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sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Googling a prospective Dominant/Play partner (2/29/2008 6:22:42 AM)

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ORIGINAL: dadyzbrat

How many of you have googled a Dominant? Am i psycho for doing it?  Am i just playing it safe?

what can Google tell me that i couldn't get by asking the dominant in question myself?  no you're not playing it safe ...and yes, i would think you're a psycho for doing it.

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Why on earth would a Dominant get SOOOO mad, that He would drop all communications.

why - it probably demonstrates your lack of communication skills and trust ...imho



TreasureKY -> RE: Googling a prospective Dominant/Play partner (2/29/2008 6:34:03 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

what can Google tell me that i couldn't get by asking the dominant in question myself?


The truth.

"Trust, but verify."



Jeffff -> RE: Goggling a prospective Dominant/Play partner (2/29/2008 6:34:54 AM)

In my case googling me is almost pointless.First, there are at least 2 authors with my name so it take 50 some pages to get to me. When you finally do? all there is my divorce decree..lol. Since I will tell you that anyway, I don't see how it helps.

Jeff



CarrieO -> RE: Googling a prospective Dominant/Play partner (2/29/2008 6:39:27 AM)

I google everyone and expect them to do the same. It's common sense, they can tell you anything. I also google screen names and emails. Being snoopy makes you smart. I have no shame or guilt in saying that either. If it bothers the person I'm with then perhaps I need to think twice on my reasons for being with them.
I was also with a man who got angry when he found out that I had done this.  He told me that if I couldn't trust what he told me then why bother. I replied that if he had nothing to hide and was as open as he claimed, then it shouldn't be a problem and he should be pleased with the fact that I took it upon myself to be smart.
I'm learning that those three words....safe,sane, consensual.....have just as much meaning outside of a scene as inside. 
The fact that you're a single Mother allows you to be that much more careful...it's not just your life.  Good luck and continue to be smart and safe.



ProlificNeeds -> RE: Googling a prospective Dominant/Play partner (2/29/2008 6:41:55 AM)

I google everybody, usually just for a laugh, but when meeting off the net I usually research the person a bit. If they have things they don't want me to know about, then they'd best not try to meet me. I don't deal in secrets.

If he's mad, it should be at himself. You did nothing wrong at all, and should be commended for being upfront about what you found and bringing it to his attention. If it's just from one girl it may only be gossip, in which case why would he be mad? He could have simply explained to you that he had a bad deal with this girl once upon a time. I'd say take his reaction as a healthy wakeup call and start looking hard at him before you get in too deep.



lighthearted -> RE: Googling a prospective Dominant/Play partner (2/29/2008 6:42:01 AM)

I think googling nowadays is on par with looking someone up in the phonebook in the 70s, in a way.  but, this isn't the issue here...it's the reaction, as the OP said.  basically, she picked up on some gossip...there's nothing wrong with wanting to know more about a play partner/Dom/Daddy/whatever.  she is entitled to that information, to say the least.



mnottertail -> RE: Googling a prospective Dominant/Play partner (2/29/2008 6:43:07 AM)

I just googled myself and now I want to fuck myself all over again.

I got me some fucking prosepects!!!!!!!


Ron



littleone35 -> RE: Googling a prospective Dominant/Play partner (2/29/2008 6:43:23 AM)

I did google my Master but only recently.  We have ben together 2 years and i was curious what it would say.  I found his name and the names of 2 of his brothers.  Since i already knew his brothers name it was not very informative. 

To the op  I think your Dom overracated a bit since you were trying to protect him.  I would not discount 100% the post said just be careful.

Matt's littleone



lighthearted -> RE: Goggling a prospective Dominant/Play partner (2/29/2008 6:45:01 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

In my case googling me is almost pointless.

Jeff


me too, unless you happen to know my maiden name.  there's certainly no guarantee googling will yield any information on a person.  but I sure love to do it, it's right up there with perving profiles!



GreedyTop -> RE: Googling a prospective Dominant/Play partner (2/29/2008 6:45:19 AM)

~FR~

just for grins, I googled the three user IDs I normally use.. 2 of them had hits on me.. but also on gay males LOL

FTR: (in case anyone is interested)
the names are:

Greedytop
Greedybottom
Agonyisecstasy

the first 2 are kinda amusing..LOL



Jeffff -> RE: Goggling a prospective Dominant/Play partner (2/29/2008 6:46:47 AM)

Ok, whats your maiden name? it's ok  you can tell me. No one else is lookin.

Jeffwey



mnottertail -> RE: Googling a prospective Dominant/Play partner (2/29/2008 6:47:07 AM)

So if you are two gay males, why isnt the other one in the picture? 

I am beginning to get an odor-de-faque wafting thru the breezeway here.



GreedyTop -> RE: Googling a prospective Dominant/Play partner (2/29/2008 6:50:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

So if you are two gay males, why isnt the other one in the picture? 

I am beginning to get an odor-de-faque wafting thru the breezeway here.


Must be the MPD kickin in.. I don't know who they are

(come out come out whoever you are!)



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Googling a prospective Dominant/Play partner (2/29/2008 6:52:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: TreasureKY

quote:

ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

what can Google tell me that i couldn't get by asking the dominant in question myself?


The truth.

"Trust, but verify."


if you want to verify if the gossip/rumor is true or not, grow some balls and ask the person yourself.



Jeffff -> RE: Googling a prospective Dominant/Play partner (2/29/2008 6:54:15 AM)

No prison record. Thats gotta be a good thing, right?

Jeff



TreasureKY -> RE: Googling a prospective Dominant/Play partner (2/29/2008 6:55:13 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

if you want to verify if the gossip/rumor is true or not, grow some balls and ask the person yourself.


I believe you miss the point, but I'm not surprised.



camille65 -> RE: Googling a prospective Dominant/Play partner (2/29/2008 6:55:50 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MadameShy

Googles Myself

got me wondering what others are saying about Me LOL
 Googling my real name both maiden and married I get zero results, Google my journal name and wowza lol that sure comes up!Googling my dom, nothing comes up.Pffffft @ Google I say.



lronitulstahp -> RE: Googling a prospective Dominant/Play partner (2/29/2008 6:56:04 AM)

i'm ungoogleable...



GreedyTop -> RE: Googling a prospective Dominant/Play partner (2/29/2008 6:57:55 AM)

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ORIGINAL: lronitulstahp

i'm ungoogleable...


but are ya gropeable?? *grins*



lronitulstahp -> RE: Googling a prospective Dominant/Play partner (2/29/2008 6:58:38 AM)

quite...mayhaps, too much!!!



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