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proudsub -> RE: What would you do? (2/12/2008 7:46:54 PM)

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This person also happened to see me on this website. 


You've gotten some good advice.  I assume you had a picture on your profile.  I just want to say to everyone--don't put up a picture if you care about being outed!!




LadyLolly -> RE: What would you do? (2/12/2008 8:00:18 PM)

An X outed me to my parents, and while I was quite a bit older than you are now the main thing they needed to know was that above all - it was consentual, between adults. 
- safe and sane are not poor choices to re-inforce either

Frankly, if your mom had a profile filled out like ours are - wouldn't you be a little uncomfortable with getting too much information also?  Soooooooo mom, you enjoy the really big vibratting butt plugs do you?  Guess I know what to get you for your birthday now don't I? 

It would perhaps also be good, if she hasn't met him, if he's willing, to do so to help reassure her.  If not, you have a steady, aren't running all over the place with "strangers".  The intimate details of your preferences were perhaps not the most discrete thing, but it's part of who you are.  Blow by blow details are private.

Good Luck.
  






atursvcMaam -> RE: What would you do? (2/12/2008 9:12:35 PM)

Congratulations, it sounds like you did the right things and that you have a very level head on your shoulders.  Nice work and good luck.  




HerLord -> RE: What would you do? (2/14/2008 4:36:26 AM)

My question is: who the hell was this guy, and why the hell aren't you over there knocking on his door.  Better yet, confront him at his workplace in full slave gear with a blow up of his profile.  This was none of his damn business, and created drama for you that he is immune from.  That's bullshit.

If it were me, I'd be dealing with him right after I had a nice, open conversation with my mother and assured I was safe and that this was my choice. 




mnottertail -> RE: What would you do? (2/14/2008 4:40:03 AM)

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ORIGINAL: HerLord
Better yet, confront him at his workplace in full slave gear with a blow up of his profile. 


LOLOLOL, this would sure be helpful to the secretary, she would know who you've come to see at my place, wouldn't have to ask.......right this way, madam....

Ron  




kittensmailbox -> RE: What would you do? (2/14/2008 5:02:37 AM)

Of course he had no right to that... but take his power away.. tell your mom, i am adult




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