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Dominant/submissive Swap - 2/28/2008 4:40:55 AM   
Evility


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Status: offline 		Have you ever seen that television program called "Wife Swap"? I've seen it a couple of times. If you have not, in a nutshell the premise is this: two families are chosen that are generally quite different in the way the household is run, et cetera. The wives trade places for two weeks and 'move' to the other household (but not to the other bed). For the first week each household runs according to the way it has always run and then during the second week the wives are allowed to run their surrogate households as they see fit. Of course this is all filmed and edited down to a one hour show (minus commercials).

I was casually musing about the possibilities if you applied this type of format for a new fetish oriented version of the program.
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RE: Dominant/submissive Swap - 2/28/2008 4:52:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		swapping me out for some other submissive for a week?  lol

definitely not happening - Daddy would never entertains such an idea.  He loves me too much not to share/play with others.


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RE: Dominant/submissive Swap - 2/28/2008 7:55:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		Wife swap is couples swinging, but without the sex.
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RE: Dominant/submissive Swap - 2/28/2008 8:32:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		Not a chance. There wouldn't be any trust between us. I wouldn't have had time to see if he was someone I judged worthy of my respect. Hell, some random stranger probably wouldn't inspire submission in me. And sure as hell, he wouldn't make me aroused. Without all the history of the relationship, I wouldn't be willing nor able to submit.

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RE: Dominant/submissive Swap - 2/28/2008 8:38:05 AM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		Id have no interest in borrowing smeone elses sub for a week, ad there is no way in hell I am letting either boy serve someone else when I have them trained exactly as I want them. Sex aside,since neither boy would sleep with someone new in a 2 week period anyway, Angel would never be able to open up to someone else in that short a time, and Fox wouldnt be interested.

Good concept, wrong lifestyle
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RE: Dominant/submissive Swap - 2/28/2008 8:52:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think it's a fun and hot concept but it's highly doubtful he would do it.  He didn't spend the last 3 1/2 years teaching me all about him and how to please him just to do without what he gets from me for a week.  Plus, he would want to be able to still communicate with me daily, to know how I am doing.

But it's a fun fantasy.  I'd serve whomever he told me to, knowing I'd be submitting to and obeying him by doing so.  But I think it would be stressful all the way around - the dominants wouldn't be getting what they're accustomed to and the submissives would be unsure of how to please the dominant they were assigned to.  But, like Wife Swap, maybe everyone would learn a few things. 

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RE: Dominant/submissive Swap - 2/28/2008 11:20:35 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think it would be a lot of fun and could be very educational for everyone.  The fact that the new person has to abide by the old rules for the first week and THEN the original family/dom has to abide by the subs "rules" can be a great way to get perspective.

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RE: Dominant/submissive Swap - 2/28/2008 12:26:27 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I think it would be a lot of fun and could be very educational for everyone.  The fact that the new person has to abide by the old rules for the first week and THEN the original family/dom has to abide by the subs "rules" can be a great way to get perspective.


I'm twisted enough to have a lot of fun with that...

I think the whole thing could be a lot of fun, as long as certain things like sex and extreme play were discussed and settled on ahead of time.

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RE: Dominant/submissive Swap - 2/28/2008 1:32:18 PM   
xxblushesxx


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Status: offline 		The one that was on last week had a couple I swore were D/s.
He was a biker, she dressed like a ho (for him) and always wore a huge necklace with a heart and a lock on it.
Unfortunately, I liked the family they swapped with better.
They seemed more grounded.
And nicer.
I just wish they would have found a better example of our lifestyle. (no they never SAID it, but it was pretty obvious.)



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RE: Dominant/submissive Swap - 2/28/2008 1:34:17 PM   
shysub0951


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Status: offline 		Yea i saw it, and i did have the exact same idea on it. Humiliation of his wife, dressing her the way he wanted her to, etc etc. Definite BDSM in most, if not all context.

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RE: Dominant/submissive Swap - 2/28/2008 1:37:13 PM   
AMaster


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Status: offline 		The concept has potential. 

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