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RE: STOP CALLING ME!!!!!!!! - 2/16/2008 4:15:06 PM   
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lets suppose the calling is coming from India.  Who would you subpoena, and to what court?



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RE: STOP CALLING ME!!!!!!!! - 2/16/2008 4:22:38 PM   
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she'd be able to tell by the accent. *grin*

(and I say this as someone who works for Indian immigrants...)

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RE: STOP CALLING ME!!!!!!!! - 2/16/2008 5:56:04 PM   
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You could add the referee's whistle to your arsenel. Start by mumbling so they turn up the volume, then give them a good blast.


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RE: STOP CALLING ME!!!!!!!! - 2/16/2008 5:58:18 PM   
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actually the guy does sound like he is from India ....And thankyou for the information everyone, you had some great ideas. The wistle idea and speaking in a foreign language sound interesting...taking this to court at this time in my life is a little too time consuming and expensive though.....

I guess what really iritated me is that just today they have called at least 5 times in one day...and it sounded like the same guy from India but calling from a local (407) area code but with a different number each time....all three of us here told them to stop calling even the person they kept demanding to speak to

And it really made me angry that although they are harrassing us they think its okay to be so rude and nasty.........

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RE: STOP CALLING ME!!!!!!!! - 2/16/2008 6:02:45 PM   
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What are they calling about anyway?


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RE: STOP CALLING ME!!!!!!!! - 2/16/2008 6:03:39 PM   
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If theyre Indians calling, tell them youre from the untouchable class. That should stop them - and make them really pissed that here they are working on cold calls for a next to nothing salary whilst you (an untouchable) are in the US living it up.

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RE: STOP CALLING ME!!!!!!!! - 2/16/2008 6:04:39 PM   
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If you enjoy messing with phone solicitors, check this out:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J5z4Vs26-TI

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RE: STOP CALLING ME!!!!!!!! - 2/16/2008 6:05:22 PM   
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Oh LE - thou art wickedness incarnate.

Do you teach classes?


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RE: STOP CALLING ME!!!!!!!! - 2/16/2008 6:11:24 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Zensee

Oh LE - thou art wickedness incarnate.

Do you teach classes?


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aw - you do say the sweetest things, Zensee!

I dont offer lessons, but my new book "Cutting To The Quick - A Reference Manual Of Clever Insults" is available in the shops this autumn

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RE: STOP CALLING ME!!!!!!!! - 2/16/2008 10:00:09 PM   
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Asking to be put on their "do not call" list is not going to help you, since according to this info, these are indeed calls from overseas: 

"INTL GATEWAY" is the "International Gateway"; the demarcation point from which calls from outside the USA/Canada are connected to the NANP (North American Numbering Plan) PSTN (Public Switched Telephone Network). It's nothing more than a US/CAN routing point for calls that come in from overseas. As such, the caller could be anyone and could be calling for any reason, even one as simple as a wrong number.

Sounds like the whistle is your best bet.

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RE: STOP CALLING ME!!!!!!!! - 2/16/2008 10:10:30 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Zensee

What are they calling about anyway?


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Frankly, I would like to have more details on that side of the story also.  It could make a difference in the advice you receive or the resources to which you are pointed.
I noted that you mentioned in one of the posts that they are calling constantly and that you (or your mother?) do not owe them any money.  I am going to take a leap here and guess that this is some sort of collection attempt, valid or not. 
I used to work in high end collections for many years, but also years ago, so I will try to give you some info on that.
If it is a collection matter, they are not leaving messages because as soon as they do, they are not allowed, under the FDCPA (Fair Debt Collection Practices Act), to call back for 3 days.  I am surprised to hear that you hung on on one caller and he immediately called back.  S/he would get by with that based on the fact that they were refused an opportunity to speak with the party they were actually trying to reach.  Generally speaking, in the early part of a collection (30 - 90 days) you are getting calls from little more than automatons who are trained to connect via a random dialer system and ask for settlement to bring an account current.  They are not dialing the numbers at all.  They are reps who have been trained in the lowest, and considered the easiest, end of the collection spectrum. The call connects, the account screen pops up, and that rep is the next one in line to try to get the money!   If they do not leave a company identification and a phone number for a return call, whether directly with a third party or on an answering machine, they are not obligated to honor the 3 day call back rule.  I am also jumping to this possibility since the callers are rude to you and refuse to disclose any information and also ask to speak to your mother.  They are not allowed, by law, to disclose anything to any third party other than a name and a number for a call back and that it is a "personal business matter".  The same rules apply to phoen messages left on voice mails or answering machines. 
If the above is the case, then I would suggest that you be very polite, or your mother, (just bite your tongue to get the info you need).  If your mother wants you to be on the phone with her, she can authorize that, and you can assist her in keeping the conversation productive and extracting the information you need.  Get account numbers, circumstances of the matter (product, amount owed, date of purchase, last payment received, payment plan, etc.), name of representative, location of representative and any employee ID number as well as a specific department name.  WRITE IT ALL DOWN AND REPEAT THE INFORMATION BACK TO CHECK UNDERSTANDING AND VERIFY THAT YOU HAVE EVERYTHING YOU NEED.   You should also write down the date and itme of the conversation.   If the company is legitimate, they should have no problem  with this.  If they refuse, make a note of the refusal.   You should always have the name of the party to whom you are speaking before you even begin getting into the "polite" conversation.  Get an address where you can mail a letter.  If you mail a lettter stating "no calls at work or home" they have to honor it and not call you.  They are now stuck with the good old US Mail system.  If this is a fraudulent effort to collect money you do not owe, you must get the information necessary to contact the Attorney General of your State.  Find out what you need and take the time to fill out the necessary complaint.  They will handle it from there and you will also have a record of the harrassment.     If you are sending a letter to the company with a provided address, keep a copy of the letter, and also send it "Certified/Return Receipt Requested".  Someone has to sign for the letter and you have a paper trail.  It means taking an extra few minutes at the post office and paying a few extra dollars (Maybe $5), but it is worth it.  (How much time and energy are you already spending taking or trying to ignore these calls?)  Also, as an FYI, you are seeing different numbers, because large compaies like Gateway have many lines, and it just depends on which line is picking up the next ramdomly dialed number in the system. 
In matters of collection, the National or State "Do Not Call" lists are not applicable.  They are only meant to stop junk solicitation calls, and don't work well for that anyway.    I am just a sick as everyone else (and I have a blocked number and am on the "Do Not Call" list!) of receiving calls that are often prerecorded solicitations.  They are hard to stop.    
If they are calling to solicit for business, then you have a simpler case for harrassment.  Again, you would keep records and then go to your State Attorney General to put the official wheels in motion.  As to recording a call, you need to check your personal state laws.  In Az we do not have to inform the other party.  Only one person needs to be aware that the call is being recorded and that person is usually the one doing the recording.  So it is fine here.  If it is not, then you do need to immediately disclose that you are recording the call.  They might hang up.  But it doesn't stop them from calling again an hour later. So log these efforts on your part. 
Basically, it does you little good to scream and cuss and refuse to talk to them.  It is always better to be sweetly polite for the time needed to extract the information you need, and then go in for the kill.  And it could be that someone else has falsely used your mother's information to purchase something fraudulantly, which is now in default.  I have been offered computers by Gateway for a monthly or weekly payment plan (it is ridiculous) but they do go after people with easy qualifying plans and a seductive sales pitch.  You need to find out what is going on here.
I haven't worked in the collection field for some time, and I handled the higher end pending charge-offs and frauds.  But we were seriously bound by laws regarding this.  I am sure the same or very similar laws are still in place, and you should take advantage of the protection.
Good luck!

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RE: STOP CALLING ME!!!!!!!! - 2/16/2008 11:51:30 PM   
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There are those who get old credit records (I'm not sure how) and call people and threaten all kinds of stuff if the person doesn't get out their checkbook and give them the information necessary to pull money from their account. Very bad idea to give them that info, in case you wondered.

I got a call one day from a very rude man - he was rude from the get-go - telling me he was a collector for a debt with Sears dating back to 1996. I had made a payment in compromise with Sears and had a letter proving that they were accepting my payment as payment in full. I am also going through bankruptcy (due to astronomical medical bills), and had been advised by my attorney to tell all collection callers this fact. The guy said he didn't care - was I going to pay him, and I said, no, but here was the contact information for my attorney. He talked right over me saying he was NOT going to call my attorney; the bankruptcy had nothing to do with this debt, and he could ignore it if he wanted to. I started getting angry, and he hung up on me. I have not heard from him again. I suspect it was one of those fraudulent collectors.

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RE: STOP CALLING ME!!!!!!!! - 2/17/2008 12:05:15 AM   
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These are not collection calls (from the research I've done)
Some people are being offered 'help with their credit report' and others seem that they are trying to do the 'we send you a check, you cash it and send us some back' scam.
My favorite thing to do when my kids were little (and it's still fun with the six year old) is to just give the phone to them. REALLY fun when they're toddlers who love to talk on the phone! *lol*

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RE: STOP CALLING ME!!!!!!!! - 2/17/2008 7:59:17 AM   
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why not simply engage him in  nonsense conversation

read him news from the BBC

or...
thank him for calling you and tell him you are doing some research on human sexuality
"pertaining to the size of your penis would you say it is above average, average or below average in size?
pertaining to the size of your testicles would you say they are above average etc...?
pertaining to the overall appearance of your genitals would you say they are very attractive, somewhat attractive, somewhat unattractive or very unattractive?"

you aren't being obscene...
they called you....

I wouldn'tbother with complaining to the police... I would make a complaint to the attorney general of your state...since they are using local access numbers.
Use the phrase you believe they are trying to commit fraud.

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RE: STOP CALLING ME!!!!!!!! - 2/17/2008 8:03:03 AM   
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I once told an indian caller "he is out tending to his camel"    the sullem reply was priceless LMAO!    [a camel is a mans pride , sorta like a corvette in that culture]

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RE: STOP CALLING ME!!!!!!!! - 2/17/2008 8:18:07 AM   
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Do they have camels in India?

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RE: STOP CALLING ME!!!!!!!! - 2/17/2008 9:56:04 AM   
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Next time you see the INTL gateway tag in the caller ID, pick up the phone and answer as "Hot Delights, Day and Night. May I have your credit card number please". Insist on telling the dude that he is calling the direct local number of a phone sex company, but refuse to discuss anything further with him until he gives you a credit card number and expiry date. If he tries to play along by giving you a fake number, then ask him to hold while you verify the number. Inform him the charges are $7US for the first minute and $2.50 for each additional minute or portion thereof. Tell him his credit card was denied.... oh you can have sooooo much fun with these idiots with just a little imagination......

The other thing which I like to do, especially if they're likely to be calling long distance, is ask them to hold while you go and get the person. Put the phone down and make them wait a few minutes. Come back everynow and then and say sorry to keep them waiting, but the person will be right with them. And make them wait, and wait, and wait (its costing them money.........) - you can stretch it out to 15, 20 minutes or more. Then you can finally hang up, or just go "sorry, wrong person, they're not here". Do that a few times, and see what happens....


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RE: STOP CALLING ME!!!!!!!! - 2/17/2008 8:41:13 PM   
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I have seen the Gateway calls on my office phone, and also something called Internap, that I am guessing is possibly the same thing.  I do have caller id though, and since most of the time they call at night or right after business hours, it threw a flag up from the very beginning, so I haven't answered them, and they have never left a message.  I am glad to know what it probably is.

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RE: STOP CALLING ME!!!!!!!! - 2/17/2008 8:53:30 PM   
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quote:

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Beware of recording the conversation. I believe Florida is a "two party state", where you must inform(and the person must agree) to the call being recorded. Failure to notify the person is a violation of wiretapping laws.


California is the same way.  It is a felony to record somebody without their knowledge and consent.

Letting it go to voice mail implies consent to be recorded if the person makes a statement.

Stating up front that it will be recorded gives the caller the option to hang up if they do not wish to be recorded, or state that they do not wish to be recorded.  If they do not wish to be recorded, simply thank them for their time and hang up.

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RE: STOP CALLING ME!!!!!!!! - 2/17/2008 9:31:29 PM   
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In Alabama it is actually legal as long as one of the parties is aware it is recorded.  A third party cannot record, but one of the two participants may without notification.

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