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buffiyum -> RE: A question (9/27/2005 8:53:50 AM)
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Ma'am,
buffy hopes that it is all right to reply to this. one is not seeking to be argumentative or dis respectful in any way. Not at all so one hope that You will see that in the words one writes. It is only that this topic is of great interest to buffy, which is why the girl reply.
i play a lot. i have also let it be known in the places that one call 'bdsm Home' and in places like here, that one is searching for the Right Master.
i do enjoy that bdsm pain, it is wonderful. Also i love to frisbee golf, belly dance, ride my bike and sing and take every opportunity to do these things, when it is possible. When buffy does meet (usually at events or munches) Ones in r/l, W/we get to talk and sometimes to 'play'. Although there have been Collars of Consideration, they did not work out for me so this one just keeps on looking. Where better to do that than at functions and events (and munches too). Those Who had those Collars of Consideration with buffy have, for the very most part, remain as Friends to the girl.
Why would one attend a function or event and sit by the wall when she could play?
The point i am trying to make is that bdsm 'play' is what many of U/us 'do'. It is an 'interest' one has, like frisbee golfing, dancing, biking and singing.
Being a slave is what i am. slaves need Masters/Mistresses, not to 'be' a slave, because that is (at least to buffy), an 'inherent' trait within, but rather one seek a One to 'complete' what one is. bdsm play shouldnot take away from that, even if one play a lot, as i do, learning more each time of what buffy likes/does not like.
Then again, perhaps it all comes down to 'perspective' and finding a One who share that perspective.
buffy thinks that if a One watches and dis approves of how much this one likes to 'play' then that is not the One for buffy. It saddens one but.... sometimes one must just go be buffy. So that works too.
respectfully,
buffiyum
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