realsubdub -> RE: Is it racially insenstive and thus non eglatarian to search for a Master/Mistress "of colour"? (2/22/2008 11:23:27 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Alumbrado Are you doing this for kink reasons, or racial reasons? If it is your kink, then it doesn't really matter if others don't get it. If you were trying to make some sort of social statement, that would be a different story. It's my kink, its part of what i get off on as a slave. there is no social statement to be made regarding race, not in the 21st century, we should all know at this stage that 'cool guys are cool guys"....@ Hearcream... thx... [;)] i'm pretty well educated, grad school, doctorate etc ... i mention this not only in realation to studying and writing a lot about race and gender theory, but also coz i chased the PhD as part of being a slave, i want to have something of the material world to bring to a prospective Master, to show that i'm mean the commitment.. if needs be i can work while he studies now...but that perhaps is another thread... quote:
ORIGINAL: domiguy I feel your pain my pasty brothah....Many times when looking for the "other dark meat" I wonder if I am being racially insensitive. Of course if I were stuck in Ireland continually playing with the drunks might become rather tedious at some point in time....In all actuality you are probably just trading off vices...Do you really prefer the smell of Guiness to Cognac? i must be one of the few Irish men who doesn't drink... LOL.... [;)] good to see Irish govt coming down heavy on that... we've a sterotype on an international cutlural front as drunks, but hey! did you ever see smoke without fire... or a cig/reefer! quote:
ORIGINAL: domiguy Although the Irish be a rather translucent lot and I can see why the idea of a sunburn and easily identifiable veins could be replaced with dark skin and an inabilty to pronounce "th"....Please think this thang through. Whatever your pursuits I wish you nothing but the best. Thanks for the good wishes Sir.... i think it is a lot to do with having been with some Black Masters, although none on a more than 'three off' basis as they were travelling through. But it was not just the physicality of what i regard as beautiful skin, build, hair, body shapes etc, it was not completly of the materiality of the physical Black Masters bodies. They also afforrded me a lot of freedom in my expression as a slave.... for example, sometimes i like to play in the 'sissy boy' arena, not very often, but i do get that itch and need to address my fem side... i've also needed to learn how to please Mistresses, at least orally, and it was only with Black Masters that those needs could be expressed without my fear of being rubuked. I don't know if its because these Masters were ultimatley travelling through, although one did have a stay of a few months.. "Be free to be who you are as a slave" all of them said to me; or certainly words to that effect.. "you won't be allowed to forget whose Boss", it was a freedom never afforded to me by any European or White American Master's I had been with. I really don't think that is a political thing, I think its more my coming to terms with having spent most of my life in a mono-ethnic country which is only changing now. Sorry for such a long reply.... [&:] I have to ask you why you mention the 'th' Master
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