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Sweet1Maybe4U -> RE: To pic or not to pic (2/25/2008 4:31:56 PM)
Hmmm...was He as I pictured Him?...well I dont think I had at first pictured anything. He was so funny and polite that I just sooo much enjoyed receiving His letters that in the beginning I didnt even really care what He looked like. I was enchanted with His gentlemanly ways. He was one of the very few who didnt after a few emails say things like this: "So, what is it that turns you On? Uh, so...what do you look like naked? Could you send me a picture of your breasts? " LOL...He actually always..always...was just nice to me. The first month or so He never even mentioned BDSM at all. He asked me my likes in music and movies..and told me dumb jokes. He chatted with me about his childhood. He liked how open I was in my writings on my profile.. things like that. If He had at anytime in the beginning had said things about me being naked I probably would have added Him to the mile high list of "NEXT"....and would have ended it. But, I guess because I could tell He was wanting more than just the sex stuff that it attracted me even more as time went on. When we met for the first time it was for dinner. Ive heard you can tell by how much the Man wants by how much time He invests in the first meeting...True or not? I dont know. I do know that our dinner at CrossCreek was a few hours. Then, we moved it to the place across the street after they ran us out.....lol...So, I guess He really liked me...LOL...... I was very happy with the first picture he sent me. He was casually dressed and it was taken in the football Stadium of the Jacksonville Jaguars. There He stands with His HUGE long strong fingers craddling a football and He was smiling. I have that as my first and best impression of Him. He was masculine and strong in my mind. So, that is probably forever going to be the image I have of Him. Im a very blessed girl. I adore Him. And thanks for asking..I sometimes feel I go on and on..but well, I cant help it..I like chatting...[:D]

darchChylde -> RE: To pic or not to pic (2/25/2008 4:32:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sweet1Maybe4U BTW, darchChylde I do like the pics on your profile..along with givemyall's pics.. Im not a Domme but I have actually at times found myself attracted to your pics darchChylde and at moments uh.....have thoughts of dominating you.....is that normal?...too much info?...shrugs. They are fleeting moments then I return to my normal self......giggles....I think its the pics of you on the floor that make me think things... blushing and giggling Why thank you very much. i get that alot on those pics, though the funny thing is i don't find anything particularly submissive about them. At least it wasn't especially submissive at the time. Ma'am was on the computer and i was just relaxing on the floor (no, not at Her feet; just on the floor and out of the walkway; which i wouldn't be if i was actually at Her feet) and the next thing i know, She's snapping pics.

Sweet1Maybe4U -> RE: To pic or not to pic (2/25/2008 4:35:56 PM)
lol...Im glad Im not the only one with those thoughts about him...LOL... But, I like the Natural pics too... I took mine with the digital camera and from my computer cam..I was just hamming it up and I think they look okay. At least everyone gets to see the real me....uh, except for the tossled morning hair looks without makeup..lol..that's reserved for those with strong stomachs....[:D]

Sweet1Maybe4U -> RE: To pic or not to pic (2/25/2008 4:38:29 PM)
she knew a good thing darchChylde when she saw it..[;)] I dont think they are submissive..just sexy I guess...maybe its because it shows the casual off guard part of you that is appealing...*shrugs..I dont know...but I like them..

liketophoto -> RE: To pic or not to pic (2/25/2008 4:40:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact I know this is a topic that's come around before, but I've found it a bit funny Myself the past couple of days. I'm currently in the process of putting on a new main pic to My profile. As most of you know, this takes a couple of days and removes the last main pic from showing up on your posts on the boards. Though now I'm left wondering if I might be better off not posting a pic at all. Any thoughts from anyone on this? What are your comments on the advantages or disadvantages of not posting a pic? I want to read a profile, a picture helps, but I want to know about a person.

Sweet1Maybe4U -> RE: To pic or not to pic (2/25/2008 4:49:22 PM)
I like your photos liketophoto. They're cool.

MissHarlet -> RE: To pic or not to pic (2/25/2008 5:46:13 PM)
Most of the time when I finally see pictures they dont look like I expected .. even when I dont really know what I really expected .. LOL

chezzy52 -> RE: To pic or not to pic (2/26/2008 4:04:08 AM)
I am at the opposite end of the spectrum..i posted what i believed was a rather innocent pic of an old female friend with her hand across my mouth.The only thing showing was her hand..no face or anything and collarme disallowed it.Some of you know me in here,i can't post my regular pic at this time..number one..it is almost7 years old and number two..i can't get anyone to take a recent pic of me and as i have stated..i want to tell the truth.Can't be truthful with a 7 year old pic..i can send the old pic and if anyone desired the hand across the mouth pic to a regular e-mail address..i can't even send to a collarme e-mail addy.I don't why either..i am a dunce about computers..all i know is type..point and click.

Dnomyar -> RE: To pic or not to pic (2/26/2008 4:32:23 AM)
I had a pic on for a long time but it dissapeared with no explanation. I just tried to put another one on but they say becaused it was cropped they wont put it on. So if you want to see what I look like email me my pic is on there.

LadyPact -> RE: To pic or not to pic (2/26/2008 3:08:27 PM)
Ray, I admit I've kind of wondered about that.

LadyPact -> RE: To pic or not to pic (2/28/2008 6:05:25 AM)
Dang thing finally showed up. I'll have to see how the mailbox goes from here.

Dnomyar -> RE: To pic or not to pic (2/28/2008 6:43:20 AM)
I ment to say IM me. Who knows how CM really works. They will turn someone down for the way thier pics look and ok another person with the same type of pic.

DianeB269 -> RE: To pic or not to pic (3/6/2008 2:26:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact I know this is a topic that's come around before, but I've found it a bit funny Myself the past couple of days. I'm currently in the process of putting on a new main pic to My profile. As most of you know, this takes a couple of days and removes the last main pic from showing up on your posts on the boards. The funny thing about this is, I haven't had even one single email come through My box that was in any way something distasteful. Don't get Me wrong. I'm not complaining about that one bit. Though now I'm left wondering if I might be better off not posting a pic at all. Any thoughts from anyone on this? What are your comments on the advantages or disadvantages of not posting a pic? I took my photos down for a month or so. I was getting 3 to 5 emails a week. Now that I have posted some new photos in my profile, I got 200 plus emails in 4 days[sm=hair.gif] Lots of them are very distasteful. I'm really thinking about removing them.. Diane

LadyPact -> RE: To pic or not to pic (3/6/2008 4:17:28 PM)
Diane, yes, now that My pic is up again, you wouldn't believe the things that I get. I was rather happy with this this shot, so I'll deal with it. Great pose, isn't it?

DianeB269 -> RE: To pic or not to pic (3/6/2008 4:18:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Diane, yes, now that My pic is up again, you wouldn't believe the things that I get. I was rather happy with this this shot, so I'll deal with it. Great pose, isn't it? You look very hot in that photo... Diane

AAkasha -> RE: To pic or not to pic (3/6/2008 4:21:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DianeB269 quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact I know this is a topic that's come around before, but I've found it a bit funny Myself the past couple of days. I'm currently in the process of putting on a new main pic to My profile. As most of you know, this takes a couple of days and removes the last main pic from showing up on your posts on the boards. The funny thing about this is, I haven't had even one single email come through My box that was in any way something distasteful. Don't get Me wrong. I'm not complaining about that one bit. Though now I'm left wondering if I might be better off not posting a pic at all. Any thoughts from anyone on this? What are your comments on the advantages or disadvantages of not posting a pic? I took my photos down for a month or so. I was getting 3 to 5 emails a week. Now that I have posted some new photos in my profile, I got 200 plus emails in 4 days[sm=hair.gif] Lots of them are very distasteful. I'm really thinking about removing them.. Diane I removed my picture because I was getting too much mail also. Is there a way to deactivate a photo for awhile and put it back up, or do you have to resubmit the photo each time? Does anyone know? I might try putting up some other pictures and see if it changes anything. Akasha

DianeB269 -> RE: To pic or not to pic (3/6/2008 4:25:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha quote: ORIGINAL: DianeB269 quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact I know this is a topic that's come around before, but I've found it a bit funny Myself the past couple of days. I'm currently in the process of putting on a new main pic to My profile. As most of you know, this takes a couple of days and removes the last main pic from showing up on your posts on the boards. The funny thing about this is, I haven't had even one single email come through My box that was in any way something distasteful. Don't get Me wrong. I'm not complaining about that one bit. Though now I'm left wondering if I might be better off not posting a pic at all. Any thoughts from anyone on this? What are your comments on the advantages or disadvantages of not posting a pic? I took my photos down for a month or so. I was getting 3 to 5 emails a week. Now that I have posted some new photos in my profile, I got 200 plus emails in 4 days[sm=hair.gif] Lots of them are very distasteful. I'm really thinking about removing them.. Diane I removed my picture because I was getting too much mail also. Is there a way to deactivate a photo for awhile and put it back up, or do you have to resubmit the photo each time? Does anyone know? I might try putting up some other pictures and see if it changes anything. Akasha If you take your photos out of your profile, you will have to resubmit them. You can hide your profile at anytime with out losing your photos. Diane

DrkJourney -> RE: To pic or not to pic (3/6/2008 4:27:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: darchChylde i was property for months before i joined this site, so i have never looked for anything other than friends here. Most of my emails are respectful complements on my pics, profile and posts (listed in descending order of frequency). Yes, i have had some djstasteful emails; but those are relatively few (maybe once a week or so, lately); but it seems to have reduced since i stopped using a pic of myself topless as my main pic (which i don't get, since i can't see why anyone would be attracted to my scrawny and ill-defined chest). i've always used pics online; mainly because even if i'm not particularly happy about my appearance, i know that many do find me attractive and i love to hear it. To me, it's also very nice to put a face with a name. Well as just one of your stalkers, I greatly appreciate the pic......dra ooooool LOL[sm=banana.gif]

DrkJourney -> RE: To pic or not to pic (3/6/2008 4:31:01 PM)
I like to have a pic up, because I want to see pics, because I like to see who I am speaking with, so I don't feel wrong for asking, when they don't send like my profile request. The bad part, those that just cruise pics, claim that they read your profile, when it's obvious that they haven't, and you are everything they are looking for, yadda yadda yadda.....uh huh major time wasters can't understand what the heck they find so great about it, but to each his own I guess...LOL

DianeB269 -> RE: To pic or not to pic (3/6/2008 4:36:29 PM)
They don't read my profile before they send me a message. My butt gets more attention[8D] Diane.

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