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Where did it go? (The search for the lost orgasm) - 2/22/2008 4:34:43 PM

DominaJayde

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Dear Ladies (and Gents)

Last night while having some 'happy fun time' with an occasional FWB, I was RIGHT on the verge of orgasm, a mere nanosecond away, and the phone rang, it was shrill, discordant and unexpected, and it startled my FWB just enough so that the rhythm was disrupted, it was for no more than 10 seconds tops, but in that 10 seconds WHAM my almost orgasm dissapeared, just vanished, and when my FWB recommenced what they were doing it was painful, not only had my orgasm run away but now my clit and surrounding area went on the warpath and said "OKNOMORETOUCHINGPLSKTHNXBYE". It was most dissapointing, and orgasm was not had at all the entire night.

That got me thinking, one of my more successful tools with my Boys is bringing them to the edge and then stopping, waiting a few moments and starting again, repeatedly, now none of them have said to me that it occasions pain, frustration yes, pain no, and the urge to orgasm has never vanished, have any of you Ladies (and Gents) had an experience with your subs where bringing them right to the edge and then stopping has made the orgasm go away totally and/or caused them pain as in 'don't touch that hurts, far too sensitive now' way. Or am I just weird with a very weird clit?

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RE: Where did it go? (The search for the lost orgasm) - 2/22/2008 5:06:30 PM

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i have had the situation where it has caused ejaculation but no orgasm... i`m guessing the pain i felt was a pity party...

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RE: Where did it go? (The search for the lost orgasm) - 2/22/2008 5:29:51 PM

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i have had the situation where it has caused ejaculation but no orgasm... i`m guessing the pain i felt was a pity party...

*grin* Now that is an interesting side effect, I shall have to ask some more questions I think.

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RE: Where did it go? (The search for the lost orgasm) - 2/22/2008 5:38:19 PM

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Ma`am, it was a champagne cork without the pop moment....

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RE: Where did it go? (The search for the lost orgasm) - 2/22/2008 6:11:28 PM

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the orgasm went down the telephone line and into the libido of the person that called. You might want to check with them and get a thank You for improving their sex life. on the other hand, that is why i tend to shut off and disconnect the phone when it might interrupt something important.
the male eqivalent of what You described is often referred to as being blueballed. if it is done right the urge does not go away, but any attempt to satisfy it is quite painful.
it is common enough that PA named a town after it.

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RE: Where did it go? (The search for the lost orgasm) - 2/22/2008 6:50:23 PM

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Yep, female bodies are complex. I've had that happen too, though not often, thankfully! Maddening!

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RE: Where did it go? (The search for the lost orgasm) - 2/22/2008 9:26:39 PM

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Ma`am, it was a champagne cork without the pop moment....

Ow... now that is a perfect description for it.

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RE: Where did it go? (The search for the lost orgasm) - 2/22/2008 10:55:29 PM

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same thing can happen when the youngster in the crib in the next room decides he wants a change and a bottle NOW! poof, gone!

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RE: Where did it go? (The search for the lost orgasm) - 2/23/2008 6:15:30 AM

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same thing can happen when the youngster in the crib in the next room decides he wants a change and a bottle NOW! poof, gone!

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Oh god, do *I* remember those days.. just when you're getting into it.. then 'waaaaaahhh' and bingo.. it aint coming back

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RE: Where did it go? (The search for the lost orgasm) - 2/23/2008 6:39:06 AM

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I feel for the Dominas and women of all walks of life that instances like these have happened.It happens to me most when i am masturbating because i am trying to focus on something to promote the orgasm..the end result is i have to cober my own mouth because of the primal gutteral screams that burst from my vocal chords.

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