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organicgirl -> Any tips and advice for using CM? (2/29/2008 11:44:55 AM)
Hi all, I'm a CM newcomer, but have been lurking for a little while. In that time I've noticed a general trend to most of the emails I receive, that is kind of disappointing. I'm sure I don't have to go into details. Today I received one that just said "bitch". I checked back in my mailbox and noticed that this person had sent me one a couple of days ago that I hadn't responded to. I guess I will try wording my profile a bit better to filter some of this out. But the amount of emails I receive is astounding, and most of those people I have no interest in, do I respond to every single one saying yes or no? Obviously the rude and crude ones deserved to be ignored, but does responding to a heartfelt email from someone you have no interest in give the wrong signals? Thanks!

mnottertail -> RE: Any tips and advice for using CM? (2/29/2008 11:46:56 AM)
you are new, only been on for 4 days, it will slow down after about a month. just block and spend most of your time out here. Welcome.

KyttynTheMynx -> RE: Any tips and advice for using CM? (2/29/2008 11:47:54 AM)
1) Don a thick skin. Youre gonna need it for the asshats that run rampant in the shadows here. 2) You are not obligated in any way to respond. If you chose to respond, a "not interested" works. If all else fails, like you said, ignore, ignore, ignore. Or report. Whichever gets the job done better. (sheesh Ron...I make a few typos and youre all over me huh? lol)

organicgirl -> RE: Any tips and advice for using CM? (2/29/2008 12:15:39 PM)
Actually ive been on here longer than that, but just made a new profile 4 days ago. its amazing how many people just copy and paste.

bardtothebone -> RE: Any tips and advice for using CM? (2/29/2008 12:34:11 PM)
A wise man once said, "The two most common elements in the universe are hydrogen...and stupidity." And as you may have noticed, some of CM's inmates have the mining rights to both -- they're nothing but hot air, and dumber than dirt. Just put the ones you don't like on "block" and life will soon become calmer. Welcome. Enjoy. The Bard.

lusciouslips19 -> RE: Any tips and advice for using CM? (2/29/2008 12:37:15 PM)
Put on your hip waders. You will be shoveled a lot of bull crap.

pedpuppy -> RE: Any tips and advice for using CM? (2/29/2008 12:40:17 PM)
hahahaha .. now that sounds like the voice of experience talking about putting on the waders ! There is always the white fag if it gets too much no ? LOL

Jeffff -> RE: Any tips and advice for using CM? (2/29/2008 12:43:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pedpuppy hahahaha .. now that sounds like the voice of experience talking about putting on the waders ! There is always the white fag if it gets too much no ? LOL As a rule try and use the word gay. the fags will appreciate it Jeff

LadyRainfire -> RE: Any tips and advice for using CM? (2/29/2008 12:46:54 PM)
OP, also feel free to just zap out one of the auto-messages that CM provides like busy or no thanks. That's only if you really feel obligated to answer at all. I came to CM at the recommendation of a friend for the forums so deliberately put on my profile that I'm not actively seeking anyone. That has helped somewhat on the emails. It's also given me a chance to be a little more selective on who I cmail back and forth with. Remarkably, I've met a couple of really nice people and am having some great conversations. If someone is really bugging ya (like the idiot calling you a "bitch" because you didn't respond in his timeframe) just block and go on. Obviously you have much better and funner things to do here.

organicgirl -> RE: Any tips and advice for using CM? (2/29/2008 12:50:44 PM)
hahaha I love these boards.

lusciouslips19 -> RE: Any tips and advice for using CM? (2/29/2008 2:06:42 PM)
The boards are great for making friends. Puting that you are not seeking helps but doesnt eliminate all. Some have egos that make them try anyway. Block the jerks, delete the asshats and be nice to the sincere ones. PS. White flags are WAY easier to wave than white Fags. The white flag will wave. So will the white fag. But the white fag will also whine about it![:D]

lronitulstahp -> RE: Any tips and advice for using CM? (2/29/2008 2:34:58 PM)
Welcome. Don't feel obligated to validate every uberdom that cmails you. A polite, "thanks, but am seeking something else..." or something like that should suffice. Most i message in such a manner actually thank me, because it's better to them than a complete ignore....but at times, a msg is missed that's just inevitable. Don't beat yourself up about the nasty mail...laugh and shrug it off. Have fun on the boards and feel free to share tit and pussy pics with all the Doms here....(sorry.... paid endorsement for the Dominant Voyeurs society...)

organicgirl -> RE: Any tips and advice for using CM? (2/29/2008 5:00:23 PM)
Hey um....ok...I went to respond to some of the many emails I have, and half of the accounts are deleted? What the hell is with that? What's going through someone's head that they would just make new profiles everyday. As soon as we see your pic we know WHO YOU ARE. Thats assuming you are sending YOUR pic. jeez.

lronitulstahp -> RE: Any tips and advice for using CM? (2/29/2008 5:26:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: organicgirl Hey um....ok...I went to respond to some of the many emails I have, and half of the accounts are deleted? What the hell is with that? What's going through someone's head that they would just make new profiles everyday. As soon as we see your pic we know WHO YOU ARE. Thats assuming you are sending YOUR pic. jeez. accounts deleted can mean meany things... Perhaps the wife came back from a business trip early, found him wanking to BDSM porn, and he has found religion...for the time being... Or, perhaps he accidently sent a cock pic to the same sub he met, one offed, and never called back and he's afraid she'll out him somehow...so he has to change his moniker, which sucks really because it's like the 11th time he's had to do this, and he still can't manage to keep from starting out with "I am a Dominate male..." Whatever happened...they'll be back THEY ALWAYS COME BACK!!!!(in my best Mart Feldman as Igor voice)

organicgirl -> RE: Any tips and advice for using CM? (2/29/2008 5:51:57 PM)
haha you guys are hilarious

AcademyForSlaves -> RE: Any tips and advice for using CM? (2/29/2008 6:21:03 PM)
Hi organicgirl. Welcome to Collarme. You'll love this site. It might seem rude to ignore an email or message but if that person was rude to you there's no reason to worry about their feelings so much. Ignoring also gets ride of an unwanted person faster too. Like they say, sometimes no response is better than any response. So ignore those who do not deserve your attention, and always be polite to all others who deserve kindness. Good luck!! :)

lusciouslips19 -> RE: Any tips and advice for using CM? (2/29/2008 6:28:11 PM)
Stay away from those that say, "I am a Master of the expert rank". I mean who proclaimed them? Did they go to Uberdom school? Did they get a blackbelt in Domliness??? I tend to stay away from those who think they are experts and specialize in everything.

RedMagic1 -> RE: Any tips and advice for using CM? (2/29/2008 6:31:13 PM)
My lady friend is an "organic girl" too. We don't exactly fit a Master-n-bitch Leather BDSM stereotype. We met online. Now I beat her ass and she helps me eliminate chemicals and flesh from my diet. Twue wuv. Unsolicited mail is junk mail. You can choose to respond -- or not -- as you see fit. You have no Miss Manners obligation to do so. I met several women online-to-real when I was looking, and I probably would have written you. You seem interesting. Best of lick -- I mean, luck.

MONS44 -> RE: Any tips and advice for using CM? (3/1/2008 3:03:04 PM)
greetings all ....I too have been lurking around here prob to long .....but thought I'd just pop in and say hi .....

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