MissSCD
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Joined: 3/10/2007 Status: offline
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My original Mentor taught me one important thing about this lifestyle. Remember these words and you will have a much easier time of understanding our ways. "It is not all about me, anymore." Regards, MissSCD quote:
ORIGINAL: denversubnewbie I'm new it's obvious. I read about this division between panty boys or sissys, and some of the others of this community. I like being TOLD to wear panties and to dress. I'm not into "dressing " regularly but could be with he right woman, However as a dominant, as long as I'm caring to the sub. I require my needs be first, my desire to punish and train another would't be affected by my dressing in panties and hose, heels as I swing the whip. I 'm not of the kind to do this every time, 1 in 15-20 , who knows..when I feel like it. and I'm not asking the sub if it's ok..Off the subject but not. If you have a sub who requests panties and the rest, and you feel it takes away from the focus being on you..Hold it back--make him earn his reward..finish your play by requiring/rewarding him to dress after.( or not) I'll bet he will do more knowing its a possibility, depending on the Dom's wishes. I'll do what I want to, when I want to , and they will serve without question. Now wash those panties. I like the idea a a restrained sub being held or reassured for good work and rubbing against them. The fact a sub might not like it, I don't care..I do understand the mutual needs of both are required for succesful relationship. but if my dressing is limited and not a constant, limited. I might enjoy it more knowing it makes them uncomfortable.. I need spell check here but am late. Really late..really late. I know I need to change my profile, new name, less emphasis in Fem Dom..I'm rambling.
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