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Men in Panties Question - 2/12/2008 5:52:11 PM   
SlaveBlutarsky


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I've been  discussing submitting to a friend of mine in some capacity and one of the things she really enjoys and would requre of me is to wear panties. I've no experience and have a few questions for the group.

1. Sizing, I wear an XL Jockey boxer short normally and have about a 36-38 inch waist, any suggestions for size? I checked on Victoria's Secret and they don't have a female to male conversion chart. Jerks.

2.  Type. She'd like me to wear full bottom or hi thigh, but I was wondering if there were specific cuts or styles that were more supportive/conduscive to a man's anatomy. I'm not huge,  but have a bit of size to my cock and balls, so I'm hoping to find something that is a bit more supportive or comfortable to wear all day.

Any help would be greatly appreciated.

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RE: Men in Panties - 2/12/2008 5:54:01 PM   
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Try a woman's size 8 or 9, my sub loves thongs though they don't give a lot of support. You might try "boy shorts" or bikinis, those might work for you.

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RE: Men in Panties - 2/12/2008 5:55:47 PM   
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Damn, I was just having this conversation with one of my Boys the other day, and I found a really great website that specialises in sissy clothes, and they had a brilliant conversion chart that was very helpful, it covered panty size, bra size, shoes, stockings, the whole gamut... and Now it's just vanished from my head... Bugger.. I found it through googling 'sissy clothing'  so try that.

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RE: Men in Panties - 2/12/2008 6:01:32 PM   
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I would say 9 or 10 - you won't find them in Victoria's Secret - maybe more Lane Bryant.   You could also get a couple of cheap pairs at Walmart to assess size better.

Avenue has some great plus sized lingerie online.

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RE: Men in Panties - 2/12/2008 6:07:50 PM   
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Are you calling me fat :(

Just kidding, thanks for the input and any other input/suggestions.


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RE: Men in Panties - 2/12/2008 6:09:05 PM   
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Fashion Bug also carries plus size panties and they arent expensive and really cute, or you can try Torrid they also carry plus sizes.

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RE: Men in Panties - 2/12/2008 6:09:48 PM   
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Fat?  No.

Big cuddly guy?  Definately.

I like big cuddly ;-)

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RE: Men in Panties - 2/12/2008 6:38:24 PM   
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I like Jockey French cut myself.  :)  And they make them in up to a size 10.

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RE: Men in Panties - 2/12/2008 7:20:10 PM   
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I like Jockey French cut myself.  :)  And they make them in up to a size 10.


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RE: Men in Panties Question - 2/12/2008 7:30:03 PM   
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For me, part of the *joy* is having a male sub go into VS and dig into the bins (politely of course) to hold  up the panties in L size and see if they might fit by eyeballing them.  No one knows they are for YOU after all...lol.   Also, I like it when panties are uncomfortably tight on a man, so a large thong might fit a larger man in some cases. Otherwise, you may have more luck at Frederick's for larger sizes than what VS carries.
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RE: Men in Panties Question - 2/12/2008 7:31:50 PM   
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You can special order up to a size 16 (XL) at Vickie's' most stores don't carry the fully grown women's section!!! Surely you can get what you need at Fredrick's I find their garments work just as well.  Try a 8-9 thong or a 9-10 full pantie.  Lane Bryant run large you could be a 14-16 or 16-18 just depends on your middle :)

For comfort - get a gaff pantie you will need to 'tuck' your twig and berries... Women's panties are not generally supportive if you know what I mean. 

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RE: Men in Panties Question - 2/12/2008 7:45:54 PM   
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Hee hee.  Jockey french cuts are for ME, silly boy!  We Amazons neeed comfy and durable undies.

Personally, I like a touch of the old-fashioned and demure in a submissive's lingerie.  Real silk is always appreciated; who doesn't look lovely in a camisole and tap pants?   

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RE: Men in Panties Question - 2/12/2008 7:52:30 PM   
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This isn't a plug for another website, but take a look at SissySchool.com...everything you ever wanted to know about buying and wearing panties.

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RE: Men in Panties Question - 2/12/2008 9:25:12 PM   
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Personally, I like a touch of the old-fashioned and demure in a submissive's lingerie.  Real silk is always appreciated; who doesn't look lovely in a camisole and tap pants?   


My pink cami does make me feel pretty. *le sigh*


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RE: Men in Panties Question - 2/12/2008 9:31:53 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama

Personally, I like a touch of the old-fashioned and demure in a submissive's lingerie.  Real silk is always appreciated; who doesn't look lovely in a camisole and tap pants?   


My pink cami does make me feel pretty. *le sigh*



Don't be so modest...you are pretty no matter what you wear!   LOL

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RE: Men in Panties Question - 2/12/2008 9:40:16 PM   
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A 36-38" waist translates to a 16-18 in women's sizes, or a 2XL. Your best bet is Lane Bryant, or other stores that specialize in clothing for plus sized women.

As far as styles that are more condusive to a man's anatomy, I can't speak too much there. The only men that I've known that were wearing women's clothes were also tucking their willy and strapping it into place with medical tape. You might try "boy shorts" and cheeky panties (they look kinda like hot pants), they are fairly similar to briefs, but made for women.


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RE: Men in Panties Question - 2/12/2008 10:03:13 PM   
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I hate to disagree  with most of these posts but it seems he would be closer to a size 8 or XL womans size. Some size 8 will be a too small and too tight.  Most will be somewhat snug but not too tight. This is my experience and we are  the same size in waist measurement.  Most of my mens underwear though is L, (36-38) or (38-40). I find size 9 panties are just too big and loose. Hope That Helps,    lovmuffin

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RE: Men in Panties Question - 2/13/2008 5:46:25 AM   
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From experience I would say you should wear a size 8-and perhaps even a 7. Purchase a style that has some spandex and nylon that will support and hold your parts. You may want to tuck yourself to look more appropriate in those lovely panties.

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RE: Men in Panties Question - 2/13/2008 7:09:41 AM   
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Try Lovers Lane or Pricillias they both have catalogs.

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RE: Men in Panties Question - 2/13/2008 7:30:56 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SlaveBlutarsky

I've been  discussing submitting to a friend of mine in some capacity and one of the things she really enjoys and would requre of me is to wear panties. I've no experience and have a few questions for the group.

1. Sizing, I wear an XL Jockey boxer short normally and have about a 36-38 inch waist, any suggestions for size? I checked on Victoria's Secret and they don't have a female to male conversion chart. Jerks.

2.  Type. She'd like me to wear full bottom or hi thigh, but I was wondering if there were specific cuts or styles that were more supportive/conduscive to a man's anatomy. I'm not huge,  but have a bit of size to my cock and balls, so I'm hoping to find something that is a bit more supportive or comfortable to wear all day.

Any help would be greatly appreciated.


SlaveBlutarsky,
I require my pup to wear girly panties, he is not a small man either so it is definitely important to get the right size. He wears size 10 and he is very comfy in them.
By the way, completely off topic, but should your Mistress want you to wear a butt plug during the day while you are out and about, try using a g-string to get the plug to stay in place. That is the only time I ask pup to wear a G.

Personally I like him in frilly little girly panties :)

Good luck and have fun with it!

ETA: I get pup's panties from Walmart <shrugs> But I do like him to go into VS and look around, he is embarrassed and there is nothing better than his red face...unless of course it is his pretty red ass <s>


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