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footboy78 -> how to find a FootPrincess (2/24/2008 1:35:47 PM)

i am an avid submissive with a penchant for female feet - i have been told i'm great at giving massages and worshipping.. in addition am also a good houseboy... how should i go about finding a lifestyle Domme (not a professional) who would enjoy using me? thanks for your comments in advance



Shawn1066 -> RE: how to find a FootPrincess (2/24/2008 2:38:42 PM)

Some good advice?  Don't be so caught up on your own kink.  You'd be more useful and you'd likely get more enjoyment if you looked for a person you like, rather than a person with hot feet that'll just fill that void.  The way you write, it just sounds like you're looking for somebody to fill a role in your own fantasy.  You've got to look for a person first...and then you've got to realize that there's often more to it than fulfilling your niche fantasies.  

You may find that fulfilling her fantasies is just as enjoyable, if not moreso, than fulfilling your own.

Now, if you want somebody to fulfill your fantasies exactly as you want them to be done, when you want them to be done...  Then a professional is really one of your only options. 

Just my two cents,
DV's Fox



AtlantaMistress -> RE: how to find a FootPrincess (2/24/2008 2:51:12 PM)

I agree with DV's Fox. If you want to find a lifestyle Domme, you must be thinking about finding your happiness in fulfilling her needs. If you are just looking to have your fetishes fulifilled - a Pro Domme may be a better bet.

That said, if you are looking for a real D/s relationship, and hoping to find someone with the same interests - go to munches, your local clubs, get out into the community. Look at the shoes. There are certainly Dommes with shoe fetishes - so comment on how beautiful the shoes are, offer to take them shoe shopping, or to give a foot massage (if in an appropriate environment). When you meet people at munches, you have a better chance of getting invites to private parties - so offer your help as a houseboy to the host (which could even include availability of foot massages to your guests).

The bottom line, everyone has their kink - and as a submissive, you need to find someone who shares yours, and will be happy to reward you for serving her well by allowing you to worship her feet. If you are not interested in other things, and just want your needs filled, find a Pro that likes her feet worshipped.



BossyShoeBitch -> RE: how to find a FootPrincess (2/24/2008 3:16:28 PM)

Or you find a Domme who has a foot fetish as well (the other direction of course)...



MsCfromMelbourne -> RE: how to find a FootPrincess (2/24/2008 3:33:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: footboy78

i am an avid submissive with a penchant for female feet - i have been told i'm great at giving massages and worshipping.. in addition am also a good houseboy... how should i go about finding a lifestyle Domme (not a professional) who would enjoy using me? thanks for your comments in advance

You live in NY

While I was there you could find plenty of parties where you pay women USD20 per 10 minutes to touch their feet

You could also go to Paddles and pay women there at the same rate.  Just check carefully which club "guests" are the 10 minute slot pro-dommes, because non-pro visitors such as myself hate being hassled all night by strangers.  I must have said 1000 times "no man touches my feet - get lost!"

Finally if you do not want a professional, you will need to meet a partner and build a relationship in which she lets you play with her feet in return for you serving her needs (whatever they may be - if they are feet and houseboys, you are in luck, but I suspect female foot fetishists are hard to find.....hence they can charge $20 per 10 minutes!!!)

How do you build a relationship?  By being an all round  great catch.  Handsome, witty, charming and generous.  There's no shortage of munches and events to meet Dommes (try TES and DSF if you haven't already)

But if meeting a lifestyler is designed to save money on professionals, I don't think that is going to work.  The Dominant women are really savvy.  You will have to give as much as you get, one way or the other.



slavekal -> RE: how to find a FootPrincess (2/24/2008 4:08:15 PM)

Start massaging and rubbing the feet of ladies you go out with.  Start slow.  Gauge their reactions.  You will get some takers, believe me.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: how to find a FootPrincess (2/24/2008 5:46:08 PM)

I find foot massage extremely painful, and I have friend who are repulsed at the sensations of foot massage. I know MANY more who enjoy it greatly, and only wish that they boys who offer the service were better at it!  Skills and a smile go a long way.



petpete -> RE: how to find a FootPrincess (2/24/2008 7:47:09 PM)

well i guess the Ladies have answered our questions footboy... *smirks*



MissMagnolia -> RE: how to find a FootPrincess (2/24/2008 7:51:21 PM)

I personally wouldn't use you footboy. As fox said, you come across as all about your kink, not about her desires/wishes.



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