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RainGod -> RE: help please (9/16/2005 7:13:17 PM)

An interesting thread indeed. Ligar59 posted:

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Well if you have problems verbalizing, how about a note?


Great idea. Since you mentioned writing your requests and needs to Him, I thought about possibly a journal. Maybe writing these things in a journal He could read would help her learn it is okay to ask for help from Him and maybe ease the apprehension she feels? Soon she will be able to cross the bridge and begin to vocalize her needs.

Online jourrnals are great for stuff like this, and there are tons of free ones listed in Google. Best of luck to you.




solesta -> RE: help please (10/2/2005 8:49:14 AM)

Sorry for being away for so long and thank you for all Your help and ideas. I'm now working and getting very little computer time so please dont' be upset.

Master had me journaling before i got the job and to a point it worked but he didn't bring up what was in it cause a journal is a safe zone. If I say something in it that upset him he wil not use it against me. But now that I"m working and not getting the time on the computer to journal we need to sork out something else.

Master has taken it on his self to remove me from asking for help around the house by deciding to do a few jobs for me until my body gets so that after a day of work I'm not tired. ( Not working for almost a year will do that to you ) My daughter is helping too and something tells me that Master told her to do a bit more to help me get through this new time in my life.

He is now also taking me on walks so that I can talk to him and I"m thinking that the walks are like my journals but with input and ideas coming from him to help me get back to being a working slave again.




TexasMaam -> RE: help please (10/2/2005 2:41:07 PM)

solesta,

sub suzanne, aka plantlady64, has given you two golden responses to your original question.

Once you ask for help with abcxyz, people usually feel better about themselves for having responded to you by giving the assistance that you need.

As for 'how to get past the fear of asking', I think you did just fine in your original post: Namely, ask 'please'
...you certainly got a lot of responses here with just two words: "help, please".
You have answered your own question, dear!

"Please, Sir, can You move my right ankle for me a bit, the binding hurts..."
"Please, Sir, may I talk to you about abcxyz; it's been on my mind a lot today..."
"Sir, I am doing my best to vaccuum Your house, do all of Your laundry, and mow Your lawn today but I would be so much more successful if you could help me, please, by taking out this heavy garbage for this little one?"...

A good Dom should always respond to protocol. Just be prepared for the fact that sometimes his answer, whether silent or verbal, may be "no".

Texas Maam




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