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RE: Hard-boiled/soft-boiled - 2/23/2008 11:02:04 PM

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Eww... I bet the kids loved it though.

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RE: Hard-boiled/soft-boiled - 2/24/2008 12:05:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: Loveisallyouneed

Given the following four labels, how would you self-identify and why?

Hard-boiled
Soft-boiled
Submissive
Slave

I can and have identified with all of those labels and more...depending on my mood,time of day,location,the people around me,if I were ill or not,If I had slept well or not,If I had a good diet that day or not..maybe you should of asked what kind of an onion do I identify with instead ?..:0)...the answer for that would be Vidalia!.sweet, but still an onion!....~wink~..Tempting

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RE: Hard-boiled/soft-boiled - 2/24/2008 12:41:32 AM

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Om, lette me think... cheese this is not easy..

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RE: Hard-boiled/soft-boiled - 2/24/2008 3:13:23 AM

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I am definately an optimist. I believe, for instance, that the world is an overall better place, than it was 50 years ago, then it was 150 years ago, then it was 500 years ago, ect. ect.
I am clearly a slave. While still searching, some Doms might have trouble with me identifying even as a sub, but that just meant we were not a good match. I would tell prospective Doms, that, yes, I do have limits, a LOT of limits, but I give them up, slowly, with trust, and, by the time I am owned, I have no limits other than those my Master choses. This is not as simple as agreeing with him on limits, although that is probably true overall, but my Master has crashed through some things that I identified as hard limits before.
One of the last Doms I tried dating before I found him told me he could not deal with my limits because, he said, they weren't really limits. Limits, he said, were about play - 'don't use that toy on me, don't hit me there, that's too hard'. Once I am ready to play with someone, I have none of those. My limits are more hard to define, but I've always been okay with that. If I am going to give them all up, eventually, well, any Dom who couldn't understand them is probably not a good match with me, anyway. That gentleman and I, for instance, clashed over aftercare, which was a bit of a limit for me, yes. We also had difficulties with name calling and 'rough language'. That is NOT a limit for me, I enjoy it; but only after the relationship is established enough for me to feel that his real feelings are feelings of respect for me.
Okay, now did I make myself sound like a cynic to you, or someone with too many limits?

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RE: Hard-boiled/soft-boiled - 2/24/2008 4:45:51 AM

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I'm definitely an omelette with all kinds of yummy stuff mixed in...peppers, onions, and submissive cheese. With crispy home fries on the side with lots and lots of ketchup.

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RE: Hard-boiled/soft-boiled - 2/24/2008 5:20:40 AM

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Going on your definitions of hard and soft-boiled, I'm an incurable soft-boiled submissive who is slave to her Master. (three out of four ain't bad)

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RE: Hard-boiled/soft-boiled - 2/24/2008 5:41:29 AM

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Okay, now did I make myself sound like a cynic to you, or someone with too many limits?

Since you asked ...

Sounds like you are a hard-boiled sub during the dating process, and if things work out, you develop into a soft-boiled slave.

Close?

on edit: To one and all -- interesting answers, ladies

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RE: Hard-boiled/soft-boiled - 2/24/2008 6:22:29 AM

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ORIGINAL: heartcream

Om, lette me think... cheese this is not easy..

gigglin cute!

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RE: Hard-boiled/soft-boiled - 2/24/2008 6:24:34 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub

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ORIGINAL: Loveisallyouneed

Given the following four labels, how would you self-identify and why?

Hard-boiled
Soft-boiled
Submissive
Slave

I can and have identified with all of those labels and more...depending on my mood,time of day,location,the people around me,if I were ill or not,If I had slept well or not,If I had a good diet that day or not..maybe you should of asked what kind of an onion do I identify with instead ?..:0)...the answer for that would be Vidalia!.sweet, but still an onion!....~wink~..Tempting

wait! no one said we could pick something completely off the list! grinz
I want to change my answer !!!

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RE: Hard-boiled/soft-boiled - 2/24/2008 7:33:55 AM

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ORIGINAL: Loveisallyouneed

Given the following four labels, how would you self-identify and why?

Hard-boiled
Soft-boiled
Submissive
Slave

Slave. Because that's what my Master says i am.

Now, what do you call an optimistic skeptic, a cynical optimist? my father taught me to "trust everyone, but always cut the deck". Not hard-boiled, not soft-boiled, not fried, not scrambled.... i guess that leaves poached?

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RE: Hard-boiled/soft-boiled - 2/24/2008 9:48:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: Loveisallyouneed

Given the following four labels, how would you self-identify and why?

Hard-boiled
Soft-boiled
Submissive
Slave

depending on my mood however i would never associate myself as slave.

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RE: Hard-boiled/soft-boiled - 2/24/2008 10:16:30 AM

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I'm neither hard-boiled or soft-boiled...I'm more scrambled than anything! I am a slave because that is what Mistress says I am to Her. I'm a submissive at heart, but I will bow down to only one. I'm not sure what that makes me, but that's what I am.

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RE: Hard-boiled/soft-boiled - 2/24/2008 1:33:47 PM

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