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Thoughts on facesitting??? - 2/21/2008 1:35:48 AM

boytoysub8

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First off, what exactly is queening?? I have a vague idea, but still am not sure. I personally have a strong fetish for facesitting although I don't have much experience. Is this something a Domme gets off on?? Is it sexual pleasure or just the fact that you have the sub beneath you and you have control over him? Also I have a very very strong fetish for asslicking, again is this something dommes enjoy and why??

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RE: Thoughts on facesitting??? - 2/21/2008 4:54:46 AM

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Waiting to see what your advertising is going to get you.

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RE: Thoughts on facesitting??? - 2/21/2008 5:31:05 AM

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Yes, I think about facesitting.... all the time in fact. It's a common daydream of mine. I'd say I probably spend about 30% of my waking hours thinking about serving, and facesitting takes up about 1/6 of those thoughts...

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RE: Thoughts on facesitting??? - 2/21/2008 7:06:04 AM

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What is it? Thanks to the goodness that is Google, I found The Fine Art of Queening. Complete with photos, this is not remotely a work-safe site.

Do Dommes enjoy it? Stereotypically, yes. Realistically, it depends on the woman.

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RE: Thoughts on facesitting??? - 2/21/2008 7:24:44 AM

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i don't think anyone enjoys it, Domme or sub, unless it is done correctly. You are probably as likely to get a positive response from roses, candy, massage, a well prepared meal, or champagne.

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RE: Thoughts on facesitting??? - 2/21/2008 7:25:01 AM

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While I'm not going to answer your advertisement, cuz I'm not a Domme...

Facesitting is not service. It's play. You're not doing the Domme a favor by fulfilling your fantasy. So start from an honest place instead of using the word "service" to veil your fantasy with any kind of substance.

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RE: Thoughts on facesitting??? - 2/21/2008 11:33:58 AM

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First off thank to all those who have posted a reply so far. I am by know means an expert in the ways of BDSM and have come here to learn. No, my question isn't notably intelligent nor does it have very much to do with the emotional side of BDSM. It is merely a subject of interest for this submissive who thought it might be wise to learn a little bit more about before, begging any dommes to sit on my face. That being said, I am aware that my interests and fantasies have very little to do with a Domme's pleasure. This much I do know, in a Mistress/sub relationship, if facesitting or queening were to occur at all, it would be at the whim of the Mistress. As i said previously I am here to learn, not to offend. I feel that might have offended some people by posting this in the manner I did. I am not trying to rush to any Dommes side at this time and I surely did not mean this to be an advertisement. No BDSM is not my life and I am not on 24/7.

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RE: Thoughts on facesitting??? - 2/21/2008 3:51:58 PM

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quote:

No BDSM is not my life

I was going to give you some shared insight from "this" Dominas perspective until I read the above sentence.
If you have no BDSM in your life, why do you want to know? What's the point?

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RE: Thoughts on facesitting??? - 2/21/2008 3:58:58 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BoiJen

While I'm not going to answer your advertisement, cuz I'm not a Domme...

Facesitting is not service. It's play. You're not doing the Domme a favor by fulfilling your fantasy. So start from an honest place instead of using the word "service" to veil your fantasy with any kind of substance.

What about if its Her fantasy ? There must be many Dominas who enjoy this. i agree its still play but service can be sexual also.

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RE: Thoughts on facesitting??? - 2/21/2008 4:03:14 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: boytoysub8

This much I do know, in a Mistress/sub relationship, if facesitting or queening were to occur at all, it would be at the whim of the Mistress.

Everything should be at the whim of the Mistress, thats the whole essence of D/s. Be it playtime, cleaning house, or being allowed time to just sit and read a book.

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RE: Thoughts on facesitting??? - 2/21/2008 4:03:54 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Politesub53

quote:

ORIGINAL: BoiJen

While I'm not going to answer your advertisement, cuz I'm not a Domme...

Facesitting is not service. It's play. You're not doing the Domme a favor by fulfilling your fantasy. So start from an honest place instead of using the word "service" to veil your fantasy with any kind of substance.

What about if its Her fantasy ? There must be many Dominas who enjoy this. i agree its still play but service can be sexual also.

I love facesitting with the right sub...

Diane

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RE: Thoughts on facesitting??? - 2/21/2008 4:07:31 PM

Politesub53

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Sighs whistfully

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RE: Thoughts on facesitting??? - 2/21/2008 4:07:35 PM

LadyHibiscus

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Facesitting is fun, a great form of breath play. I have some velvet leggings I wear for the purpose! Not something I do with just anyone, since not all subs are getting THAT close to those parts.

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RE: Thoughts on facesitting??? - 2/22/2008 2:12:16 AM

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and don't forget the spurs.

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RE: Thoughts on facesitting??? - 2/22/2008 12:27:47 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Facesitting is fun, a great form of breath play.

I agree with you!

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