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thedavezone -> A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: (2/26/2008 8:30:07 AM)

My sub/slave will write "You win" on my desktop, and save the text-file but password lock it.  Then, I strap them in, and I have to get the password out of them.  Oh, the fun I've had!  Spanking, figging, tickling, teasing them silly, keeping them on the edge of orgasm!  You see, the first few times they agree to give the password, it is a lie, but it gives them a break as it requires me to walk over and enter it in the computer.  And after a while, I don't believe them anymore.  And while I never go to far, no safe-words are allowed!  It's so much fun!



AMaster -> RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: (2/26/2008 8:32:56 AM)

Sounds like great sport.  Thanks.



Justme696 -> RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: (2/26/2008 8:59:56 AM)

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And while I never go to far, no safe-words are allowed!


Why is this part of the game? What use do safewords have when they are not allowed.



Dnomyar -> RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: (2/26/2008 9:41:52 AM)

If no safewords then the game could get out of hand.



amayos -> RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: (2/26/2008 9:44:54 AM)


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ORIGINAL: thedavezone

My sub/slave will write "You win" on my desktop, and save the text-file but password lock it. Then, I strap them in, and I have to get the password out of them. Oh, the fun I've had! Spanking, figging, tickling, teasing them silly, keeping them on the edge of orgasm! You see, the first few times they agree to give the password, it is a lie, but it gives them a break as it requires me to walk over and enter it in the computer. And after a while, I don't believe them anymore. And while I never go to far, no safe-words are allowed! It's so much fun!



* Yawn



LadyHathor -> RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: (2/26/2008 9:58:38 AM)

hmm is this the topping from the bottom thread?
 
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thickerdenwater -> RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: (2/26/2008 10:04:10 AM)

i would imagine the safeword would be the password, since once you give up the password the game ends. that could be why theres not actual "safe word"



Justme696 -> RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: (2/26/2008 10:08:44 AM)

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ORIGINAL: thickerdenwater

i would imagine the safeword would be the password, since once you give up the password the game ends. that could be why theres not actual "safe word"


then they need to learn what the meaning of a safeword is...
it has a purpose of course..If you play with safewords..then it looses its meaning.
And that is bad.



thickerdenwater -> RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: (2/26/2008 10:14:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Justme696

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ORIGINAL: thickerdenwater

i would imagine the safeword would be the password, since once you give up the password the game ends. that could be why theres not actual "safe word"


then they need to learn what the meaning of a safeword is...
it has a purpose of course..If you play with safewords..then it looses its meaning.
And that is bad.


indeed. much communication and understanding would be a must. but then again, it depends on the activity. Im pretty sure they wont confuse a safeword for a password when doing something that doesnt require a password. It is all factored in on the people involved and the trust between them



Dnomyar -> RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: (2/26/2008 10:24:07 AM)

How did a password get in here. Safewords are just that safewords.



thickerdenwater -> RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: (2/26/2008 10:25:50 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

How did a password get in here. Safewords are just that safewords.


read the OP



SteelofUtah -> RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: (2/26/2008 2:16:25 PM)

Justme696 this is like the 4th or 5th time I have viewed an extreme point of view from you as if anything else were just wrong.

First Not everyone uses safewords. I don't nor do many of those in my community. A safe word does not always have meaning it actually is part of a game otherwise saying STOP would be all it takes. A Safeword gives someone the ability to say "No, Stop, and Don't" and have it really mean "No, Don't Stop!" so if you look at in terms of what it is there for YES it is a game.

I do not use safe words because if I get to the place where she has to use it I have already gone too far. Instead I use good old fashioned DIALOG I ASK her how she is feeling and if it's getting to be too much, and then after that I focus on her body and the signs it gives. So that you know in SUB SPACE Most girls are at the most vulnerable and would be unable to say the word let alone utter it. But then again I play for effect not for show.

I think the point of this persons post (Which I think is a WONDERFUL Idea for an Interogation Play scene) is that the way to make it end is to give the REAL Answer and then the game ends there is a Failsafe embedded into the game.

ALL GAMES even those with safe words can get outta hand, I would really like to see people not relying on a concept that when it is MOST needed is rarely possible. In Example when a girl is at Full Dopeamine Drop and a cramp starts, her words are slurred if she is able to speak at all who can she safe word then and that is when she really needs to. I look for the body sign and stop accordingly.

***Yes I know this Method does not work for playing with people you are not familiar with, I never said that Safewords were unnecessary I just think they are relied on too harshly**

Good game Post more if you get them.

As Always

Steel



Justme696 -> RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: (2/26/2008 2:21:39 PM)

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Justme696 this is like the 4th or 5th time I have viewed an extreme point of view from you as if anything else were just wrong.

First Not everyone uses safewords. I don't nor do many of those in my community. A safe word does not always have meaning it actually is part of a game otherwise saying STOP would be all it takes. A Safeword gives someone the ability to say "No, Stop, and Don't" and have it really mean "No, Don't Stop!" so if you look at in terms of what it is there for YES it is a game.


Propably more post will follow that you might not like.
I can't help it. Safewords..or just that... safe words. You don't fool with it. Like with firealarms..or emergency stops in trains. They are no toys.
His game is great..yes indeed. But to forbid safetywords?  Then better to have none.

Your first point "not having safety words" is not the issue here...they have one..else they can't forbid the use.
COuldn't find the second point..but you explain the safety word just as I did...so I don't understand what you try to say.

ps. I can be hidden with the hidden button ;)







SteelofUtah -> RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: (2/26/2008 2:33:54 PM)

Sorry I misunderstood the purpose I went back and re-read it I just missed it.

The issue is not that he isn't using a safe word it's that he has one that he choose when and when not to follow it.

On that level I can agree with your point.

I am sure safewords are important to you and this is why you feel stringly about it I was not angry with you but rather concerned as it (From My OWN missreading) sounded like you were going down that "My kink is Okay, your Kink is not okay."

I don't need to hide you, I simply wanted to see where your point of view was comeing from.

As Always

Stee;



LadyHathor -> RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: (2/26/2008 2:34:00 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

How did a password get in here. Safewords are just that safewords.

 
shhhhh you need the password to get to the safe word, after I have expended and broken all your hard limits so you give Me the password---pay attention D--<smiles>



Justme696 -> RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: (2/26/2008 2:36:08 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

Sorry I misunderstood the purpose I went back and re-read it I just missed it.

The issue is not that he isn't using a safe word it's that he has one that he choose when and when not to follow it.

On that level I can agree with your point.

I am sure safewords are important to you and this is why you feel stringly about it I was not angry with you but rather concerned as it (From My OWN missreading) sounded like you were going down that "My kink is Okay, your Kink is not okay."

I don't need to hide you, I simply wanted to see where your point of view was comeing from.

As Always

Stee;


No problem...it happens.....I change my posts often afther reading again...

quote:

"My kink is Okay, your Kink is not okay."


I admit I have that by times...but I think I learned to control that some more.


Damian



Aileen1968 -> RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: (2/26/2008 3:00:06 PM)

I got the impression that this is just a fun thing to do.  Not every instance of play has to be so intense that the threat of damage is present.  My God...do some people ever have just a good old fun time without safewords and plotting out the scene beforehand? 



Justme696 -> RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: (2/26/2008 3:03:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

I got the impression that this is just a fun thing to do.  Not every instance of play has to be so intense that the threat of damage is present.  My God...do some people ever have just a good old fun time without safewords and plotting out the scene beforehand? 


yes when I go out I don't need them. But when playing with my girl..the safeword...is always there.
safewords..are not partime.

If he would have let it out of the OP then there would not have been a reaction.
Just was supprised by the combination Games and Safeword





whiteslavebitch -> RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: (2/26/2008 4:36:43 PM)

That sounds like a lot of fun. I think I'll pass this on to MasterK.



SailingBum -> RE: A WONDERFUL NEW GAME I discovered: (2/26/2008 4:46:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

I got the impression that this is just a fun thing to do.  Not every instance of play has to be so intense that the threat of damage is present.  My God...do some people ever have just a good old fun time without safewords and plotting out the scene beforehand? 


I was thinking oh boy NOT the safe word topic again.  Agrees with this post. 

The kinder gentler me smirk 



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