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RE: Emotions and Dominance - 2/25/2008 4:00:29 PM

Morghan

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MisPandora, you are spectacular in your response. Thank you. While some of the details might not apply to my particular situation, the advice you give is rock solid. Again, thank you.

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RE: Emotions and Dominance - 2/25/2008 6:28:54 PM

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Emotions are apart of the human nature and they should be understood and respected by all of us. There are times that W/we can A/all undergo that has a great effect on us in many ways and only time can cure its effects. What W/we really need from the people who stand as partners in our lifes is support and nothing else. In times of emotions the person who has them may need to let out steam or to talk to someone for how they feel. The person who is the closest at the time should have the ability to absorb and take some of that pain and reflection that the sufferer maybe enduring. it is a time that titles can be bypassed and the human hearts can find some connection and relief from each other.

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RE: Emotions and Dominance - 2/25/2008 9:47:42 PM

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Morghan,maybe a little nudge from you might help,afterall you are human as you stated.Tell your sub that you need for him to look at you,tell him to take hold of your hands and listen as you are beginning what could be a long grieving process.Encourage his involvement in helping you through this very painful time.I am sure he would bend over backwards to ride the crest of emotions with you..at least i know i would.Since when does seeing a person of power crying become taboo??To me,that person would become all the more embraceable.I used to be a hard-ass and very unemotional even though i was always submissive.What turned me around??My late father kneeling at the casket of my uncle and whispering to him"see you later brother".I totally lost it and cried uncontrollably.That was 1983 and since that day,i have become a real softie.Heck i will cry over a piece of music that reminds me of my folks or my late brother.You have my sympathy.

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RE: Emotions and Dominance - 2/26/2008 1:26:17 AM

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Dear cheezy.. i was also a total asshole.. i never wanted to show weak even though i was always submissive i hid it well.. Its been a few years now that i have learned to let my emotions lose and at least i feel some relief. as i kid i had to find somewhere to hide before i would start crying all on my own and only when i would get over it i would return home. Somehow i used to feel that i had to hide my feelings for any reason. i kept my emotions restrained for very long and most of my life. emotions need to be expressed and support is needed from the loved ones and the ones W/we chose to have near us for good times and bad times. The emotional state of one should be respected and supported by the people that W/we take trust in them to be on our side no matter what labels they wear.

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