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Pyrrsefanie -> RE: "who's the dom in this relationship?" (2/28/2008 5:35:57 PM)
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ORIGINAL: TracyTaken
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why would he give her such info about us?
He's posting nude, sexually explicit pictures of you on the worldwide web, but you're bothered that he told an old fuck buddy?
I guess I can envision his POV. If you don't care that he's showing the world, why would care that he shows one person?
Speaking as someone who's been naked on the intarweb before... there's a big difference between the two.
It sounds like he's posting the photos on Newbie Nudes with her permission (correct me if I'm wrong here). It's a fairly big site, and while it's popular, the chances of his old fuckbuddy stumbling across the photos of her own accord are still pretty slim unless she knows what she's looking for. But then he takes those photos and sends them, specifically, to this former fuckbuddy WITHOUT his sub's permission, thereby taking away that element of chance.
To clarify, imagine you're modelling nude for some website... say Suicide Girls. You're under an assumed name and working in a job without a morality clause. You obviously accept the fact that there's a chance that somebody you know will stumble across them, but it's a big site and other than your face and possibly location there's no identifying information about you available, so it's pretty unlikely.
Now imagine that somebody downloads those pictures and emails them to your mom (this is assuming that your mom is one of the conservative types and not like mine, who'd just tell me that my eyeliner was smudged in one of the shots). You're going to be upset and probably feel like your privacy has been violated, because the downloader went behind your back to make SURE that your mom saw those pictures.
Make sense, kinda?
Then again, some guys are just dense when it comes to thinking about this kind of stuff, so maybe he legitimately CAN'T see what the big problem is from his point of view.
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