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Recreation -> Travel (2/29/2008 7:20:28 AM)
Hi all of you! Travelling a lot, I find it's difficult to find a real sub who can be with you during those travels. Obediant subs, I met prefer to stay 24/7 in the same place than move and have more than one place to be. Of course I speak mostly about european. As I am nearly 10 days in Us, I would like to know if american sub are more interested than european to have such kind of life.

probablyknowme -> RE: Travel (2/29/2008 10:42:46 AM)
gets out the popcorn

DesFIP -> RE: Travel (2/29/2008 10:47:30 AM)
So how is she supposed to keep her job, pay her rent, have a place to come back to after the sudden vacation is over. Say she takes off and loses her job, you going to support her for two years in the current economy? Didn't think so.

SubbieOnWheels -> RE: Travel (2/29/2008 10:50:58 AM)
Who's buying the tickets?

KatyLied -> RE: Travel (2/29/2008 10:52:33 AM)
This sounds like those messages from random doms that go something like this "Hi, I"m going to be in your area in a few weeks, want to get together?" argh.

Justme696 -> RE: Travel (2/29/2008 11:22:47 AM)
at OP the dating part of this website...is behind the next door

probablyknowme -> RE: Travel (2/29/2008 4:09:44 PM)
I had a very thoughtful message from a Dom who was going to be in my state, and he asked if I might temporarily relocate to where he was going to be. He even offered to compensate me for the wages I would loose. I was a little weirded out by the thought, but at least he was polite about it. YKIMKTOK kat

NJDiscipline -> RE: Travel (2/29/2008 4:22:22 PM)
I must admit, what is most important to me is that I find the right slave. When I find her, I don't care what her situation is... I she is ready to be Owned by me 24/7, she can work or not work. Whatever it takes for her to fit into my life as I need. If that means I am supporting her 100%, then so be it. If that means she remains at her job, etc., that's fine to. When it comes down to it...I will adjust to whatever the situation calls for with the right slave. MR. MILLER

happypervert -> RE: Travel (2/29/2008 4:47:25 PM)
quote: As I am nearly 10 days in Us, I would like to know if american sub are more interested than european to have such kind of life. I think you'll have some luck if you make sure to use your best Pepe Le Pew accent on them.

Mercnbeth -> RE: Travel (2/29/2008 4:49:33 PM)
quote: Travelling a lot, I find it's difficult to find a real sub who can be with you during those travels. Obediant subs, I met prefer to stay 24/7 in the same place than move and have more than one place to be. I would like to know if american sub are more interested than european to have such kind of life. Maybe the "obedient" subs weren't real 'real' but only figments of your imagination? Subs who stay in the same place usually turn out to be mannequins, which are not "real". However, I agree with your fundamental desire. My search criteria also included a requirement to be able to join me on my travels, for business and pleasure. Can't speak for all of America, especially south America; but I can assure you there are those who can and will commit to be with you 24/7. Good luck!

MstrTiger -> RE: Travel (2/29/2008 4:57:09 PM)
I get lots of silly messages from such people saying they are going to be in London for a few days and how wonderful it would be if they could find the time to fit me into their busy schedule for a quick kinky fuck one afternoon. Such messages are very annoying mostly because I live 350 miles from London and also because they assume they can use me like some sort of a unpaid dom whore. The very suggestion is almost a scandal!

krikket -> RE: Travel (2/29/2008 5:48:00 PM)
When ever someone says they want to own their sub/slave and support them 100%, i wonder if they really understand exactly what that means. To me it means, medical, dental and life insurance, doctor's appointments, glasses or contacts, salon appointments, clothes, traveling expenses if she needs to return to her home base for periodic visits to family who is ill, schooling if she's already there or wants to get more, child support/alimony, new shoes, speeding tickets....all those "little" things in life that's more than just extra closet space and room for an another tooth brush. Cheers, jimini quote: ORIGINAL: NJDiscipline I must admit, what is most important to me is that I find the right slave. When I find her, I don't care what her situation is... I she is ready to be Owned by me 24/7, she can work or not work. Whatever it takes for her to fit into my life as I need. If that means I am supporting her 100%, then so be it. If that means she remains at her job, etc., that's fine to. When it comes down to it...I will adjust to whatever the situation calls for with the right slave. MR. MILLER

DesFIP -> RE: Travel (2/29/2008 5:50:10 PM)
Plus money to see her through while she gets an apartment of her own and until she finds a job that pays enough to support her. It isn't enough to support her while you're together, you have to think about what happens if it doesn't work out and she shouldn't find herself on the street.

MissHarlet -> RE: Travel (2/29/2008 5:51:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: krikket When ever someone says they want to own their sub/slave and support them 100%, i wonder if they really understand exactly what that means. To me it means, medical, dental and life insurance, doctor's appointments, glasses or contacts, salon appointments, clothes, traveling expenses if she needs to return to her home base for periodic visits to family who is ill, schooling if she's already there or wants to get more, child support/alimony, new shoes, speeding tickets....all those "little" things in life that's more than just extra closet space and room for an another tooth brush. Cheers, jimini quote: ORIGINAL: NJDiscipline I must admit, what is most important to me is that I find the right slave. When I find her, I don't care what her situation is... I she is ready to be Owned by me 24/7, she can work or not work. Whatever it takes for her to fit into my life as I need. If that means I am supporting her 100%, then so be it. If that means she remains at her job, etc., that's fine to. When it comes down to it...I will adjust to whatever the situation calls for with the right slave. MR. MILLER I get emails from Subs that say they want to totally support me too .. and like you Im sure they have no clue what that really entails .... its a great fantasy .. but I suspect is just that .... a fantasy

Griswold -> RE: Travel (2/29/2008 7:18:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Recreation Hi all of you! Travelling a lot, I find it's difficult to find a real sub who can be with you during those travels. Obediant subs, I met prefer to stay 24/7 in the same place than move and have more than one place to be. Of course I speak mostly about european. As I am nearly 10 days in Us, I would like to know if american sub are more interested than european to have such kind of life. Yes, it's a commonly known fact that American subs are more willing to travel than foreign born subs. "Real subs" will travel with you...."fake subs" will not. (I hope I've been of some help).

MissHarlet -> RE: Travel (3/1/2008 8:24:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Griswold quote: ORIGINAL: Recreation Hi all of you! Travelling a lot, I find it's difficult to find a real sub who can be with you during those travels. Obediant subs, I met prefer to stay 24/7 in the same place than move and have more than one place to be. Of course I speak mostly about european. As I am nearly 10 days in Us, I would like to know if american sub are more interested than european to have such kind of life. Yes, it's a commonly known fact that American subs are more willing to travel than foreign born subs. "Real subs" will travel with you...."fake subs" will not. (I hope I've been of some help). Im sure that is true for rweal Dominants too ....vs fakes one

daddysliloneds -> RE: Travel (3/2/2008 10:14:36 AM)
sometimes i wonder what people are thinking when they post things like this because everyone knows, a real dominant wouldn't look for a sub to travel with them; instead they'd have a different sub in every city they travel to, then when they want service, they just call, that's all... and if you think i'm kidding, i am, but only just a little. i happen to know several, single dominants that have the perfect set-up by doing/having exactly what i listed above!

chellekitty -> RE: Travel (3/2/2008 10:47:05 AM)
quote: they can use me like some sort of a unpaid dom whore. The very suggestion is almost a scandal! so that doesn't turn you on? damn....cancel that email.... you know...i would love to travel...but i would like for a relationship to be established, and have a home, and i don't know...be secure, before i begin traveling...traveling is stressful enough, i couldn't imagine trying to establish a relationship on the road (or in the air)...then again, if it were a motorhome ...or we were a warthog and a merecat....but i am Timon, you have to be Pumba... chelle "Home is where the rump rests..."

sirguym -> RE: Travel (3/2/2008 11:19:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daddysliloneds sometimes i wonder what people are thinking when they post things like this because everyone knows, a real dominant wouldn't look for a sub to travel with them; instead they'd have a different sub in every city they travel to, then when they want service, they just call, that's all... and if you think i'm kidding, i am, but only just a little. i happen to know several, single dominants that have the perfect set-up by doing/having exactly what i listed above! I don't think you are kidding at all, I currently am looking for another girl in Kent, (as in SE UK), as I travel there often. I already know 3 or 4 girls there, but sometimes none of them can put me up at short notice.

daddysliloneds -> RE: Travel (3/3/2008 2:30:19 PM)
dude, i said that i know a lot of dominants that have subs to serve them in the many different towns and states they travel to; i never said they mooched a place to stay off of them as well! you can afford to travel, want a submissive at your beck and call, and want her to give you a place to stay while you're there? for fucks sake, quit being a cheap-skate and fork out the money for a room and a nice time for her as well!!!!! quote: ORIGINAL: sirguym quote: ORIGINAL: daddysliloneds sometimes i wonder what people are thinking when they post things like this because everyone knows, a real dominant wouldn't look for a sub to travel with them; instead they'd have a different sub in every city they travel to, then when they want service, they just call, that's all... and if you think i'm kidding, i am, but only just a little. i happen to know several, single dominants that have the perfect set-up by doing/having exactly what i listed above! I don't think you are kidding at all, I currently am looking for another girl in Kent, (as in SE UK), as I travel there often. I already know 3 or 4 girls there, but sometimes none of them can put me up at short notice.

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