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RE: WHAT IS LOVE??? - 2/13/2008 4:53:39 PM

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new car smell love?

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RE: WHAT IS LOVE??? - 2/13/2008 4:55:06 PM

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Really is the love you feel in the shiny new glow of a relationship really the deep and lasting kind or is love slow and steadfast?

shrug...either, both, neither, all of the above and none of the above....hell who knows? There's nothing wrong with taking it slow, but be careful that you remember that how you feel isn't really predicated on how he feels or what he says. Sounds to me like you may already have your answer and are unsure.....maybe not though.......sigh...you're confusing me!!!!!

I think I might but i refuse to say it first! So I wont, so there! Just keeping my self in check because I am not setting the pace.

i think its a good thing that he is slower. I dont know if anyone remembers the sub frenzy i was previously in. I have seen others jump in with both feet and then down the road realize they made a mistake.

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RE: WHAT IS LOVE??? - 2/13/2008 4:59:41 PM

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new car smell love?

yes! Where everything they do is just adorable and amazing! the sex is always a marathon and the shibari is always an artistic masterpeice!

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RE: WHAT IS LOVE??? - 2/13/2008 5:03:08 PM

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BITCH!!!! sorry just jealous that you get shibari...i was overcome...you were saying????
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RE: WHAT IS LOVE??? - 2/13/2008 5:08:56 PM

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BITCH!!!! sorry just jealous that you get shibari...i was overcome...you were saying????
~covetous slut

i think I will make you more jealous when i send you some c-mail!

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RE: WHAT IS LOVE??? - 2/13/2008 5:22:31 PM

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Love is.... intricately tied ropes and knots

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RE: WHAT IS LOVE??? - 2/13/2008 5:23:54 PM

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Love is.... intricately tied ropes and knots

i htought love was a warm puppy.

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RE: WHAT IS LOVE??? - 2/13/2008 5:29:19 PM

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Eh..... it's a second hand emotion, though I'm a bit jaded on the concept of love at the moment!

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RE: WHAT IS LOVE??? - 2/13/2008 5:34:53 PM

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For me there and many levels and degrees of love. I love my um more than anything and no one other than a sibling will get close to that level.

My lovers past and present are all in varyign degrees based on where they are in my life at this point with the exception of the above's father

As for what is love..love is love

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RE: WHAT IS LOVE??? - 2/13/2008 5:35:28 PM

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uhoh...and i was so hopeful that you and Jeff could make something happen...damn...

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RE: WHAT IS LOVE??? - 2/13/2008 5:37:31 PM

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What can I say, I'm just another wallflower in a field of weeds. ~sigh~

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RE: WHAT IS LOVE??? - 2/13/2008 5:43:11 PM

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The thing is, some say they love you but dont act like they do.
some dont say the words but there actions say i love you.

So what speaks louder actions or words?
or do you need both the actions and the words to make it tangible?

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RE: WHAT IS LOVE??? - 2/13/2008 5:49:54 PM

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Mature men can separate lust from feelings of affection and romantic love.

If you wimmen are as exclusively sensitive as you appear to believe why has most of romantic "guff" been written by men and not wimmen.?
Only arskin'

hehe, you silly....it's because all that romantic guff gets the mens into the wimmens beds! not to sound jaded, but isn't that the first priority of the mens? at least at first? oh shit, i do sound jaded.....someone smack me.

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RE: WHAT IS LOVE??? - 2/13/2008 5:53:21 PM

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My feeling is you need both the words and the actions to validate one's feelings of love towards another. In many cases the action does speak louder then words though hearing a SO say I Love You seems to make it all more real and more honest. And yes, deep down I am a hopeless romantic!

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RE: WHAT IS LOVE??? - 2/13/2008 5:55:11 PM

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For me, definately actions... i can handle that gruff exterior if all His deeds prove i am loved,cherished, and safe to show my love in return. Some people have a hard time saying "I love you", so they just show and prove their feelings...and i think in essence THAT'S what really matters. Flowery words are nice...but not always necessary.

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RE: WHAT IS LOVE??? - 2/13/2008 6:02:39 PM

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Nothing wrong with being slightly jaded and going slow.
maybe its cause playing with matches a girl can get burned
So, although i want you to light my fire, i want the embers to continue to burn and smolder and to not flare up like a bonfire and then exstinguish quickly.

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RE: WHAT IS LOVE??? - 2/13/2008 6:10:43 PM

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Great subject huh? I have been thinking about this due to Valentine's day. Do I really know what love is? (For me, yes). Other than the kind a parent feels for a child,how do you recognize it? (I know...and I know when I know). I contemplated this because I have been in a relationship for less that 4 months. I like him alot and maybe love him, but I'm not sure what love is? (You'll know. If you don't {know}...then you don't know...and if you don't "know"....then you won't know....ya know?) I definately feel emotion and passion. (Of course). When I am being Dominated or in the throws of passion and breathless I think, "I love you". but isn't this passionate feeling of love through sex just merely lust? (Possibly). Women do feel emotionally from the sexual , so do we mistake lust for sex? (I don't have an "innie"...mine's an "outie"....so I'd be at a loss on this one). If we do mistake love for sex,than what constitues love and how do we recognize it? (I can't tell you...but I can assure you, you'll know...if you don't...then it ain't).

Hard to believe i was married for 12 years. Maybe that wasnt love but just security and farmiliarity? (Could have been cash flow).

So all my Valentines tell me your thoughts on love and the recognition of it?

I have none {recognition}...all I can tell you is...when I'm in love, my face and neck are typically discolored. If your neck matches the predominant color on your bank statement....you're in love.

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RE: WHAT IS LOVE??? - 2/13/2008 6:33:16 PM

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Love,Now if we could find a cure for all the broken hearts and all the tears that has been shed in the name of love then we would be very rich indeed..I find my wealth in the warm glowing feeling I find watching my woman sleep at night,watching her hug and play with her kittens,Knowing that she would go to war for me and has proven it so many times.When the chips are down she is the only one I can really count in the game..There must be millions of words to describe the word love but its the simple things that flips my switch..

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RE: WHAT IS LOVE??? - 2/13/2008 6:54:14 PM

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Being a young guy, the tendancy is to drift towards lust, however i know what true love is all about. Often i would find myself sitting with Mistress, staring into Her eyes, admiring thier beauty. Not caring about what else is going on around me. Cherishing every second, every breath when i was with Her, daydreaming about Her when i am not. I also have the tendancy to be quite a toucher. I cannot keep my hands off of Mistress. I am so in love with Her and Her body, i cannot resist. And this isnt even a sexual attraction, just in love with every aspect of Her. From Her soft skin to Her amazing laugh. I am completely head over heals in love with Mistress. Nothing can bring me more joy in this world than to be with the woman i dearly love!

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RE: WHAT IS LOVE??? - 2/13/2008 7:53:41 PM

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So all my Valentines tell me your thoughts on love and the recognition of it?

I can't tell you what love is, or how to recognize it, but I will tell you how we created it:

Commitment. Communication. Cooperation. Hard work. Effort. Time.

We were never "in love." That's just another word for infatuation. A chemical rush that can become an addiction, but which ultimately fades after two years or less, unless a child is conceived. Then the love for the child becomes the bond, via another chemical rush. A bond of love takes more than nature's own amphetamine rushing through your brain. Hell, there are drugs that will duplicate it, except it's not targetted at anyone in particular. I'm not saying it doesn't feel good, regardless of its origins. I'm just saying it's a high, no more.

Putting in the hours is never sexy, no matter the goal.

But commitment and its cousin, perseverance, are the keys to anything worth doing or having.

A rock star looks and sounds great on stage, and it all looks effortless; a ton of kids want to become one. But spending hour upon hour in the garage practicing, until you know the guitar better than your family... isn't sexy. So they give up on becoming a rock star, usually. An impeccable slave looks, sounds, moves and feels incredible at a show, and it all appears effortless; a lot of dominants want one, and a lot of submissives want to be one. But spending hour upon hour fine tuning the dynamic and practicing the skills, until you know your slave better than yourself... isn't sexy. So they give up on the dynamic and seek the next velcro collar. A perfect couple look great together at a function, and it all seems effortless; everyone wants to have what they have. But spending hour upon hour working on the relationship and pulling each other through all the crap life throws at you, until you know your partner better than your own soul... isn't sexy. So people move on to greener pastures, always seeking that elusive partner, the mythical Mr. or Mrs. Right.

It has now been ten years since me and my girl decided to settle for love, and it has been time well spent.

It hasn't been easy or sexy. I've risked my life for my girl. If it's called for, I'll do it again without hesitating. When I thought I could go no further, I would look at her, and I would go on. When I was unable to see anything good in life, and had forgotten that there ever was anything worth living for, and wanted only the sweet release of death, I would hold on to that commitment, and I would look at her, and I would remember that there is exactly one thing in this world worth dying for, and one thing worth living for: her.

What we have is not perfect. What we have is commitment, and each other. What more is there?

Happy Valentine's.

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