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frenchpet -> RE: CUMMING (9/17/2005 3:55:27 PM)

I guess we have slightly different perspective on the female orgasm. Not so much because I haven't experienced it directly, but because for me it can be a duty to make sure all conditions are there so my gf can orgasm, for you it's a duty to orgasm whatever the conditions are.
The technical proficiency doesn't do everything, as you said. Before that I make sure my partner is in the mood for love (which makes me think I should watch this movie). For example cooking for her, then massaging her apparently helps...


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ORIGINAL: cinfulhussy
the sex is more mental than physical

That's how I would summarize in one sentence what I have learnt reading 800+ pages of the new Hite report.
And this implies, among other consequences, that the orgasm is not the only point of making love...




FelinePersuasion -> RE: CUMMING (9/17/2005 3:55:31 PM)

Actually French Pet I don't orgasim unless it's in missionary style because he actually has enough frichen to my clitoris that when I can I do.

none of which other positions produce, not doggie nor riding. So I'd becarefull about generaliztions about positions*grins*




frenchpet -> RE: CUMMING (9/17/2005 4:10:45 PM)

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ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion

Actually French Pet I don't orgasm unless it's in missionary style because he actually has enough frichen to my clitoris that when I can I do.

none of which other positions produce, not doggie nor riding. So I'd becarefull about generalizations about positions*grins*

Have you tried the Reverse missionary ? spoons ? the lazy position ? without penetration ? Riding backwards ? the wheelbarrow ? sitting up ? squatting ? standing ?...

I was not completely serious, but still what I said was about statistics. It doesn't mean the missionary position should be considered as something useless. It depends on the Woman.

edit : ... and changing from one position to the other of course...




nonuts4thshoney -> RE: CUMMING (9/17/2005 7:33:16 PM)


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ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2

Wow. A majority of women are unable to orgasm except with clitorial stimulation.

Do a search on orgasms and you will tons of topics- trust me, you are far from alone in being difficult to orgasm and I find it odd that your dom would simply tell you to do something like that without any guidance or understanding?





A while back i took a human sexuality class and i decided to ask my teacher a question. i went to her after class (others were right there) and i told her that i had never had an orgasm through penetration, but only from clitoral stimulation. So i asked her what should i do or try so that i could have one? Her response was: " I don't know, I've been married 25 years and still havent had one". So i learned that day that i WAS normal and not one of the few that can't have an orgasm this way. In fact i've heard something like 80% of women are actually like this. i heard this on a talk show and from my teacher.




Fawne -> RE: CUMMING (9/18/2005 8:41:25 AM)

For some strange reason: I come fast, easy, better with penetration. Missionary works on me.
It actually takes me longer to come from just clitoral stimulation. I'm weird...but it's OK [:o]




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