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bigtrouble1 -> first time buying anal toys (2/19/2008 1:39:08 AM)
(i'm a guy) so i'd like to have my first session with a domina very soon. but i'd rather have my own toys. if i'm a total beginner and i wanna buy some toys for assplay what would you recommend? i know things have to go slow, but i am (at least i think i am) interested in strap-ons, vibrating toys, and the possibility of being prostate milked. also, whats the best way to not be nervous about buying this stuff in public? (i'm living abroad and ordering by mail isnt an option)

SailingBum -> RE: first time buying anal toys (2/19/2008 2:36:23 AM)
In some cases bigger is not always better. When I go browsing the sex toy store. First I always bring my girl so I don't get molested. Slap on a pair of shades the kind with the attached beard. Trench coat nutting underneath cept my AC/DC rocker boxers. Pull the fedora low on my head then spend my day sending my girl to get change for the quarter peep shows and wank all day. Wonder do the still have those? BadOne

HerLord -> RE: first time buying anal toys (2/19/2008 2:46:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum In some cases bigger is not always better. When I go browsing the sex toy store. First I always bring my girl so I don't get molested. Slap on a pair of shades the kind with the attached beard. Trench coat nutting underneath cept my AC/DC rocker boxers. Pull the fedora low on my head then spend my day sending my girl to get change for the quarter peep shows and wank all day. Wonder do the still have those? BadOne Yes

Paulsgirl -> RE: first time buying anal toys (2/19/2008 2:48:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bigtrouble1 (i'm a guy) go shopping in a burkha....no-one will recognise you.......

Reflectivesoul -> RE: first time buying anal toys (2/19/2008 4:21:58 AM)
[sm=ofcourse.gif]Illinois is abroad? Wow, someone shouldda told me that since I've been there several times and it has mail, Damn I would have felt more excited about going there had I have known that its considered going abroad....

SailingBum -> RE: first time buying anal toys (2/19/2008 4:33:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Reflectivesoul [sm=ofcourse.gif]Illinois is abroad? Wow, someone shouldda told me that since I've been there several times and it has mail, Damn I would have felt more excited about going there had I have known that its considered going abroad.... Even if the guys a abroad...They don't have mail order in other countries??? I heard a rumor that you can order hot russin babes... I think you could get 3 or 4 at a time for your maso streak. Can't imagine 4 hot girls yapping in my ear... ones plenty BadOne

Reflectivesoul -> RE: first time buying anal toys (2/19/2008 5:00:10 AM)
Some places dont ship to others, I know because I have a few places I order from and have to have it sent to a friend who then sends it to me... so its not impossible. But I perved his profile and he's in illinois and I know for a fact that places ship there, I ordered some thing while staying with a friend out there... ( I'm a shopping junkie lol dont matter where I am if I want it something I'll get it one way or the other )

SailingBum -> RE: first time buying anal toys (2/19/2008 5:05:08 AM)
yea I would think if you were in that country that the store was in they would ship to you. sounds crazy i know BadOne

VelvetMaam -> RE: first time buying anal toys (2/19/2008 5:13:08 AM)
The obvious answer is to talk to the Lady with whom you are planning to session, and see what she says to get.

ToysAndTies -> RE: first time buying anal toys (2/19/2008 5:41:18 AM)
For a total beginner, I'd recommend a basic anal trainer set, 3-5 plugs increasing in size, usually in an attractive box that looks like it could hold a backgammon set. If you're really, you could leave it on a table or public place, because until you open the nicer ones, they look nilla enough. Also, as getting one's own toys does have it's appeal, the domina also will have preferences as to how best to torture you; slip a condom on one of her toys and it's bound to be a different experience for you. There's something hot in not playing a part in deciding what's going into you.

PanthersMom -> RE: first time buying anal toys (2/19/2008 6:54:21 AM)
start with a trainer set and don't forget the lube. why be embarassed? for all they know you're buying it for your girl, not for you. those folks in a store like that have seen it all, you will be one of the more normal folks thru the door that day. PM

Kana -> RE: first time buying anal toys (2/19/2008 7:15:37 AM)
God why do I just think the concept of an anal starter set is the funniest thing I have ever heard. The fact that its a reality just makes it all the better. I remember the first time I saw one of those, I laughed so hard I thought they were gonna kick me outta the porn store. I love this wacky world we live in. I keep having images of Betty Crocker in an apron going, "Now people, this is how we properly lube our butt plug."

SailingBum -> RE: first time buying anal toys (2/19/2008 7:22:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kana God why do I just think the concept of an anal starter set is the funniest thing I have ever heard. The fact that its a reality just makes it all the better. I remember the first time I saw one of those, I laughed so hard I thought they were gonna kick me outta the porn store. I love this wacky world we live in. I keep having images of Betty Crocker in an apron going, "Now people, this is how we properly lube our butt plug." Now there is a visual BadOne

Aswad -> RE: first time buying anal toys (2/19/2008 7:25:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bigtrouble1 also, whats the best way to not be nervous about buying this stuff in public? (i'm living abroad and ordering by mail isnt an option) Try to bear in mind that the people at the store have heard it all, and are generally professional about it. If that doesn't work, you might want to bear in mind that they may assume it's for someone else. In any case, you will find that any nervousness goes away after a few visits to such shops. Heh... brings back fond memories of standing in a pharmacy (the town I was working in at the time didn't have sex toy shops), with a coil of rope and some bondage gear in a plastic bag, talking to a prudish-looking woman near retirement age to find out whether they had any lube that was suited for anal play, and whether they had gloves that could deal with the lube. I was 17 at the time (legal age is 16 up here, so no worries about that part). Something tells me that I was probably blushing rather fiercely. They're used to it, though. Health, al-Aswad.

Kana -> RE: first time buying anal toys (2/19/2008 7:27:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum quote: ORIGINAL: Kana God why do I just think the concept of an anal starter set is the funniest thing I have ever heard. The fact that its a reality just makes it all the better. I remember the first time I saw one of those, I laughed so hard I thought they were gonna kick me outta the porn store. I love this wacky world we live in. I keep having images of Betty Crocker in an apron going, "Now people, this is how we properly lube our butt plug." Now there is a visual BadOne Somewhere out there someone just got a new fantasy.

Noah -> RE: first time buying anal toys (2/19/2008 7:14:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bigtrouble1 (i'm a guy) so i'd like to have my first session with a domina very soon. but i'd rather have my own toys. if i'm a total beginner and i wanna buy some toys for assplay what would you recommend? i know things have to go slow, but i am (at least i think i am) interested in strap-ons, vibrating toys, and the possibility of being prostate milked. also, whats the best way to not be nervous about buying this stuff in public? (i'm living abroad and ordering by mail isnt an option) If what you MEAN to ask the clerk is: "Do you deliver?" then be careful not to say: "Okay so will you please drive this home for me?"

batshalom -> RE: first time buying anal toys (2/19/2008 7:23:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum Even if the guys a abroad...They don't have mail order in other countries??? Some countries aren't as open as others. It's next to impossible to get sex toys shipped into some countries (of which Israel is a prime example).

bigtrouble1 -> RE: first time buying anal toys (2/20/2008 1:24:53 AM)
Hate to burst everyone's bubble of teasing me, but i'm from illinois currently living in southeast asia. anyways, someone mentioned using the domina's toys with a condom, but i dont trust that. who knows how many people those things have been inside of? i'd rather be safe and use my own stuff.

SailingBum -> RE: first time buying anal toys (2/20/2008 1:56:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: batshalom quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum Even if the guys a abroad...They don't have mail order in other countries??? Some countries aren't as open as others. It's next to impossible to get sex toys shipped into some countries (of which Israel is a prime example). I guess I wasn't clear wouldnt be the first time. What I was attempting to say was. The county you currently reside in. There is not a sex toy store that will not mail the toy to you?

SailingBum -> RE: first time buying anal toys (2/20/2008 2:04:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bigtrouble1 Hate to burst everyone's bubble of teasing me, but i'm from illinois currently living in southeast asia. Hell I was teasing you cuz you were uncomfortable going into a sex toy store. I mean come on what's the worst thing that could happen your CC getting denied. Man up dude

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