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Looking for ideas...... - 2/11/2008 8:25:42 AM

PorcelainDoll13

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Morning everyone! Master has Decided that He wants us to try a week of 24/7 D/s once we get settled into our new place and I was wondering if anyone had some ideas they'd like to share. The ideas that I'm looking for are things along the lines of certian behaviors, mannerisims, ect that slaves should/can/sometimes possess.
I'm not asking anyone to tell us what we should do, but rather suggestions of something that could be tried, if we like them. Right now we have a few rules like I have to greet him at the door on my knees when he gets home from work. Things like that. We're still kind of new to the lifestyle and sometimes we need a nudge in the right direction.
Thanks!
Tiffany

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RE: Looking for ideas...... - 2/11/2008 9:22:59 AM

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RE: Looking for ideas...... - 2/11/2008 10:23:25 AM

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there was a thread recently where we posted a diary telling you about our daily routine in 24/7 ... mine was just fantasy .. but there are a great many from people who are 24/7 in real time

i think it would be very illuminating for you to read it ....will look for the posts

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RE: Looking for ideas...... - 2/11/2008 10:35:23 AM

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http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=1177041

there you go ... took some finding though!

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RE: Looking for ideas...... - 2/11/2008 1:42:27 PM

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thank you much!!!!! :D

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RE: Looking for ideas...... - 2/13/2008 5:56:43 PM

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a former partner used to chain me in the bedroom (with enough lead to make it to the bathroom, and a key available in case of fire) when he went out to play poker for the night. he also used to send me out to do errands (go to the bagel store, or the grocery - a few block walk away from home) wearing something inserted in my ass.

i've also enjoyed being made to eat sitting at master or mistress's feet while eating, and on one occasion had one hand bound during dinner, making it a form of torture.

whatever you do, have fun!

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RE: Looking for ideas...... - 2/13/2008 6:15:18 PM

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I'll relate what my routine was when I was owned and collared to my former Master. If I woke first, I had to stay in bed until he woke, once he got out of bed, I had to make the bed then start the coffee and make his breakfast after I was told what he wanted to eat. I served his brekfast and coffee before sitting at his feet and eating mine. Then I cleaned the table and washed and dried dishes. Poured him another coffee and sat on floor as he outlined my chores for the day. I was told what to make for lunch and then done so. Again I served his lunch first and then I was allowed to eat mine at his feet. Sometimes he decided that he wanted to play so I would clean up and get things ready in the playroom. Or he had anothe rlist of chores to do in the afternoon. Late in the day, I was given about an hour of free time to read or sit outside. Close to dinnertime, I was told what the meal was to be and I had to start dinner, and again I served his first and then mine. Cleaned the table and then wash, dry and put the dishes away. The evenings I spent at his feet if he was watching tv, entertaining company or on the computer. If friends came over to play, I was made available to be used and if he desired to be available for his friends to play with. At bedtime, I was to get the coffeepot ready for the morning, turn the lights off and turn down the bed. I was to crawl into bed and lie down close to the middle so he could snuggle against me as we fell asleep.

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RE: Looking for ideas...... - 2/13/2008 8:15:46 PM

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24/7 Ds looks just like 24/7 vanilla most of the time.

It's all in what you make it- if you want high protocol and exagerrated and "mindful" expressions, then do so. But let it be from within you, what resonates already. Trying to layer on affectations will only stress you out.

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RE: Looking for ideas...... - 2/13/2008 9:09:22 PM

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We have a coffe maker with a built in timer. If I forget to set it, I am in deep trouble. <grin>
My rules say I wake Master with oral service. In reality, well, if I wake up before the alarm goes off on a work day, that is what I do. On a weekend I wait till he is awake and indicates to me that he is ready to be awake, then I begin. after that I mount him. Then I get up and get his first cup of coffee and bring it to him in bed and kneel to serve it to him, then sit at his feet while he drinks it. Depending on my sugar reading, I will often have a glass of juice at this time with him. When he asks me to, I get up and start the shower, then climb in with him and wash him. When we get out of the shower I dry him and kiss his feet. I ask for permission to wear my robe, then I leave him to shave himself and get dressed and ready for his day, and I go prepare breakfast.
At night, I undress him, always kissing both his shoes and his feet. Then I undress him. On rare occasions I get the treat of watching him undress (GD, he is sexy.) He chains my hands to my collar by means of a short chain (I have some movement but can not fully extend my elbows. I can, for instance, check my sugar during the night.) He chains me to the bed by means of a chain at my nakle which is long enough for me to go to the bathroom. Former slaves of his woke him each tiem they needed to be unchained and use the bathroom, (or anything else), but, as a diabetic, that routine lasted about one night for us, and he added additional chain.
I service him before we get into bed together, and thank him for owning me. Then I ask him if I can join him in bed, or wait for him to tell me to.
In general, I ask his permission to use furniture. I ask to use the bathroom. Master lays my clothes out for me each day, if I am going anywhere where I might be allowed to wear clothes. Generally, I am nude at home, and in heels. (Master does have a serious heel fetish).
I ask Master at breakfast what his plans are for the day and if there is anything he needs or expects of me for that day.
At meals, I generally set the table completely with a finished meal, let Master know that his meal is ready, and then kneel by his chair with his coffee. When he sits, he takes his coffee, kisses me, then I stay kneeling until he gives me permission to sit at the table. I like meeting him at the door kneeling when he comes home. I always go to the door with him in the morning to give him one last kiss goodbye. I believe deeply that couples should go to bed together, but I sometimes have to ask his permission to go ahead to bed ahead of him, but not often. We spend part of each evening on the couch cuddling.
There are a lot of things we do that I consider play. But these are some of the things that are part of daily life. Of course, you already know the basic answer - find the things that fit you and feel good and natural. Have fun.

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RE: Looking for ideas...... - 2/13/2008 9:11:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

24/7 Ds looks just like 24/7 vanilla most of the time.

It's all in what you make it- if you want high protocol and exagerrated and "mindful" expressions, then do so. But let it be from within you, what resonates already. Trying to layer on affectations will only stress you out.

Greetings tiffany,

Please, pay close attention to what LA has stated. It is so very true. Finding ways to enjoy a 24/7 relationship are just like that of a vanilla relationship. The bills need to be paid, the house needs to be cleaned, clothes need to be washed. Yes, these tasks can all be delineated along the particular roles you each occupy in your dynamic, its just important to remember that not every second of every day is spent with dungeony things being done.

Bear's relationship with his Master was highly structured. The relationship I have with SJ is not. There are many similarities between the two relationships - the most important one being that it is lived according to the Master's wishes.

Congratulations and best wishes on the move in!

well wishes ~ fairer than she

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