MsCfromMelbourne -> RE: Humiliation ideas (2/23/2008 3:40:09 PM)
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Gawd......I am sounding like a stuck record on this topic. It is a bad idea for any of us to try to guess how to humiliate you. We don't know you. We don't know what would be erotically embarassing and what would give you a full blown nervous breakdown. That is your Mistress' job. And only you know what really pushes your humiliation buttons. Humiliation is a feeling and only you can choose how you will - or will not - feel. No-one can control another person's emotional response without his or her consent. So if you find it humiliating, it is humiliation If you don't find it humiliating, it isn't Humiliation is a state of mind in the individual, not a list of 'things' Mistresses do I have had subs that could not wait to be stripped naked and show off their nudity (exhibitionism). And I have had subs that cringed with embarassment when told to strip (humiliation) Same play: totally different psychological response Same dilemma with strap on play, golden showers, forced bisexuality, ass insertion, age play, cuckoldry etc etc ......one sub's fun humiliation is another sub's abuse. Humiliation is edge play for Mistress and sub. How can a bunch of strangers guess what will push your buttons without f*cking you up or ruining your D/s relationship? Humiliation needs to be carefully tailored to the individual. That takes one on one communication. We can throw out a whole lot of pornagraphic ideas to titillate you, but I recommend that your Mistress give you a BDSM Checklist (google it) and ask you to tick the ones that you think would be fun humiliation, not degrading.
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