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what are you doing for Your SO/Master/Mistress for Vale... - 2/11/2008 11:34:51 AM

BBWnNC72

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i am wanting to do something personal. i don't have much money to spend so i was thinking about getting some massaging oil, giving Him a great massage and then feeding Him grapes.

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RE: what are you doing for Your SO/Master/Mistress for ... - 2/11/2008 11:48:45 AM

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ORIGINAL: BBWnNC72

i am wanting to do something personal. i don't have much money to spend so i was thinking about getting some massaging oil, giving Him a great massage and then feeding Him grapes.

Cooking for him and I bought him a gift, and anything he has up his sleeve.

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RE: what are you doing for Your SO/Master/Mistress for ... - 2/11/2008 11:55:41 AM

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i think we are gonna order in some food, cuz in Minnesota its freezing cold, rent a movie or 2 (one of them being No Reservations cuz it looks really cute) and going to bed "early". He has to work the next day so theres not alot to do because of that. But i think this weekend He is going to take me to see a movie. i bought Him a gift and i cant say what it is cuz he reads these now and than and i dont want to spoil the gift. But it cost me 50 bucks and its something i hope He likes. He got me polished stainless steel wrist and ankle restraint/cuffs and the most important thing of all, a collar, His collar making me officially His.

If you are on a tight budget, lighting some candles, drawing a bath for Him and bathing Him while chatting about the day, you can get some decent wine or champagne for like 10-20 bucks, sip on that with some fruits with dipping sauce (caramel, chocolate, or something you both like) and a massage, maybe a mutual massage. It can be erotic and sensual as well as under 30-50 bucks to do with the wine, fruit and such.

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RE: what are you doing for Your SO/Master/Mistress for ... - 2/11/2008 11:55:44 AM

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Master and i were going to go to the beach but the plans fell through and i have to stay at school for the weekend. so thursday He is coming to see me and i am going to give Him a new riding crop. i would cook for Him as well but i cant seeing as i live in a dorm during the week. i will also have my body ready for inspection. and i will see what ever else i can come up with throughour the rest of the week to make Him the happiest i can.
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RE: what are you doing for Your SO/Master/Mistress for ... - 2/11/2008 12:02:05 PM

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I'm not sure what we're going to do.... We have a standing date on Thursday night for dinner, so I'm guessing we'll still do dinner. As far as a gift, I'm not real sure about that. I recently bought Him a rather spendy toy so I'm thinkin that will be the extent of gifts for this month.

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RE: what are you doing for Your SO/Master/Mistress for ... - 2/11/2008 12:05:30 PM

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We've been insanely busy lately, so probably not much at all. Just make some time to sit and be together without distractions.

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RE: what are you doing for Your SO/Master/Mistress for ... - 2/11/2008 3:20:44 PM

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Greetings,

I am making truffles and chocolate covered fruit for SJ on Wednesday night. I also got him a kite. He loved kites growing up and I thought it would be a great Sunday afternoon thing to get out of the house (especially since football season is over).

well wishes ~ fairer

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RE: what are you doing for Your SO/Master/Mistress for ... - 2/11/2008 3:34:50 PM

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I did get him a gift but i can't go into it yet because he reads all my posts. I could not get him anything too expensive because he does not want me to spend my money on him. If i did he might like the gift but i would get in trouble for spending the money. I did however get him something i think he will really like. I will GIVE him something i know he will love.

Matt's littleone

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RE: what are you doing for Your SO/Master/Mistress for ... - 2/11/2008 3:39:38 PM

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I bought him a small present and a card. He does not expect anything and will be pleasantly surprised.

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RE: what are you doing for Your SO/Master/Mistress for ... - 2/11/2008 3:50:26 PM

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I'm going to remain cheerful no matter what is going on in the present chaos. We might end up spending the night in a mostly empty apartment that has no phone, internet or cable TV, but at least there is a toilet.

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RE: what are you doing for Your SO/Master/Mistress for ... - 2/11/2008 4:09:32 PM

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We'll be at Teenboykidlet's first high school lacrosse game...then probably pizza after.

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RE: what are you doing for Your SO/Master/Mistress for ... - 2/11/2008 7:30:20 PM

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If you have some chocolate chips, melt them and dip the grapes into the chocolate and put on foil on a plate to chill. Strawberries are nice also.

Can't you cook him some dinner also, at least get some nice cheese and crackers and salami to begin? I love fruit, plain or chocolate dipped but a full meal it does not make. Sauteed chicken and vegetables and a crusty Italian bread works. Simple and not that expensive.

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RE: what are you doing for Your SO/Master/Mistress for ... - 2/11/2008 9:47:47 PM

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We're doing a typical romantic dinner out- and otherwise what I've done is release him from stress regarding the day. He's got a few other major big things on his plate and I've reassured him that I expect nothing, desire nothing, and would most want him to NOT worry about being together or doing special things or buying me something other than the dinner we've already planned.

Not that he needs my permission so much, more that his natural inclination is to always worry and want to do more and he WOULD stress and fret if I didn't take that official step of laying out how I feel.

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RE: what are you doing for Your SO/Master/Mistress for ... - 2/11/2008 10:16:40 PM

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****Update**** We won't be having our normal Thursday night dinner... instead, we'll spend the afternoon playing!! weeeeeeeee *doing the happy dance*

but of course..... now I'm thinking I should get him a little something. Argh.... but what???? flowers? nah, candy? I guess I could get him some candy... I dunno, I'd rather do something nontraditional.

girly

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RE: what are you doing for Your SO/Master/Mistress for ... - 2/11/2008 10:27:12 PM

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Neither one of us put a lot of import on holidays or birthdays. We're in a long distance relationship, and seeing each other 2 weekends a month is the best gift ever -- I'd rather have that than anything. Having said that, I did send him a card because I found one that was just so adorable and appropos. They were cute this year.

BBWnNC72: I guess if he likes massages and grapes, he's going to be one happy camper. I like to freeze those red seedless grapes -- they're yummy in champagne cocktails!

Hopefully, it's still the thought that counts.

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RE: what are you doing for Your SO/Master/Mistress for ... - 2/11/2008 10:36:47 PM

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i'm flying down to be with Him for the weekend. on Thursday we are going out to eat then possibly out to a goth club we go to all the time, then Friday night He is throwing a fetish party...cause nothing says i love you more than whips and chains ^_^

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RE: what are you doing for Your SO/Master/Mistress for ... - 2/11/2008 11:08:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: verysweet

Hopefully, it's still the thought that counts.

That's always been my experience.

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RE: what are you doing for Your SO/Master/Mistress for ... - 2/12/2008 12:24:38 AM

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im... turning my cell phone off lol... im terrible about text messaging and what not.
So yea... We're going to spend the day together and i am going to leave my phone
off and probablly at home or in the glove box. Not sure i will make it *fakes distress*

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RE: what are you doing for Your SO/Master/Mistress for ... - 2/12/2008 3:47:33 AM

BBWnNC72

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

If you have some chocolate chips, melt them and dip the grapes into the chocolate and put on foil on a plate to chill. Strawberries are nice also.

Can't you cook him some dinner also, at least get some nice cheese and crackers and salami to begin? I love fruit, plain or chocolate dipped but a full meal it does not make. Sauteed chicken and vegetables and a crusty Italian bread works. Simple and not that expensive.

Not sure if we will be here for me to cook. we are celebrating my birthday also. but it turns out now we have to wait till Monday to celebrate Valentines and my birthday. He won't tell me what we are doing.

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RE: what are you doing for Your SO/Master/Mistress for ... - 2/12/2008 10:24:48 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BBWnNC72

i am wanting to do something personal. i don't have much money to spend so i was thinking about getting some massaging oil, giving Him a great massage and then feeding Him grapes.

I cannot tell you what I am doing because with my luck he will be reading the forums. I am going down to his place for a week starting this afternoon. I will hint, it involves sex, love, mushy romantic stuff

He is taking me to Catalina, and that is all I know of what we are doing, although it would not surprise me if he kidnapped me and took me elsewhere instead... damn I love that man.

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