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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 6:27:49 AM   
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I am merely amused, my usual response is to ask if they've read my profile and many of them will say yes, and when I don't respond back I'll see that they've then perved my profile.  I don't know why, but it never goes any further...



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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 6:29:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		that sort of thing happpens in real life as well. I remember when I used to scene at play parties there were a couple of instances where I would be tied up  and my master would turn his back for a second and some no good schmendrick dom would start pawing me . one of the reasons why I am so turned off by the "scene" . yeah I would be pissed. and in person at least you can confront the other (so called) "dom"  which has a lot more impact than sending him and angry message. 

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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 7:25:09 AM   
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Has anyone else experienced this, and does it not piss you off?  How do you deal with that?


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Pissed off? Hell no - it's a source of amusement; the more "attitude" the more amusement. What possibly could a stranger say or infer that would shake your confidence in your relationship or cause your "Love" to love another?

Usually I "deal" with it by sending a few more pictures of what they can't have and show beth my response. It's a good outlet for my sadistic pleasure. I'm sure on some level it serves to feed the trolls, but isn't that the reason some people enjoy going to the zoo? Torturing the trolls who wander by our profile is akin to tossing a peanut shell to a monkey. They may think they accomplished something until they realize their 'victory' is hollow. Meanwhile I get to enjoy the entire bag anytime I like while they can only watch.

The image created by that thought amuses me and serves my sadistic side!

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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 7:28:02 AM   
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It's only going to be bullshit 95% of the time.

Any why would you want to feed a troll with ANY sort of attention? The opposite of love is indifference.

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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 7:41:39 AM   
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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 7:44:46 AM   
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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 7:47:38 AM   
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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 7:55:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		I find it a great way to release any het up anger or frustration from the day. My particular faves are the ones who start out all nice, then say aww what he doesnt know cant hurt him then start slagging me off, its a great way to send really aggressive responses to people and you are left with a fantastic sense of calm and warmth afterwards, f and i collaberate with Sir adding little bits in, I actually get annoyed when they stop replying but i guess it just means i won :D


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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 8:05:14 AM   
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I wonder how narcissitic some people must be-to think that thier "slave" is the end all and be all-and worth taking ANY crap over?  I guess poking at the needy must be amuing.

Personally? I's rather be doing something more entertaining-like mowing the lawn.

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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 8:31:16 AM   
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ORIGINAL: StormsSlave

Has anyone else experienced this, and does it not piss you off?  How do you deal with that?



Yes we have experienced and no, for the most part it doesn't piss us off. We just snark, snark, snark and watch them explode.

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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 8:39:51 AM   
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What made you expect people online would not act like that?

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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 9:06:47 AM   
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Status: offline 		No, it doesn't piss me off.  I find it lame, and see it as an indication of them living in a fantasy world.  I tend to think those sort of men (or women) have spent all their time playing online that if they saw a three dimensional person naked they would shoot, and roll over to fall asleep.
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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 10:24:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		one way to view this is that it provides an excellent opportunity to politely point out that the offender is acting like a knucklehead.  Life is way too short to stay angry.

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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 10:28:19 AM   
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ORIGINAL: StormsSlave

Has anyone else experienced this, and does it not piss you off?  How do you deal with that?



I don't. If someone's too thick to understand what is written on my profile then they're probably too thick to understand my response.

I have nothing against stupidity, I even resort to it myself sometimes, but it's not the sort of thing I encourage.

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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 10:29:26 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Comeon IrishMist. Just because they are a piece of shit dose'nt mean they don't have a face.

Until they send ME a picture...they are faceless.



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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 11:07:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		Leatherist I would like to mow the lawn to. Now if it would only stop snowing.

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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 12:31:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: StormsSlave

My Love gets a lot of messages from other "doms."  This, in of itself, doesn't piss me off.  What does piss me off is the attitude.  It is the attitude that as a dom they somehow have some sort of right over My love, and consequently an assumption over me, though she has openly stated in her profile that she is mine, as I am hers.

The tone of these messages is that my love must submit to them, as she is a sub, and therefore their sub.

Has anyone else experienced this, and does it not piss you off?  How do you deal with that?

Edited and posted on behalf of  MyLord.

i changed my profile name to Paulsgirl.....that got rid of incessant doms and subs who wanted to control me etc or worship me etc.

But the attitude happens in real time also. When we play with others it is i, as part of my duties, who organises and hostesses for private play /house parties. Yet it is usually the other Dom who breaks etiquette and i have had situations where they have tried to muscle in, assuming the own 'me' and when i have respectively forwarded their texts to Master or asked politely that they in future only communicate with Him it tends to stop the arrogance.

Not all Doms are like this however and i do not want to paint it as a generalisation in anyway. The Dom/sub couples whom we would privately play with again are indeed those whom respect protocol, recognise whose property i am and there is no trespass.

As my Master's slave that feels really very good; like double protection.

If it were just to do with on-line harassment block them immediately.


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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 12:33:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

I tend to think those sort of men (or women) have spent all their time playing online that if they saw a three dimensional person naked they would shoot, and roll over to fall asleep.
Kyst

Oh hiccups laughing.....trying to get that image outta my head is going to take a while.....



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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 12:36:14 PM   
Paulsgirl


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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

Oh my.......


Personally? I's rather be doing something more entertaining-like mowing the lawn.

would you like a one way ticket......my garden's in a real bad way at this time of year...can you get it stripy looking in straight lines, no weeds pot holes or dog turds also....you know master's ok about it as well as anything that makes His life easier is fine, especially when we are talking grass....

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RE: Does it piss you off, too? - 2/20/2008 5:58:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyLolly

Now guys, you know the awesomely powerful uber dom being generous enough to take the time from his many other subs that find him so wonderful is only trying to gift and share with you the wonderfullness of Him that you have been missing out on and waiting for all your life.......NOT! ROFL!l  


damn it, have you been reading my mail?

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