CanisMajor
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one observation i've had in reading various profiles is that lots of folks seem to have "traditional" relationships with their doms/masters outside of the bdsm activities (ie husband/wife, living together, etc). if i may ask those of you in that position, does the outside relationship enhance/strengthen the bdsm bond, or do the two not really have anything to do with each other?
To me, the question does not make sense. My relationship with my partner is "traditional" in many ways or has traditional attributes, but the traditional elements of that relationship are not an "outside relationship." We don't slice the relationship into "our traditional relationship" and "our kinky one;" it is all just one relationship.
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and do you think it's possible to have a fulfilling bdsm relationship if you didn't have such a relationship (ie if the two of you really were only involved as a master/slave and nothing else)? thanks in advance, and hope my ramblings made sense!
Sure it is possible. We know people who have done it. It isn't the thing for us, but who are we to set the standards.
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RE: bdsm and "traditional" relationships - 
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