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Gags - 2/15/2008 2:51:00 AM

chezzy52

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It wouldn't take me long to talk or post on my favorite fetish and so here i go.I believe i have a gag fetish like no one else on the planet.Only a select handful are aware of this and that is because i knew i would be received well in asking why this makes me tick if you will so much.Well it is time to throw open the barn door as they say.A little background first.I was only six years of age when four ladies took turns clamping their hand/hands across my mouth.As traumatic as that was,somehow it became ingrained in me that it also felt good..most likely as a result of the softness and suppleness of the hands silencing me.Of course that grew into a please gag me fetish and was told it was a "please keep me quiet fetish".Although i like being gagged by conventional methods(silk scarf for example)i always place the handgag as a priority.My question is,is this wrong number one and number two was the childhood episode the catalyst that started it all?

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RE: Gags - 2/15/2008 3:19:09 AM

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1. No
2. How in the world would we know?

just saying.

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RE: Gags - 2/15/2008 4:17:28 AM

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hello chezzy--

how cam amy of us point and say ist wrong--it is what it is, your thing, you've identified it, recognized it and tried to seek it out in the life---there are far more that are way out there more than this one--and I always say a good gag stops the "but..."attitude faster than anything.

as for the "trauma"--no one can say how the got wired---some people react to things differently but wiring for the most part is hardly the result of one incident, it is the culmination of a multitude of actions, beliefs, wants, desires---all woven together---

welcome to the posts <smiles>

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RE: Gags - 2/15/2008 4:41:16 AM

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Why would your feellings in any way be bad, chezzy? And certainly any more than for someone who loves bondage or shoes or strap-ons? I've always loved gags too. They do provide a wonderful sense of restraint but security at the same time. You feel free to scream or shout or moan or vocalize anything you want, but know that your friend the gag will moderate it all. So you can really let loose without any embarrassment or fear, knowing that it will be there to quiet you to the outside.

As for a hand: so soft, so loving to be muffled that way. And intimate too. To be able to smell and even taste the flesh of the one restraining you and doing other things to you at the same time. It's already half a hug and a caress being gagged that way. I'd think your love for it most certainly began with those ladies. Authority mixed with love. Discipline and softness at the same time.

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RE: Gags - 2/15/2008 4:46:57 AM

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There has only been three responses but those three responses only enforce why i love this lifestyle so much..Thank you all.

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RE: Gags - 2/15/2008 6:02:38 AM

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Hhhhmmmm.....

See I love putting my hand over my slave's or sub's mouth but I never consider that gagging them. I actually consider it a form of very intimate breath control play -- of course I often couple it with pinching the nose closed as well.

For gagging I'd need to use an object to block their mouth in my mind. That isn't as personal to me so while I'll do it it can't be anything that encourages drooling which I find distasteful. As a reward I'll gag Fox with duct tape satisfying two interests of his -- voice control and duct tape.

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RE: Gags - 2/15/2008 12:19:35 PM

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The ability to add breath play, TammyJo, is just one of the additional attractions of using your hand as a gag. So subtle, adjustable and multifunctional. Keep your hand lightly over the mouth at first, if the sub starts to make more noise than you wish to allow, press harder and/or widen the way you flatten it over hir mouth. If the sub still makes noise, use your index finger and thumb to pinch their nostrils. Let them understand that the amount of pressure and air they get will vary with the noise they make. You can even let them make noise for a while, then stiffle it. I love it when a Domme not only is controlling me by making me yell or gasp with the crop or other toy in one hand, but also controls the ability for any sound to come out of my mouth with the other. And especially if, in that position, She's also talking, whispering or biting my ear.

Of course the hand is not useful as a gag if it's going to be used to hold or wield and implement from a distance. Or if you want to keep the mouth open. You may not like drooling or siliva, but some Dom/mes positively love the drooling and feeling of lack of control that it engenders in a sub. And the ability to insert things from time to time.

Gags are soooo much fun.

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RE: Gags - 2/18/2008 2:28:34 AM

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perhaps i should have asked what are your favorite gags to use on Your sub/slaves if you use them at all?....yes the question for Mistresses only.

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RE: Gags - 2/18/2008 10:01:34 AM

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Uggh. I just typed a very lengthy response and CollarMe ate it as I sent it. I love gags. I love to use them for noise control, pain, vocal control and use with breath play. Some of my favorites are a large ball gag harness, a tube harness gag, pantyhose both stuffed in and wrapped around the head and of course the classic duct tape.

I do love to use a gag in predicament bondage and also love the torture and humilation of the drool. I also love to keep the mouth forced open (like dental tools) and wide open mouth gags so I can force in bodily fluids and anything else I like.

I don't use my hand much as a gag...except during sex (which is more for breath control)...which I should think about using it more often but my submissive is generally not a talker...he keeps his mouth shut on his own.

Here is the hottest gag scene I've ever seen...it was in San Francisco at a bed & bondage hotel many moons ago. Dom had his submissive tied to a cross and using a vibe on her, she was gagged with her mouth wide open, drooling and moaning with pleasure. He then took a jar of live spiders and showed them to her...she was screaming with fear..he told her she was going to love spiders for him...that she would no longer be afraid of spiders...all the while the vibe was going....he blindfolded her...opened the jar close to her ears..and placed a PLASTIC spider on her tongue and she was screaming and he ordered her to have an orgasm at the same time, she nearly passed out from fear and pleasure. I thought it was sooo damn hot...but I guess I am cruel like that.

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RE: Gags - 2/18/2008 1:12:00 PM

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Ok cheezy! I'll come clean! You all figure this one out because I haven't but it is what it is.

I tend to not gag submissives because I like to hear the sounds or dare them not to make any. When they do, I start all over again with whatever it is I'm doing. When I give permission to "verbally express" themselves...I am always done in by what comes out of their mouths! It's always explosive in nature, ramblings at times, begging, tears, at times I've heard folks laspe into their native language as if they've forgotten English. I may or may not allow an orgasm but when I do allow it....!!!!!!

On the other hand I love leading those macho, "all man" vanilla types into allowing me to gag them. I start slowly with a silk scarve and then graduate up to the more serious stuff... ball gags, leather gags, my favorite is to take off a pair of panties, insert into mouth and use the trusted masking tape. I guess it's the control of a man who wouldn't dare do some of the things I talk about.

What do you all think?

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RE: Gags - 2/19/2008 1:20:15 AM

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Mistress Faye,thank You for Your input.I like the panties stuffed into the mouth idea but i was never one who cared much for tape.A silk scarf or bandana could the panties in place just as well.Regarding the use of Your hand,well i think that is entirely up to you if and when You use it but my wish is for more to read about handgags if you will and when applied their incredible sensuality.Again,thank you for the contribution.

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RE: Gags - 2/19/2008 12:27:36 PM

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reaches one manicured soft hand scented with Chantilly around chezzy's mouth and says--come along little one, we have mischief to be about.

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RE: Gags - 2/20/2008 1:27:10 AM

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Lady Hathor....now how in the world can i turn that down???...smiles

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