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MasterFireMaam -> RE: Types of submissives (2/19/2008 11:29:58 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Would that make you a 10th level submissive?

Jeffwey


Intimate knowledge of the super secret four f society, of course!

Master FFFFire

;-)




seawatch -> RE: Types of submissives (2/20/2008 6:13:46 AM)

well-many thanks guys-some really interesting ones too. I hear the comments about stereotyping etc and tend to agree. However I di find that some rough guide lines can be useful with an inexperienced sub-just to show a range of possibilites and variations.But veryone finds their own level sooner or later which can obviously be a mix or combination for them as individuals. Stella I particularly like your different flavours !!!
Anyway-thanks again guys !




colouredin -> RE: Types of submissives (2/20/2008 6:29:43 AM)

i dunno why you need a vague idea of the differant types, i remember one guy would constantly bang on about types of submissives and use it as an insult, and thats what i think it is, If we feel submissive then that for us is true submission. The obsession with validity of feelings is pathetic and just a way to feel superior to others and make some feel crap, all submissives at some point or another from my knowledge have been told they are "not a true submissive" simply becuase they werent interested in the guy normally. Submission means something differant to differant people so labelling it is a wasted venture, in my opinion. 




AquaticSub -> RE: Types of submissives (2/20/2008 8:13:31 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

It's the most poisonous thing ever written in the scene to make people not only believe that there are easy labeled boxes for such things, but that they can be comparable to eachother and superior to one another.



What she said.




SubbieOnWheels -> RE: Types of submissives (2/20/2008 8:20:20 AM)

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ORIGINAL: colouredin

The obsession with validity of feelings is pathetic and just a way to feel superior to others and make some feel crap, all submissives at some point or another from my knowledge have been told they are "not a true submissive" simply becuase they werent interested in the guy normally.


That is exactly the conclusion I have reached. In the eye of certain men I am not "really" a submissive because I won't submit to them.




Leatherist -> RE: Types of submissives (2/20/2008 8:22:12 AM)

There are no types.

Go meet real people, they all vary.

Boxes are for store goods, not people.




DesFIP -> RE: Types of submissives (2/20/2008 8:40:30 AM)

I'm a full time live in submissive who feels submissive in response to his dominance, who requires a deeply loving relationship in order to have sufficient trust to submit. Note I can feel submissive without acting on it. However I have sufficiently healthy boundaries to know that having sufficient pleasure of my own is needed to feel fulfilled and not used in a bad way/taken for granted.  Plus I have no interest in pain, humiliation, service, obedience or suspense; I'm wired for emotional transparency. And I feel that fulfilling my other obligations is equally important.

I have no respect for people who take the money and deliberately do a half assed job, and even less for people who are biologcally parents and who don't take that job on with utmost seriousness.

So I don't fit into any of the boxes.




TracyTaken -> RE: Types of submissives (2/20/2008 12:36:24 PM)

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Vanilla



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Status: offline well-many thanks guys-some really interesting ones too. I hear the comments about stereotyping etc and tend to agree. However I di find that some rough guide lines can be useful with an inexperienced sub-just to show a range of possibilites and variations.


I think that would be the worst type of tripe to introduce to a new submissive.  Why not show her a list of categories for lovers or spouses or friends to show her the range of possibilities and variations?  Easy answer:  Because categorizing is never conducive to seeing the full range of possibilities.  She will see that for her own sweet self, if she doesn't get trapped in limits first.

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But veryone finds their own level sooner or later . . .


Yes, and we all strive for merit badges based on our "level" of submissiveness.  I plan to level-up in record time so that I can beat the game!  [:D]    




AquaticSub -> RE: Types of submissives (2/20/2008 12:40:38 PM)

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ORIGINAL: TracyTaken

Yes, and we all strive for merit badges based on our "level" of submissiveness.  I plan to level-up in record time so that I can beat the game!  [:D]    


Wait? We can level up? Why didn't anyone inform me of this!?!?!

I'll be off power-leveling now...




Leatherist -> RE: Types of submissives (2/20/2008 6:41:50 PM)

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: TracyTaken

Yes, and we all strive for merit badges based on our "level" of submissiveness.  I plan to level-up in record time so that I can beat the game!  [:D]    


Wait? We can level up? Why didn't anyone inform me of this!?!?!

I'll be off power-leveling now...


Points are awarded by blow-jobs. [:D]




TracyTaken -> RE: Types of submissives (2/20/2008 6:54:33 PM)

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Points are awarded by blow-jobs.


I'm gonna blow ya'll out of the water.  [:D]





michelemybelle -> RE: Types of submissives (2/20/2008 6:54:59 PM)

Do they have one of those lists for Doms?




Leatherist -> RE: Types of submissives (2/20/2008 6:56:30 PM)

Maybe, but it's going to look like a game of "king of the hill" at the top.

[:)]




michelemybelle -> RE: Types of submissives (2/20/2008 6:59:23 PM)

LOL..............it may have 25 types. 1st being----the Dom who likes to make up a list of types of submissives based on heresay.




Pinical -> RE: Types of submissives (2/20/2008 7:06:55 PM)

The Mute Master
Master, Sir, where have you gone what ill fate has fallen on you your song is unheard were have the flowers and long walks in the rain gone washed down the drain?
Master what’s that I cant hear you your lips move but the music falls not to my ears I see you there as before with that smile on your face
Master oooo Master I long for your voice you’re guiding hand the look on your brow how can you live with out speaking a sound
Master my Sir my love we had the song so sweet your voice you now leave me no course now could you treat me as if deft
Master with out your comforting word in song all has gone wrong the days are not full but false
Master I see what must be for I walk away from thee I hear you no more nor do I wish to see your face to feel your touch cause it was nothing but a big joke you play go in pe4ace just don’t speak to me for you have lost more than you have gained and I hope you feel the pain as I have been drained
Speak no more for I can not hear




michelemybelle -> RE: Types of submissives (2/20/2008 7:07:30 PM)

LMAO




carlie310 -> RE: Types of submissives (2/20/2008 7:11:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

I will continue to be quasi-sub who wishes to become meta-sub.


I will continue to be the twue submissive wannabe.  I think that's my calling.




SubbieOnWheels -> RE: Types of submissives (2/20/2008 7:13:09 PM)

I will continue to be a fake submissive who is too picky to submit to just any fake Dom.




michelemybelle -> RE: Types of submissives (2/20/2008 7:16:09 PM)

takes a true Dom to make a true sub :)




TracyTaken -> RE: Types of submissives (2/20/2008 7:17:14 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SubbieOnWheels

I will continue to be a fake submissive who is too picky to submit to just any fake Dom.


Carlie310 wrote:
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I will continue to be the twue submissive wannabe.  I think that's my calling.


Is there a sorority forming.  May I join?  We could call ourselves the Official Order of Cuntlets Club.




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