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DominaJayde -> Male Doms who suddenly display their 'sub' side (2/26/2008 5:30:09 PM)
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That's probably not the best title for the topic, but I can't really think of another way to put it.
Background, I have been chatting for quite a while to two male doms, sending messages back and forth, usually just about various methods of sub training, amusing anecdotes, you know the sort of thing you do with a work colleague about shared issues, nothing too deep or meaningful, a little banter, etc etc.
Then out of nowhere, both of them suddenly admitted that they had long held submissive tendencies and wanted nothing more than to submit to me, at first I thought it was just a ploy to get wank fodder, I am very descriptive when I explain how a scene goes with my boys, but after talking to them both some more I get the feeling that it is not just a passing whim for mastubatory purposes.
My issue is that *I* seem to be the one who is having the problem getting over the fact that both of them identify as Dominant, there is a large disconnect going on here, and it's making what was once a very pleasant and interesting shared discourse into something stilted and uncomfortable on occasions.
Theoretically I should have NO problem dominating either of them, if they are as I think they are, genuine, but theory and practice don't want to join up right now.
DJ
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