic. 'Nuff said. 5. Power exchange. The thrill is in the power. That's all off the top of my head. I'm sure there's more as I said. Cali

Lumus -> RE: Your Style? (2/13/2008 3:23:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: breatheasone I am not overly experienced in that I haven't have a lot of exposure to different "D"types. I have had a few brief encounters, and am now in a permanet relationship with my Master/Daddy. So a question occured to me ....there have to be different "styles" of being a "D" type...maybe some lean more toward punishment....some toward talking things thru...some less interested with protocol...... some very into protocol.... The answers are as varied as human beings themselves I'm sure...... So whats your style?... are you mild?....wild?....strict protocol? or not so much.... "s" types...if you are free to do so...chime in as to what you think your "D" types syle is....I'm axious to hear what Y'all have to say [:)] Gentle, quiet, visceral, calculating, passionate, romantic, aggressive, patient, dutiful, instructive, nurturing, strict, parental, communicative FUCKING PSYCHO. Wait, that's how I come off to my friends. Take the last one off, though, and My girl would agree wholeheartedly...

Nineveh -> RE: Your Style? (2/13/2008 3:39:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick quote: ORIGINAL: antipode Post a list of types, with their specifications, and I'll tell you where I fall. (I think your question is way too generic). Let me see if I can help you out a little. Obligatory disclaimer: This is not by any means a complete list, and you can fall into more than one category. This is also not a "one true way" thing, but more of a "jumping off" place for you. 1. Sexual/sensual. Gets off on the sex, the romance, the sensuality, etc. 2. Daddy. May be a kind leader, mentor, or even harsh dictator. 3. High protocol. Someone who thrives on rules and regulations, and does not appreciate things out of "order". 4. Sadistic. 'Nuff said. 5. Power exchange. The thrill is in the power. That's all off the top of my head. I'm sure there's more as I said. Cali 4 and 5, tending more toward 5.

Arrrchibald -> RE: Your Style? (2/13/2008 4:56:33 PM)
Playful: I don't like being called "Sir." Much prefer "snuggle cupcake." Strict: What can I say, I like red asses. Why miss an opportunity to tenderize one? Oh, and I bite. Not nibble, bite. Sensual: Even in the middle of the most sadistic of activities, I love to intermittently grab the girl then kiss, hug, pet and grope her.

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