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Pampering - 2/27/2008 4:22:50 PM   
Bound2One


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Hi all!
 
I am brainstorming to come up with some ways to really pamper my Master.  I have some ideas floating around in my head, but I wondered if some of the subs/slaves on here can help me expand my imagination a bit.  I'm talking about physical and mental ways to give him a treat.  What have you done for your Dom which really made him happy?  Or for the Doms, what has your sub/slave done for you which perhaps you didn't ask for, but truly showed her love for you and made you feel content?
 
I know this is an individual thing, but it never hurts to get some other opinions.
 
Thanks!
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RE: Pampering - 2/27/2008 5:12:26 PM   
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Well I am a Massage therapy Instuctor so I give him a massage. I also have gotten in the habit of drying him off when he gets out of the shower. If you end up on your knees kissing his feet or other various parts, even better. Make him his favorite food, mix him a cocktail. Bring him to get a pedicure. He'll understand why women love it so much.Or take him to the barber for a close shave.

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RE: Pampering - 2/27/2008 5:41:14 PM   
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A key factor of getting someone "in the now" is actually doing everything to ensure he only has to concern himself with "now."  Make a checklist of everything that might distract his mind from your special treat.  Feed the dog, take out the garbage, pay the bills, arrange for a friend to pick up the kid.  That thing that's on the top of his "honey-do" list?  Do it yourself.  Construct a situation where he literally has nothing better to do than lie back and eat the grapes you peel for him -- or whatever specific pamper-things you end up doing.

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RE: Pampering - 2/27/2008 5:53:51 PM   
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Yup what lusciouslips said...

Be kneeling at the door in his favorite outfit or something sexy, drink in hand, dinner on, a bubble bath waiting for him while you finish up dinner, wash him, dry him, kissing him tenderly, wrap him a robe. Kneel at his feet while he is eating, once full and content, guide him to a candle light bedroom for a sensual message, wipe him down with warm towels afterwards, and cover him a curl up next to him.

Sometimes he allows me to get through all the pampering I have planned in my mind, sometimes he has his own ideas but it is always fun to plan to pamper him and see how far you actually get.


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RE: Pampering - 2/27/2008 5:58:31 PM   
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He likes when I shine all the chrome on his Harley.

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RE: Pampering - 2/27/2008 6:15:55 PM   
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Make sure it's how they enjoy being pampered and not your idea of pampering.  Not all doms are comfy being taken care of, certainly not in all ways :)

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RE: Pampering - 2/27/2008 6:27:47 PM   
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In the past i've thought about tucking a little note inside his suit case, or brief case, or shirt pocket -- make sure it won't slip out at a bad moment -- but when he won't be expecting it.  Send him a plant for his office (a note may or may not be necessary), and like LA said..make sure it's his idea of being pampered...and when all else fails -- Google it!!!

Have fun..
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RE: Pampering - 2/27/2008 7:03:42 PM   
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Fantastic replies, everyone.  Thank you for sharing!   I should note that I've been given permission to explore a bit to see what he would enjoy, so with that in mind I'm going to plan out a few surprises for him.   

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RE: Pampering - 2/27/2008 7:04:28 PM   
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OP...........

What does he do-besides you?

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RE: Pampering - 2/27/2008 7:14:17 PM   
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Do this for him. http://www.whitelotuseast.com/LingamMassage.htm

Trust me!

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RE: Pampering - 2/27/2008 8:00:40 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Littlepita

Do this for him. http://www.whitelotuseast.com/LingamMassage.htm

Trust me!



Without giving away details... yeah, that's a fave of ours.       Thanks!!!

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RE: Pampering - 2/28/2008 1:14:27 AM   
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FEED ME SEYMOUR!

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RE: Pampering - 2/28/2008 11:49:39 AM   
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LOL!!

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RE: Pampering - 2/28/2008 12:21:42 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Make sure it's how they enjoy being pampered and not your idea of pampering.  Not all doms are comfy being taken care of, certainly not in all ways :)


That is a good point. I once got punished for going to great length to wash his car and learned he really enjoyed and looked forward to doing that himself.

One of his favorite things he really seems to like me to do is on many weekend afternoons to make him a nice lunch and to feed it to him while he is lounging on the sofa watching a game or race.


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RE: Pampering - 2/29/2008 3:20:24 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Bound2One

Hi all!
 
I am brainstorming to come up with some ways to really pamper my Master.  I have some ideas floating around in my head, but I wondered if some of the subs/slaves on here can help me expand my imagination a bit.  I'm talking about physical and mental ways to give him a treat.  What have you done for your Dom which really made him happy?  Or for the Doms, what has your sub/slave done for you which perhaps you didn't ask for, but truly showed her love for you and made you feel content?
 
I know this is an individual thing, but it never hurts to get some other opinions.
 
Thanks!


Daily things: I bring him caffeine when he is waking up, as well as give him a smoke and lighter.  I shower with him and scrub him head to toe.  I let him talk, and actually listen to him.  (cause, hey, being me,that's an accomplishment.)
Sometimes, I'll make him food, but he's a much better cook than me.  I don't take his abrasiveness personally, but always go out of my way to let him be who he is.  I bring him surprises, like a Crush when he craves it, or a Snickers.

Special things: Take him out to eat at a place he likes.  Find new, fun ways to make love to him.  Research a subject he mentioned that he wants to know more about, or buy him a book on the matter.  Clean the house or wash the dishes for him. 

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RE: Pampering - 2/29/2008 4:51:12 AM   
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Mmmm after reading all of this I guess I had better find a new sub.

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RE: Pampering - 2/29/2008 5:06:03 AM   
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Hello Bound
 
First I would really recommend anyone who considers 'pampering' to do so well informed from their dominant.  Some people relish the time they have cleaning their car, gardening or running their own bath.  (Not that I consider the initial two pampering acts, more service ones). So it's down to find out the personal likes rather than second guess.  Some people hate having their feet touched, so foot care would be ruled out, for example.
 
I loathe second guessing
 
That said, learning massage techniques and attending a class would be cool.  Reflexology classes also or an indian head massage - as well as a full on body massage.  Running a bath, favourite meals and film.  Making a wonderful lunch for them to take to work.  Learn to dance, even a lap dance could rock.  Get in some porn and watch together.  Body painting is very relaxing as is the washing after.  As 70's as it is - a fondue rocks if he likes fruit and chocolate.  Buy a really good bottle of wine or favourite beverage to have in the bath or whilst relaxing.  Warm towels ready for when they get out of the bath/shower.
 
As for making Darcy happy, just be myself and honest is all he really desires and that I dont hold back from him ever.  When I obey, he is content.
 
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RE: Pampering - 2/29/2008 5:18:01 AM   
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ORIGINAL: toservez

One of his favorite things he really seems to like me to do is on many weekend afternoons to make him a nice lunch and to feed it to him while he is lounging on the sofa watching a game or race.


Great idea, thanks! 


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RE: Pampering - 2/29/2008 5:19:33 AM   
Bound2One


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ORIGINAL: StormsSlave

Daily things: I bring him caffeine when he is waking up, as well as give him a smoke and lighter.  I shower with him and scrub him head to toe.  I let him talk, and actually listen to him.  (cause, hey, being me,that's an accomplishment.)
Sometimes, I'll make him food, but he's a much better cook than me.  I don't take his abrasiveness personally, but always go out of my way to let him be who he is.  I bring him surprises, like a Crush when he craves it, or a Snickers.

Special things: Take him out to eat at a place he likes.  Find new, fun ways to make love to him.  Research a subject he mentioned that he wants to know more about, or buy him a book on the matter.  Clean the house or wash the dishes for him. 


LOL on the actually listening! 

Thank you for all of your ideas.  Now I want a Crush and a Snickers. 

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RE: Pampering - 2/29/2008 5:25:05 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

Hello Bound
 
First I would really recommend anyone who considers 'pampering' to do so well informed from their dominant.  Some people relish the time they have cleaning their car, gardening or running their own bath.  (Not that I consider the initial two pampering acts, more service ones). So it's down to find out the personal likes rather than second guess.  Some people hate having their feet touched, so foot care would be ruled out, for example.
 
I loathe second guessing
 
That said, learning massage techniques and attending a class would be cool.  Reflexology classes also or an indian head massage - as well as a full on body massage.  Running a bath, favourite meals and film.  Making a wonderful lunch for them to take to work.  Learn to dance, even a lap dance could rock.  Get in some porn and watch together.  Body painting is very relaxing as is the washing after.  As 70's as it is - a fondue rocks if he likes fruit and chocolate.  Buy a really good bottle of wine or favourite beverage to have in the bath or whilst relaxing.  Warm towels ready for when they get out of the bath/shower.
 
As for making Darcy happy, just be myself and honest is all he really desires and that I dont hold back from him ever.  When I obey, he is content.
 
the.dark.



 
Thank you for your post!  I must say that I've gathered some ideas that I hadn't thought about. 

Master wishes me to explore him, discovering his personal likes and perhaps even opening him up to something he hasn't experienced before, so this thread has given me a lot of food for thought.  Perhaps it's the idea of my wishing do something for him w/o his having to ask for it - I do find that it's the things that I don't request but yet are given anyway which tend to mean the most to me.  We are still in the 'getting to know one another' stage and this will be yet another way to get closer.
 
Thanks to everyone for responding! 

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