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Feminization and film - 2/23/2008 7:19:36 PM   
Away4Awhile


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Status: offline 		Feminization and the forced fem concept seems to be a bit of a hot button for many and a basic need for others.

I have found a certain vulnerbility and softness buried behind many masculine demeanours when a man thirsts to experience his feminine side without judgement and in safety. I have also sensed the boiling impotent anger in some from the constant struggle of trying to fit..somewhere.

I would ask if any here either dominant or submissive, yes switches too, might learn something constructive from a deep exploration of the subject within the body of a D/s documentary, or would the subject be a yawn for you?

Thanking you in advance for your participation in this conversation
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RE: Feminization and film - 2/25/2008 1:53:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		hello Maam

im not sure why no others have looked or written here but i would think there our many males whos like too try this form of power contorl or switches roles .but they may be scared too admmit it or too answer here in the past other post about cd, panty  bois, crossdressing all seem to get negative here where ther Mistresses on Cm  say they arent into or dont like it i love this type of play but have never found any other willing or wanting too even chatt or try it

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RE: Feminization and film - 2/25/2008 12:43:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm a bit confused.... You're thinking of a documentary on crossdressing? Or forced feminization? I'm a little confused and also wonder how you would portray it? Interviews? Recreation? Following a person into it? Do you have someone who would be willing to be the subject for your film?

I could see it being interesting for people who would be your target audience, but I wonder who that would be. Would you target the film towards people who might be more vanilla in order to teach them? Would your target audience be the people involved in the BDSM community? What do you hope to teach through it, that some masculine men like to be feminized?

Its a bit vague as to what you ask which I think is why I am confused.

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RE: Feminization and film - 2/25/2008 4:00:16 PM   
Away4Awhile


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Status: offline 		hello iwearpanties and thank you for joining the conversation.

Cross dressing is something that seems to evoke a love/hate reaction in many people. Though I understand it is not simply a kink fulfillment but also an emotional need and reality for a fairly large portion of the males I interract with in real time and those who contact me online.

Once upon a time I found the feminization desires to be too "me oriented" with very little desire to submit but a huge capacity to need and desire confirmation at every turn It was emotionally exhausting for me and a huge turn off. Unfortunately the obsession to be dressed and admired became something that I received very negatively.

As I gave more opportunities to both myself and the dressers to explore the emotions behind the acts the more I came to understand there were many facets that are quite adorable!


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RE: Feminization and film - 2/25/2008 4:19:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		hello OrrisKitten and thank you for joining in this conversation

I am 4 years into a documentary and have recently been considering adding a segment on crossdressing and fortunately I do have a well known subject who may very well be interested in adding this participation to what he is already contributing.
Interviewing is a small portion of the execution and other group discussions are already complete. Where exactly I wish to take it is still in the formative stages as is even the decision of which Country to film in.
My curiousity brought this question to the forums...to add to my own beliefs of the importance of not missing one aspect of bdsm that seems to be a very integral need of so many males and quite a few dominants as well.

I am really not trying to teach anyone anything..but give both the vanilla audience and the bdsm crowd fodder for thought and perhaps a little understanding about our differences and commonalities.


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RE: Feminization and film - 2/28/2008 6:44:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		hello sorry ive been away for some time but i think your rite about the need too wear and dress or crossdress .   id love too add any thign i could about my own thigns but thats up to you

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RE: Feminization and film - 2/28/2008 8:02:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am a Mistress who has a novice male sub. About a year go I discovered quite by accident his desire for wearing women's clothing and what a tremendous turn on it was for him. I have watched him go through many different stages since the discovery (I am totally accepting of it). There have been good times and bad time but we have weathered the storm. We would both be interested in seeing such a documentary regarding cross dressing, as I think there are many people who would want to see the changes a person has to go through to live with this lifestyle choice.

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RE: Feminization and film - 2/29/2008 3:26:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ms Lashra

If i may ask how did you feel and how do you feel about his desire for wearing ?   i know many female dont or cant handle it ? as for my self ive been wearing for over 30 to 35 yrs but i know im not passable nor seek too pass as female and in no way shape or form am i trying too put down the W omen of the world.   i once watcha show on the discovery channel where 4 people 2 male and 2 females not couples or lovers just diffrent people who never met each other before doa test and they switched roles for over a peroid of time i cant rember if it was months or weeks but on female got scared and begged out after she had been wearing male clothes and evena strap on too simulate realy being a male  i cant rember the show but it was very very intresting ...The males on this show realy got into the dressing and both liked it but they had trouble putting on make up at frist theni think there practice they got better at it.. but as for my self id love too see a film done with real true feminazations not just play acting . With real dominations and things as well  but then again can it realy be done???/

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RE: Feminization and film - 2/29/2008 3:43:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		I accept it because it is a part of who he is. I believe it is something that stems from his childhood. His sisters used to dress him up and he would get excited, plus he loved the attention they showered on him.

I tell him when and what to wear, I have him wearing panties almost daily. He is learning to put on makeup and now does body hair removal all over. He doesn't view women in a negative light but instead considers us to be beautiful, sexy, intelligent beings, something on the inside he craves to be.

~Lashra


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RE: Feminization and film - 2/29/2008 9:20:48 AM   
Away4Awhile


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Status: offline 		Hello Lashra and thank you for joining the conversation.

Several of my submissives and my slave have been enjoying the experience of feminization...most having already been wired that way and one (the slave) being introduced through forced feminization. I have found the experiences "generally" to be pleasing though now and then one will be obsessive about the dressing and submission becomes secondary based on their needs getting met. With out the submission being primary I lose interest quite quickly on a personal level but can enjoy the kink on a lesser level and from more of a distance.

None the less cross dressing and feminization is an all consuming need and I am very interested in hearing about its
emotional complexities from both sides of the whip.

Thank you so much for sharing your personal journey as it is words shared by others also living it that confirm the ideas floating around deserve solidifying.






















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RE: Feminization and film - 2/29/2008 9:28:28 AM   
Away4Awhile


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Status: offline 		Hello again iwearpanties

You will only see real action with real people in my film. No actors just people in several countries living their realities..so yes it can be done authentically.

I am always researching each potential fragment because it is my belief that it is too easy to become complacent and think I "know it all" and project a limited view of any kink or circumstance. One persons reality is naturally going to be another persons fantasy only.

Thank you for sharing your long term realities with me.

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RE: Feminization and film - 2/29/2008 8:17:57 PM   
iwearpanties


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Status: offline 		Hello Away

nixce too hear from you as well.  id love to hear about the froced feminizations your haveing a sub go thur ?  im guessing he never wanted or thought about it?  can i ask how or what type or forceing you are useing or have ?

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