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toilet training - 2/17/2008 2:00:54 PM   
irishdan


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Status: offline 		taughts on this? is it safe? do dommes enjoy it? do males?
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RE: toilet training - 2/17/2008 2:02:14 PM   
CumGirl


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Status: offline 		...this sissy yearns for this powerful symbol of complete servitude/ownership...

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RE: toilet training - 2/17/2008 2:23:06 PM   
MistressVnus


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taughts on this? is it safe? do dommes enjoy it? do males?


Personally?  I like piss play and golden showers.  However, I'm no real fan of ingestions.  And, I have an absolute hard limit with scat play.  The closest I come to that is to wipe it on your face because you didn't clean out well before expecting anal play and it's disgusting me. But that goes into that humiliation for the sake of behavior modification talked about in another thread.  It is NOT about liking scat play.
Unless you are in a 1:1, monogamous relationship, where both have been tested, ingestion of any bodily fluids is a risk.
Period.
If someone sends me a picture with their petition for ownership, and they are ingesting someone's piss in that picture....I get disgusted.  Or, if their petition consists of something like.."Oh, dear Goddess, can I be your toilet slave and clean you every night?"  EWWWWWWWWWWWWWW.  What ARE you thinking?
Why would I want a slave as my personal who has probably drank every Dominas piss they could, or licked the shit off of any one they could.  No thank you.
I'm not knocking you if that is your thing.  It just isn't mine.


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RE: toilet training - 2/17/2008 4:32:23 PM   
WalterRego


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Status: offline 		I recently met and began seeing a new Mistress. Two weeks ago as I was walking down the hallway past the bathroom, She was seated on the toilet, peeing, with the door open. As I walked by She called me in, took a wad of toilet tissue off the roll and handed it to me. I asked, “What is this for?” And She simply said, “Wipe.”

Totally caught off my guard, I knelt down and gently wiped Her dry, then dropped the tissue between her legs into the bowl. Nothing else was said, and tacitly understanding that I was now  dismissed and free to go,  I left the room.

That off hand, understated command had the most profound effect on me. The way She matter-of-factly told me to do it. The fact that I complied without even thinking twice. The fact that She had humbled, but not humiliated me by showing that She felt totally comfortable and entitled to have me perform that service, for Her. And  how  intimate it was, without being distasteful, totally made me feel owned.

I have not had the other experience of being asked or told to drink, but I can’t imagine it having a more profound effect.

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RE: toilet training - 2/17/2008 5:01:58 PM   
MistressVnus


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Status: offline 		[quoteTwo weeks ago as I was walking down the hallway past the bathroom, She was seated on the toilet, peeing, with the door open.][/quote]

Oh, do pray tell.  Which bathroom was this?  Work?  Restaurant? Gas Station?  Your own home?


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RE: toilet training - 2/17/2008 5:07:06 PM   
seeksfemslave


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RE: toilet training - 2/18/2008 2:00:39 AM   
DaintyDemure


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Status: offline 		I have started providing a service to my Lady recently after she pees I lick her clean. I wait kneeling on the floor infront of her with downcast eyes and my wrists clasped behind my back. When she is done peeing she slides forward on the seat and I move in and lick her clean keeping my hands behind my back the whole time. I am not to make eye contact with her until we are both out of the bathroom. She enjoys this so I will do this for her at home from now on as long as she isnt on her period.

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RE: toilet training - 2/18/2008 2:40:47 AM   
SailingBum


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RE: toilet training - 2/18/2008 3:27:41 AM   
masochistboytoy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DaintyDemure

I have started providing a service to my Lady recently after she pees I lick her clean. I wait kneeling on the floor infront of her with downcast eyes and my wrists clasped behind my back. When she is done peeing she slides forward on the seat and I move in and lick her clean keeping my hands behind my back the whole time. I am not to make eye contact with her until we are both out of the bathroom. She enjoys this so I will do this for her at home from now on as long as she isnt on her period.


definitely save on toilet paper. i was actually at a private valentine's day party on thursday night and each slave was required to perform a duty throughout the evening and my duty was toilet paper. i probably licked clean over two dozen female Dommes and male slaves. of course i was blindfolded, i should never have the pleasure of viewing such beauty.

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RE: toilet training - 2/18/2008 4:25:22 AM   
WalterRego


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Status: offline 		LOL, She's far too much a Lady to be pissing with the door open in a gas station or restaurant. This was at my house. We live a ways apart. She has come down to see me two weekends, and I will go there this weekend.

But, Seeksfemslave, you're right that it has remained very much in my imagination ever since then.

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RE: toilet training - 2/18/2008 4:33:22 AM   
MistressVnus


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This was at my house.


I was certainly hoping you were going to say that.  Otherwise, it sounded like it came out of some BDSM fiction somewhere.
But, since it is real, I will agree that is a also a hot gesture from a Dominant point of view.  Especially if you were blushing and your hand was shaking a little. 


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RE: toilet training - 2/18/2008 5:46:17 AM   
WalterRego


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Status: offline 		It's funny, Mistress Venus that You would have thought what I wrote was a BDSM fantasy. I was actually reluctant to write about it at first, thinking that maybe it would seem too tame in a discussion where the OP was obviously talking about drinking pee or...worse with scat.  I finally decided to because it seemed like what She had done was such an elegant effective way to achieve much the same effect without the distasteful (to me or I think her) aspects of it.



< Message edited by WalterRego -- 2/18/2008 5:52:37 AM >

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RE: toilet training - 2/18/2008 6:21:22 AM   
MistressVnus


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It's funny, Mistress Venus that You would have thought what I wrote was a BDSM fantasy.


I just needed a little more information to reinforce the credibility in my own mind.  After all, you have to admit, there are some pretty strange ducks in this pond from time to time.  And, some of what is written can be, well...........nuff said.


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RE: toilet training - 2/18/2008 8:54:15 AM   
cloudboy


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Status: offline 		Just getting over Viral Gastroenteritis or what was formerly known as "typhoid fever," and I'm thinking that this is a "training" would be well avoided. (ick)

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RE: toilet training - 2/18/2008 9:14:31 AM   
MisPandora


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ORIGINAL: masochistboytoy
i was actually at a private valentine's day party on thursday night and each slave was required to perform a duty throughout the evening and my duty was toilet paper. i probably licked clean over two dozen female Dommes and male slaves. of course i was blindfolded, i should never have the pleasure of viewing such beauty.

You recognize that there is nothing that protects you from the
--stds like gonorrhea, syphillis, herpes, etc
-- infectious viral diseases spread by bloodborne pathogens like HIV, HBV, HCV
-- bacterial infections carried in both waste products
when you share this activity with multiple strangers.  This seems awfully careless.


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RE: toilet training - 2/18/2008 9:21:46 PM   
liks2plzlf


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RE: toilet training - 2/18/2008 9:28:28 PM   
Shawn1066


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Status: offline 		Um, I ask to use the restroom.  That is the extent of my toilet training...

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RE: toilet training - 2/19/2008 5:50:28 AM   
ItalianSMistress


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Status: offline 		This has always been a border activity for Me.  I will do piss play, if the slave I am playing with loves it, but its not something very high on My list.  I wont do scat no matter what, that is one of very very few hard limits for Me.  I had one girl that LOVED piss play, like really loved it.  If I was in the bathroom peeing a lot of the time she would press her head against the door from the outside and whimper, so I would let her in to lick Me clean after.  she also loved to drink and be showered in it.  Even tho that may not be on the top of My turn on list, just that she desired it so much turned Me on to the point where sometimes I could not piss cuz My clit is too hard!!!!

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RE: toilet training - 2/19/2008 6:11:00 AM   
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Status: offline 		he sits to pee, end of story, ridiculous that in this day and age a man has to stand and play whizzing for dollars--
as for Me, My time in the privy is privy.

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RE: toilet training - 2/20/2008 4:44:39 AM   
chezzy52


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Status: offline 		Lady Hathor,funnt you should mention "he sits to pee".Why???I sit almost 90% of the time because well,there is a seat attached to the bowl right??So i sit and relieve myself..unless of course in public where there are urinals..then i try to destroy the pink scented bar thingy with my stream...LOL.

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