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Congratulations on your new third... - 2/24/2008 12:33:14 PM

crouchingtigress

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if you are in a couple, or have been in a couple, and have desired a third....in what ways do you think it was responding to the biological need for couples to procreate.

feel free to tell me anything you want.... and how its not about wanting a baby....i want to hear it all...but i am most interested in hearing how those deep desires for a third, mirror most human's need to, once in a happy stable relationship, to bring a new addition into the family.

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RE: Congratulations on your new third... - 2/24/2008 12:43:09 PM

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I prefer the third in a relationship to offer not only increased play opportunity but also to bring another outlook/style/intellect to the house. For example : my girl is very bisexual. I am pretty sure I am male. So in the instance where she wants to play solo or together with another woman, I am physically incapable of being what she would desire. No One person can be all things to someone. To me it has nothing to do with procreation, just practice.

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RE: Congratulations on your new third... - 2/24/2008 12:45:50 PM

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so you dont have any thoughts about sharing the abundance you have, influencing another persons life expericance hopefully for the better, stewarding and sheltering another soul?

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RE: Congratulations on your new third... - 2/24/2008 12:47:23 PM

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with third....do you mean a kid...or an other slave/sub?

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RE: Congratulations on your new third... - 2/24/2008 12:57:58 PM

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crouchingtigress, yes to all of your questions. I am more of a neanderthal at the key board. I type about 13 words a minute...inaccurately. I was simply giving an overview in my first response.I try to be a lot of things to any one accepting of my influence. Mentor ,friend Dominant, Master ,advisor,sadist, romantic, teacher and a lot of other roles depending on the levels of influence others in my life accept. My full answer would take me an hour to type and my slave could do it as fast as I talk but she is playing Lego starwars with her 6 year old right now. Please ask anything you wish. Sorry that I left all the above out.

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RE: Congratulations on your new third... - 2/24/2008 1:01:25 PM

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hi justme, yes third....as in the second slave brough into the household.

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RE: Congratulations on your new third... - 2/24/2008 1:33:45 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

if you are in a couple, or have been in a couple, and have desired a third....in what ways do you think it was responding to the biological need for couples to procreate.

W/we do desire a third.....and for conscious reasons as well as (i suppose how would i know) subconscious reasons.
The conscious reasons are:
1. i am bisexual and to be afforded the luxury of being slave to a man and dominant to a woman, (or whatever Master desires of me) with that woman is fulfilment of my perfect passion
2. i am innately jealous...it must be innate as i have tried every trick in the book to not be but it still rises up
3 i am innately polyamorous and always was always will be.....nevr did do monogamy very well even though in three nilla marriages i gave it my best shot
4 being both polyamorus and SEEING who Master is fucking stops my jealousy...it's when i don't see, don't know, am left to imagine..that i feel worse
5 pro-creation for me is entirely out of this frameowrk...i have had three kids and am a proud mother so maybe that's why as i feel done and dusted in the procreation department....BUT
6 having my time over again it sure would have helped to have a sister to share the rearing with....
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7 i would take a younger sister to please Master if He wanted children and happily rear her's as mine......

Finally: it's just heaven when there are three of us FFM even when it's in scenes which i know are going to be short lived....but i'm looking and searching and as a multiple (twin) being a sister is just absolutely (subconsciously and innately) normal for me......

ed to add; as Princess i am alpha female slave (Old Guard term)

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RE: Congratulations on your new third... - 2/24/2008 2:29:52 PM

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I find far more often it's half like wanting a dessert to a great dinner, and half like wanting an extra pair of hands to take care of the chores.

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RE: Congratulations on your new third... - 2/24/2008 4:13:14 PM

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ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

if you are in a couple, or have been in a couple, and have desired a third....in what ways do you think it was responding to the biological need for couples to procreate.

feel free to tell me anything you want.... and how its not about wanting a baby....i want to hear it all...but i am most interested in hearing how those deep desires for a third, mirror most human's need to, once in a happy stable relationship, to bring a new addition into the family.

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RE: Congratulations on your new third... - 2/24/2008 4:30:18 PM

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Perhaps (and I'm just musing out loud here...not saying it is so!) it has something to do with people never being content with what they have, and seeking the elusive "something more". Even if it puts their current relationship at risk?

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