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MrRandallspe -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 12:53:39 PM)
Most of the sub relationships were while I was in the Navy and lasted until I was stationed else where. Othes were relationships that lasted until they moved away from my area.Then there were ones after I was out of the Navy that lasted until work required me to move as well. The last and the best slave was my last wife. Alas, I lost her due to injuries from a car wreck. Yes, I understand that I very well may not look as some may desire..I understand all of the factors and variables... What bugs me the most is when one states that ,,"age and looks do not matter....I need a Master/owner..." As well,,the type that I am looking for does cull out a good deal from the pack as well. I fully understand that.

AquaticSub -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 12:55:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MrRandallspe What bugs me the most is when one states that ,,"age and looks do not matter....I need a Master/owner..." Do you really want a sub/slave that doesn't care who their owner is or what they look like, you just happened to be the first one to come along? That is what these profiles sound like to me. To good to be true and if they are true, the women behind them probably aren't worth having.

NewWISubby -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 1:01:31 PM)
I respond to first time messages generally in a few ways- No picture available- I have one, so I request one Picture- If I like what I see, as attraction is a big part in having a positive experience, I will respond in greeting and ask questions. Neutral- I respond with hi or hello No interest- Say hi either way as I dont mind new friends. If they start pushing for a meeting or think I am interested in more I will say no thanks, but I am bad at telling someone I am not attracted at all. I dont like being rude.

MrRandallspe -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 1:11:25 PM)
Have you taken the time to read my profile? I stress friendship first and formost in a realtionship. Honesty and friendship are the building blocks of any realtionship that is to last. I always state that if they are interested in me,we can talk and build a freindship before anything else. I do not jump on any sub/slave that responds and tell her that she has to join me and become my property at once..only a stupid moron ass would do that.No,I do not expect her to come running to me as soon as I say hello to her as well.

NewWISubby -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 1:15:09 PM)
I read your profile, and if I was interested in olger gentlemen I probably would respond to your message. But believe me as a woman looking for a Dom there are tons of Doms or wannabe Doms that start right in if you respond once.

AquaticSub -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 1:15:19 PM)
No, however you and your behavior don't have anything to do with the point I was making. The point is: These profiles sound like "I don't care about age/appearence/location or anything! I just need an owner NOW!" Now, the way I see it that translates into "You happened to be the first one to come along so I'm going to jump all over you - it has nothing to do with who you are except that you happen to have a penis and be dominant". Somehow, it honestly doesn't strike me as putting the dominant in the most powerful position. She needs a owner, they'll do.

CuriousLord -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 1:17:25 PM)
People talk about going out and changing the world. Then they get out of the manic moment and watch TV instead. Probably the same deal. They get idealistic about their fantascies and then realize how much work it'll be and say, "Screw it." Happens to most everyone, I think.

Level -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 1:20:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: ORIGINAL: Noah quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: ORIGINAL: Justme696 many are just bedroom subs.... Yes, I always email back men I have no interest in because to do otherwise would give them the opinion I am only justa bedroom sub... we all know how despicable bedroom submissives are[8\|] I'm all about the Breakfast Nook subs. And I've never contacted one who hasn't pretty quickly fallen naked and moist at my feet. Why do you suppose that is? You know, I wouldn't know because I am a garage submissive since my Daddy bought me a pallet and put it next to his car Is he teaching you how to change the oil, julia? [:D] To the OP: I blame it all on Nigeria.

juliaoceania -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 1:22:40 PM)
quote: Is he teaching you how to change the oil, julia? No, he has not taught me to change the oil, although he has been teaching me to drive in Los Angeles over the last couple of days[&o]

Paulsgirl -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 1:23:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MrRandallspe Why do so many female submissives/slave post that they are needing a Dom or even a Master to serve and obey right away. Their profile and comments drip with them almost begging and crying to belong to a Dom/Master,,for a man to take them in,own them and that they will serve with total obedince..Even those that claim they will relocate anywhere,,even at their cost. Yet, they read my response,,I do not get the slighest response from them. Not even a :"sorry..I seek someone closer", "sorry, I seek someone....?" No response at all. They want a man with experience,,,I have 30 years of experience. They want an older man and at 50,I am within their age range. If they are just playing,it would be great to get them off odf here. As well,,if they have been collared,put them in a different catagory.... oh yes but it's the same for me when i get solicited my subbie slave men, especially on Informed Consent and Adult Friend Finder.....they want to worship me and my Master, worship me, marry me, kiss my feet, lick my arse and move the earth for me, cuckhold themselves for life....but are then only available on a Wednesday night or can't text from home>>>.wtf?????? ahhh never mind Human Rights and all that jazz......

Level -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 1:24:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: Is he teaching you how to change the oil, julia? No, he has not taught me to change the oil, although he has been teaching me to drive in Los Angeles over the last couple of days[&o] Ah, the congested highways and byways? Might want to stock up on Tylenol, my friend, from the looks of it.

SubbieOnWheels -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 1:28:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Missokyst ... sailors with sexy strides, smiles all around, ... ... and UNIFORMS!

Maynard -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 1:54:58 PM)
Because it isn't you that they think they need. Just because someone says they have a strong urge to serve, doesn't always translate to having a strong urge to serve anyone.

Missokyst -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 5:27:20 PM)
In addition I might add that many women see themselves differently than men do. A man might be short, with a scraggly appearance, or a belly that hands to his knees and he will honestly see himself as a catch. Whereas a woman may have some left over tummy from having children, or be thin but sees herself as heavy, and will not respond because the requirement is for a HWP woman. Kyst quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: MrRandallspe What bugs me the most is when one states that ,,"age and looks do not matter....I need a Master/owner..." Do you really want a sub/slave that doesn't care who their owner is or what they look like, you just happened to be the first one to come along? That is what these profiles sound like to me. To good to be true and if they are true, the women behind them probably aren't worth having.

MrRandallspe -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/23/2008 5:38:29 PM)
It is time to bring the rambling and dribbles to an end. From all of the gibberish that has been going on here,I did glean what I wanted to know. I am not giving up on my search and I will just wait until the cream rises to the top and I will know that my sub/slave is there. Please, no more responses....I will not come back to read them. Start your own posts if you want to keep rambling on to each other.

Sundowner -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/24/2008 2:55:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Missokyst ..... A man might be short, with a scraggly appearance, or a belly that hands to his knees and he will honestly see himself as a catch. .... Kyst I'm so sorry Kyst, I didn't mean to be rude, I just hadn't appreciated that we'd met before else I would have PM'd or something. Where on earth did we meet? I can't believe I've forgotten someone as delicious as you - I really fear I'm getting absent-minded as well as short etc. Tsk Tsk.

Justme696 -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/24/2008 2:59:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: Is he teaching you how to change the oil, julia? No, he has not taught me to change the oil, although he has been teaching me to drive in Los Angeles over the last couple of days[&o] that is cruel punishment lol

Missokyst -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/24/2008 9:41:57 AM)
LOL.. its a shame you are in the UK. Kyst

chellekitty -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/24/2008 9:55:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MrRandallspe <snip> I am seeking either a submissive or a slave females who is in decent shape and whose weight is much less than my own <snip> gonna respond even though the OP said he wasn't going to read it...cause i like doing this... [sm=banghead.gif] a litle self masochism... well, i apparently don't fit into your physical qualifications, but personally, after reading your profile, you don't fit into my qualifications either...saying that you're going to go drink alcohol as a "log off" is not only a huge turn off, but a deal breaker for someone such as myself who would prefer someone that does not drink at all, and if they do on the very rare ocassion...

stella41b -> RE: Deeply puzzled (2/24/2008 9:58:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MrRandallspe It is time to bring the rambling and dribbles to an end. From all of the gibberish that has been going on here,I did glean what I wanted to know. I am not giving up on my search and I will just wait until the cream rises to the top and I will know that my sub/slave is there. Please, no more responses....I will not come back to read them. Start your own posts if you want to keep rambling on to each other. Everybody cross your fingers... I think he might have found someone.

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