MALE DOMS DISRESPECTING FEMALE DOMMES

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VampCristina -> MALE DOMS DISRESPECTING FEMALE DOMMES (2/22/2008 7:13:39 AM)
Hi I am Countess Cristina I have een a Domina or over 15 years now professionaly 18 as lifestyle. I hav worked with many other Dommes in commercial and private spaces. I now have worked alone the past 10 years. My question is WHY? do male doms always write Dominas and talk down to us say things innapropriate or disrespect us a if we were slaves. I refuse to give into their BS I delete and block them. but why the rudeness. I as a Domme do not go after a Male Dom and treat him like that.I stay to myself and ignore what they do is their business. Whenever I have had my web site listed on Fetish listings once in a while I would get them write me nasty letters.What nerve! you think? We are doing the same thing they are doing. It makes me so angry I want to go off on them but chose not to give into their mind Fuc games... I noticed it is always the same one from the same state I live. I never met him but see his advertisements on line. Whenever I have posted he flags my post. There is no competion. I enslave men, he enslaves women what is his problem anyway?

DominaJayde -> RE: MALE DOMS DISRESPECTING FEMALE DOMMES (2/22/2008 7:19:18 AM)
Some and I repeat SOME male doms are of the opinion that there are no such things as female dominants, that we just haven't met the right dom to be submissive to. And of course, there is always the other explanation, some people are just dicks. DJ

VampCristina -> RE: MALE DOMS DISRESPECTING FEMALE DOMMES (2/22/2008 7:23:35 AM)
Hi! yes I get that very line or worst. Some older one fom CT just sent the nastist letter to me. First off female Dominants out number male doms ! Any place I have ever worked in or played in had female Dommes not male Doms. I ignore them but I am sick of their crap I wont alow them my attention.. Yes they are dicks!!!

LaTigresse -> RE: MALE DOMS DISRESPECTING FEMALE DOMMES (2/22/2008 7:23:52 AM)
Listen lady. This is cyberland. No one owes you anything, least of all respect, regardless of who, or what, you say you are. It would be nice if we were all pleasant and courteous to one another, yanno, like human beings, just because it would be the nice thing to do. But, no matter how much you and I might like it, it's not gonna happen, and there isn't one darn thing you can do about it. If you want to be treated with respect then behave in a manner that garners it. Otherwise be prepared to have your Dommely nose bent out of shape pretty much all the time.

bislavegirl4434 -> RE: MALE DOMS DISRESPECTING FEMALE DOMMES (2/22/2008 7:25:04 AM)
I think its the age old "males are Dominant, females are submissive" thing. Men seem to feel threatened (and this is a generalisation, not meant to include each and every man) by a female who is strong willed enough to argue back/take control of the situation.

mnottertail -> RE: MALE DOMS DISRESPECTING FEMALE DOMMES (2/22/2008 7:27:31 AM)
It may be all that upper case and bad spelling....... Ron(ne)

crouchingtigress -> RE: MALE DOMS DISRESPECTING FEMALE DOMMES (2/22/2008 7:28:21 AM)
like we are slaves? gosh that is sort of harsh for someone who has been in the LS for 18 years...i am sure you did not mean it this way but your post came across as though you feel slaves are worth of being treated like crap. disrespect is a two way street.

LaTigresse -> RE: MALE DOMS DISRESPECTING FEMALE DOMMES (2/22/2008 7:35:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress like we are slaves? gosh that is sort of harsh for someone who has been in the LS for 18 years...i am sure you did not mean it this way but your post came across as though you feel slaves are worth of being treated like crap. disrespect is a two way street. CT, if my post came across in anyway that allowed you to think that I feel a person that identifies as a slave should be treated with less courtesy than anyone else, I applogise.

APhacetoSit -> RE: MALE DOMS DISRESPECTING FEMALE DOMMES (2/22/2008 7:42:58 AM)
Did You (in general) ever hear someone defending a losing position? they tend to get a bit crazy, fire wildly and throw out anything that they can. Male supremacy is a losing position MesDames, and equality among the sexes is tentative at best.

LaTigresse -> RE: MALE DOMS DISRESPECTING FEMALE DOMMES (2/22/2008 7:44:00 AM)
Oh thats just creepy. It's like Benji but on meth.......

APhacetoSit -> RE: MALE DOMS DISRESPECTING FEMALE DOMMES (2/22/2008 7:46:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Oh thats just creepy. It's like Benji but on meth....... ??????beg pardon??????????

divi -> RE: MALE DOMS DISRESPECTING FEMALE DOMMES (2/22/2008 7:49:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Listen lady. This is cyberland. No one owes you anything, least of all respect, regardless of who, or what, you say you are. It would be nice if we were all pleasant and courteous to one another, yanno, like human beings, just because it would be the nice thing to do. But, no matter how much you and I might like it, it's not gonna happen, and there isn't one darn thing you can do about it. Once again I agree with LaT... thinks you need to toughen up and stop whining. So tired of seeing threads like this one. Boo Hoo Hoo. Being a cry baby isn't very Countess like..

ShaktiSama -> RE: MALE DOMS DISRESPECTING FEMALE DOMMES (2/22/2008 7:50:29 AM)
Sorry, but I think Christina has a point. There are plenty of male dominants who apparently believe that all women are their inferiors. Specifically, they behave as if all women are humiliation-seeking submissives who are going to gush fluid because some idiot treats them with disrespect or threatens them with sexual violence. Personally, I delete their pathetic nonsense emails and I block them on these forums: the TOS doesn't permit me to list the people I block, but there ARE a few men who consistently cruise by the Mistress forum for no other reason than to be rude, disrespectful, and generally despicable. They might as well be wearing a sticker on their foreheads that says "I AM SCARED OF DOMMES". [:'(] I can only assume that men like this, who are deeply threatened by ANY female power, must find professional dominas particularly frightening and feel a special need to try and "bring them down". It's just an electronic version of the same hateful impulse that inspires a lot of violence toward women, including verbal attacks, harrassment, rape and assault. A woman who stands out invites attack from certain men. As soon as they make me Empress of the Universe, I'll reward such emails with summary execution. [:D] Time to scoop some of the scum off the top of the gene pool.

VampCristina -> RE: MALE DOMS DISRESPECTING FEMALE DOMMES (2/22/2008 7:56:17 AM)
I do agree I also take control of the situation. And I never said I was better then anyone. I just feel if we Dommes are not concerned with with them or what they do, Why mess with us. I And no I have had just about every person be nice to me who has witten. He has been the only nasty person write me. I could care less if they are a Dominant I am not interested. I give respect to everyone. I stay in my own yard. Bein an aries I am straight forwad , real and honest it is my nature to stand up for myself.

LaTigresse -> RE: MALE DOMS DISRESPECTING FEMALE DOMMES (2/22/2008 7:57:07 AM)
So there are male dominants that type or say words that hurt some female dominants fragile ego! It's not like I haven't seen plenty of the opposite! I still don't see either as a problem. Call me crazy but they are just words and we are all grown ups. Those words only have as much power over us as we allow them to. What I do see, all too often, is some person with a fragile dominant ego taking offense to a, less than mannerly, bit of perceived disrespect and go off on some childish tangent that only serves to prove they are not someone I will ever respect. In essense, they shoot themselves in the foot. Personally I don't see the need to make a fool of myself stomping around raging and huffing, "I am QueenDominaPrincessoftheFuckinUniverse! You must all crawl on the floor and kiss my sneakers you worthless scum(or is that cum?) bags!!!!" It just isn't worth it.........

LadyLynx -> RE: MALE DOMS DISRESPECTING FEMALE DOMMES (2/22/2008 7:57:12 AM)
I've seen it go both ways, male Doms that disrespect female Doms , and vice versa. Is it annoying? yes. Is it fair? NO. But who said life is fair, is surely selling something. like others have pointed out, this being online, and anonymous, ppl are going to be obnoxious. What to do? shrug it off, and be as grascious as you can be. may not impress the assholes, but it will other people winks Blessings to you

Dnomyar -> RE: MALE DOMS DISRESPECTING FEMALE DOMMES (2/22/2008 7:59:45 AM)
Whatever.

LadyLynx -> RE: MALE DOMS DISRESPECTING FEMALE DOMMES (2/22/2008 8:02:24 AM)
lol LaT, agreed, but I think she just needed to rant, as maybe you did about those who rant about things we see so much on this forum.

APhacetoSit -> RE: MALE DOMS DISRESPECTING FEMALE DOMMES (2/22/2008 8:04:00 AM)
who the heck is benji? and drugs are unnecessary this is natural insanity.

VampCristina -> RE: MALE DOMS DISRESPECTING FEMALE DOMMES (2/22/2008 8:07:09 AM)
Excuse me? I think you must have a personal issue. I have no idea who you are(nor do I are at this point) . I noticed you just checked out my profile. ( I am a confident woman other women dont threaten me) Listen yourself . Take your attiude and gve it to your slaves ok. Keep your rudeness to yourself, there is no ne for it. I ade a coment Ionly wanted other Dominas outlook I have not said anyhing with bad manners . What are you the class bully? grow up will you.Your behaviour and manners are very out of line here. You must have some seriou issues.

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