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thinktress -> RE: stalemate (9/21/2005 8:05:52 PM)
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well, i understand the comments made by most about honor and ethics. but i guess i'm just more optimystic about people's intentions. I know, understand, and sympathyze with people's insecurities about entering the lifestyle. Though he should be most honest with his wife of course, i might give him a chance to see if i could help. I feel like because my intentions are good, thant i havn't harmed my karma, nor have i thretened my ethics. inevitably people have different standards, and approach situations differently, but i truely believe that there is no dishonor, nor a loss of integrity if she were to meet with him for coffee. But hey, im young and can be neive about people with manipulitive ideas. i often just act with my heart, without consideration that i could be stepping into a trap. also, if she had a bad feeling about the guy, than i do beleive she acted right in not involving herself with him. Gotta trust your gut.
peace and pain
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