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Maya2001 -> RE: What the heck with virginity? (2/29/2008 5:40:56 PM)
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ORIGINAL: CuriousLord
The idea of a girl being clean and unspoiled is often a nice one; I would perfer a virgin girl. But the physical or outward appearance of it means nothing to me if it's fake. Hell, the fact that she had someone performing an operation on her pussy would make her less of a virgin in ways.
So, while I'd perfer a girl who has gone all of these years waiting (which doesn't seem to be that common anymore.. most girls by 20 have had sex), the idea of an operation to make it appear that way has less than zero appeal; I'd perfer if someone didn't get it.
PS- While I'm not entirely sure where my views on virginity come from, I'm guessing my strongly Catholic upbringing has something to do with it. When I've spoken about them in the past here, some have mistaken it for, "Oh, so I'm not attractive because I'm not a virgin." I'd like to point out two things:
A- Virgins are more attractive. It's not that others aren't attractive.
B- And that's for me. It's just a personal perference, like some guys like red hair and others like brown. Some don't even care.
(Added in because I'm tired of getting messages from people about why I don't like them. Grumble.)
a female can often already have the hymen rupture and still be a virgin, be it a fall on a bike or even thru having a paps .... and damn having paps started early to detect possible cancer is more important that saving a hymen to prove virginity. I would not likely be around today if it was not for early paps smears and pelvic exam, I was 23 when I was diagnosed with cancer and underwent surgery, no I was not a virgin at the time but had be having regular paps years prior to the diagnosis. Antiquidated views could end up meaning deaths that could have been prevented, it hac also resulted in newly married men accusing woman of not being virgins on their marriage bed because their hymen was broke by some other cause ...great way to start a relationship ....
Maybe you should reconsider just how important a piece of skin is ....is it more important to your belief/proof of having a virgin than the person who is attached to that bit of skin
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