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RE: Making subs eat their cum - 2/28/2008 11:07:04 PM

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*grins* I prefer "cum FOR me" but that works too, ya cheeky guy.

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RE: Making subs eat their cum - 2/28/2008 11:07:46 PM

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There's absolutely nothing wrong with the practice, as long as it isn't a hard limit for the sub. Much like any other 'clean up' task, or anything else involving a male's own fluid. Looking at it from a health standpoint alone, consider the fact that who's genital fluid could possibly be safer than your own?

Personally, I don't do this for the humiliation factor. There are other things for that. I would say it relates directly to enforcing the power dynamic. It isn't a practice that most males would do on their own without encouragement.

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RE: Making subs eat their cum - 2/28/2008 11:13:05 PM

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Well put LadyRainfire.
For me the idea of doing that is a difficult one to digest...pardon the pun. Once I cum, my erotic side is quickly put to rest as is the case with most men.

If a Domme requested that I swallowed while i was arroused, I would do anything to accomodate her request...However, once I have cum, I would beg with the best of them to allow me NOT to have to swallow.

That's why many times depending on the submissive, the actual orgasm is towards the end of the session. Unless they're multi-orgasmic. However, there are other things to be done that don't necessarily require quite that an erotic mood. They're still enjoyable though!

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RE: Making subs eat their cum - 2/28/2008 11:17:59 PM

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lol- LadyPact I got a kick out of some of the choices of words in your last post. Yes, I have heard the "clean up task" used before....You should be a politician....subs wouldnt do it without "encouragement"....When you encourage your sub, do you do it with a riding crop in your hand?

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RE: Making subs eat their cum - 2/28/2008 11:24:13 PM

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Lady, I didnt quite follow what you meant by..."there are other things to be done that don't necessarily require quite that an erotic mood" can you elaborate for me please. Thanks, scott

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RE: Making subs eat their cum - 2/28/2008 11:35:48 PM

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lol- LadyPact I got a kick out of some of the choices of words in your last post. Yes, I have heard the "clean up task" used before....You should be a politician....subs wouldnt do it without "encouragement"....When you encourage your sub, do you do it with a riding crop in your hand?

No. I don't need pain to convince anyone of anything. Devotion usually covers it.

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RE: Making subs eat their cum - 2/29/2008 12:41:46 AM

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I'm with LadyPact. I don't do it as punishment, but if a boy makes a mess on me or any of my stuff, he gets to clean it up with his tongue. This also feels awesome!

So yeah, I do it, but only as a clean up task, not as punishment. There was a really disgusting thread on here about the most nasty ways to make a man drink his own cum as punishment. . .I stopped reading it because it made me nauseous.

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RE: Making subs eat their cum - 2/29/2008 12:47:10 AM

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I don't "encourage" with physical force either. I have had no need to. My subs do whatever I ask for the joy of seeing me smile, not because they must be pushed into anything.

I do not make subs eat their own cum. Even the thought revolts me.

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RE: Making subs eat their cum - 2/29/2008 2:16:55 AM

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I'll go with the obvious..it's protein!!!

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RE: Making subs eat their cum - 2/29/2008 3:04:36 AM

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OK - putting this post back on track...how the hell did it get to be all about women swallowing to finish a BJ?(retorical question - no need to answer, I know where the connection was, but then it became ALL about it). btw - was taught a Lady never spits!

YES - If a boy releases in my presence without being given permission to do so, he will be ordered to eat it. It is a humiliating experience, however, has not detered some boys (in fact, they may do it on purpose). I asked one once - sweet or salty, being a smart ass, and he said both - I cackled "like a chocolate covered pretzel!" I have even found along the way in my research, certain positions for forced masturbation so he can try to shoot right in his own mouth -adds to the humiliation...haven't tried that yet, but thinking about it.

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RE: Making subs eat their cum - 2/29/2008 3:36:50 AM

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I have my male sub sample his from time to time, I figure why not women have been swallowing cum for how long? and I don't see a problem with men doing it. He of course had to build up to it, it seems many men have a replusion for cum eating, but with patience and training it came be overcome. Now he eats it without blinking.

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RE: Making subs eat their cum - 2/29/2008 6:55:05 AM

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I don't see why men are so against licking up their own cum once in awhile. Of all my partners vanilla and kinky, I have always been asked to swallow a man's cum, or in lieu if he tasted bad, wear it. Also, all but one of my previous partners wanted to know, and even watch me taste/eat my own fluids.
Of all those partners only ONE male was willing to lick his cum off my stomach (I never ask, he did it of his own accord). I don't know if I'd ever expect it from a guy, but what's good for the goose is good for the gander. They find it hot when I do it, and I find it hot when they do it.

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RE: Making subs eat their cum - 2/29/2008 7:54:25 AM

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Atlanta...you forgot to include degrading in addition to humiliating...Making him cum in his own mouth!!! Boy, you must do some things that really please him in order for him to tolerate that....:) I guess a sub has to take the good with the "not so good".

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RE: Making subs eat their cum - 2/29/2008 7:59:04 AM

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I guess I am of the "repulsion theory". Im not certain if the sun has enough years left in it however to "eat it without blinking". <s>

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RE: Making subs eat their cum - 2/29/2008 8:15:25 AM

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In My dim dark past pre-AIDs and safe sex, the vast majority of male partners expected I would swallow at the end of a successful BJ! And the ladies here will know that the stuff varies widely, some is really hard going, being thick and salty and slimy too! Once I became Domme, I started asking males if they had ever tasted the stuff themselves. No, they said. So I ask them to taste it ... not as punishment, more as education. And I teach them how diet can make a difference and make them far more palatable! Most are quite willing to make changes once they know they will be monitoring the result by taste!

Someone asked about women consuming their own secretions. i absolutely love mine, it is sweet and spicy, smells heavenly, tastes even better. i am positively greedy for Master's fingers after they have been in there ... in fact He knows how to tease by holding them just out of tongue reach but within smell range! Please God that this won't change as menopause continues! So in this case, what's good for the goose IS good for the gander!

And He loves kissing passionately whether He tastes of me or i taste of Him ... oh that's such a heady feeling!

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RE: Making subs eat their cum - 2/29/2008 10:15:33 AM

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I have tasted my own before and I didn't care for it. I don't expect any woman I'm with to swallow...hell, I think I'm one of the few men out there that really could care less if I receive a blow job or not. I'm much more the giver and love to pleasure my girl, especially orally. I've been with only a few women in my life (somewhere between 5 - 10) and I've only enjoyed the taste of about half of them.

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RE: Making subs eat their cum - 2/29/2008 4:12:41 PM

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When I was serving one...I pretty much knew this was going to cum up or happen to me, with her.

The struggle was in my mind...that was all. And a struggle it was.

So, a time when the opportunity was right...I just did it for her and knew from her reaction...that she got off on it.

It was no big deal after that...it was ALL in my mind...tsk tsk

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RE: Making subs eat their cum - 2/29/2008 4:36:43 PM

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Whats that old sayin`...*never say....never*

Didn't we just have a thread about that?

I have to agree with the view that if a guy expects women to swallow, they should have an idea of what it is like. Sort of similar to how police trainees get shocked with a taser before they are issued one to use - it gives them valuable frame of reference.

And yes, I have tried my own. Slimy and bitter, not something I cared to re-sample. I suppose the taste may have improved with a change in diet, but I haven't re-tasted it.

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RE: Making subs eat their cum - 2/29/2008 5:09:30 PM

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As a sub, I have found that many, many dominant truely enjoy making their male subs eat their own cum. Althought I have not had this humiliation forced on me, it has been threatened.

Would you Dommes agree that it is a popular demand?

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RE: Making subs eat their cum - 2/29/2008 5:14:15 PM

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As a sub, I have found that many, many dominant ("dominants") truely ("truly") enjoy making their male subs eat their own cum. (Paragraph) Althought I have not had this humiliation forced on me, it has been threatened.

Would you Dommes agree that it is a popular demand?